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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wonder how many people on here are in a sexless or sex occasionally marriage. I am despite being a couple on here. I find no excitement on porn sites (too fake these days) but enjoy a lot of the genuine photos and chat on here.
We have great sex, just not often enough (for me) and it is frustrating, but she has her reasons and is working though them.
If anyone else is in this situation, PM your mobile and we can chat on Whatsapp maybe Colin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my mrs haven't had any sexual contact with each other for over 8 years which is a shame because she's an extremely sexy woman but has zero interest in sex whatsoever.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me and my mrs haven't had any sexual contact with each other for over 8 years which is a shame because she's an extremely sexy woman but has zero interest in sex whatsoever.
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That's why we end up on here hey, seems a shame, but glad it is here ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's why I'm on here, I'd love for her to someway get some sort of libido back and join in on here but at the moment even the mention of the topic of sex is off limits |
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"I wonder how many people on here are in a sexless or sex occasionally marriage. I am despite being a couple on here. I find no excitement on porn sites (too fake these days) but enjoy a lot of the genuine photos and chat on here.
We have great sex, just not often enough (for me) and it is frustrating, but she has her reasons and is working though them.
If anyone else is in this situation, PM your mobile and we can chat on Whatsapp maybe Colin"
Would your wife appreciate you discussing her private sex life with total strangers, especially as she's also a member here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many people on here are in a sexless or sex occasionally marriage. I am despite being a couple on here. I find no excitement on porn sites (too fake these days) but enjoy a lot of the genuine photos and chat on here.
We have great sex, just not often enough (for me) and it is frustrating, but she has her reasons and is working though them.
If anyone else is in this situation, PM your mobile and we can chat on Whatsapp maybe Colin
Would your wife appreciate you discussing her private sex life with total strangers, especially as she's also a member here?
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Yes she definately would, I know that because I asked her first, why wouldn't I? I why would you assume I hadn't? |
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"I wonder how many people on here are in a sexless or sex occasionally marriage. I am despite being a couple on here. I find no excitement on porn sites (too fake these days) but enjoy a lot of the genuine photos and chat on here.
We have great sex, just not often enough (for me) and it is frustrating, but she has her reasons and is working though them.
If anyone else is in this situation, PM your mobile and we can chat on Whatsapp maybe Colin
Would your wife appreciate you discussing her private sex life with total strangers, especially as she's also a member here?
Yes she definately would, I know that because I asked her first, why wouldn't I? I why would you assume I hadn't?"
Because you're writing in the first person, if your wife was approving of your post I would have expected references to 'we' and a view from her perspective, given it's a couples profile you have.
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"I wonder how many people on here are in a sexless or sex occasionally marriage. I am despite being a couple on here. I find no excitement on porn sites (too fake these days) but enjoy a lot of the genuine photos and chat on here.
We have great sex, just not often enough (for me) and it is frustrating, but she has her reasons and is working though them.
If anyone else is in this situation, PM your mobile and we can chat on Whatsapp maybe Colin
Would your wife appreciate you discussing her private sex life with total strangers, especially as she's also a member here?
Yes she definately would, I know that because I asked her first, why wouldn't I? I why would you assume I hadn't?
Because you're writing in the first person, if your wife was approving of your post I would have expected references to 'we' and a view from her perspective, given it's a couples profile you have.
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I found I got bored with having sex with my ex even, when we got on really well. I don't know how you can't after several years. We had kids at home, we both worked, with him doing shifts. That, and everyday boring life just sucked the life out of me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those interested, my wife has login and she has access to my Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, emails, SMS, fab, bank, as I have hers, so no need to worry.
Please note, the post was intended for those in a sexless marriage to chat, those who feel the need to voice GDPR concerns for my wife can now rest. |
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I feel Im in the same boat as you Colin and porn isnt all its cracked up to be (a fucking plumber is never coming round that quick lol) but I just like coming on for a chat and perv but the abuse you get when someone asks if your single is bang out of order theres a lot more on here who wouldnt answer that question honestly. |
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I was for many years. Played the perfect husband and father until the boys were in late teens. The crunch was when they no longer came on holiday with us. I sat in a beautiful village in southern France and thought what the fuck am I doing with my life. I left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can relate to you OP, but for different reasons.
As well as my Mrs not fancying me anymore, she also suffers with Crohn's. I haven't been allowed 'down there' for years and years.
We love each other very much and still get on really well.
Needless to say, I need to self satisfy most nights. |
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"I can relate to you OP, but for different reasons.
As well as my Mrs not fancying me anymore, she also suffers with Crohn's. I haven't been allowed 'down there' for years and years.
We love each other very much and still get on really well.
Needless to say, I need to self satisfy most nights. "
That's such a shame. You are in great shape and a lot of guys half your age would want your physique.
Drop me a message if you fancy a gym buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can relate to you OP, but for different reasons.
As well as my Mrs not fancying me anymore, she also suffers with Crohn's. I haven't been allowed 'down there' for years and years.
We love each other very much and still get on really well.
Needless to say, I need to self satisfy most nights.
That's such a shame. You are in great shape and a lot of guys half your age would want your physique.
Drop me a message if you fancy a gym buddy"
That's really nice of you to say, thank you for that! |
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"I am in the same boat. We are having difficulties. I cannot turn her on.
Its not a nice feeling "
I am past myself. I love her to bits and we have a lovely family. But the frustration is eating away at me. I try talking to her but cannot turn her on. I often wonder if she does not fancy me. She says she does but I doubt her |
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If shes not willing to have sex with you for whatever reason what gives you the idea she would have sex with complete strangers on here ?
surely your priority should be to try and work things out between you rather than trying to introduce a third party for sex!... that could be asking for trouble ! |
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By *ilkyladyWoman
over a year ago
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I was friends with a guy for a year until we got together, then it turned out he wasn't that into sex. 2 frustrating months with him and I had to get out. He just made endless excuses and our couple attempts at intimacy were a bit awkward. Some people don't want that much sex and I need a relationship where we do. Some people are like that I'm afraid. |
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