Hello all
Firstly hope you are all well and staying safe during the current shit storm we are going through!
I was hoping to get some advice in how to bring up the subject of swinging to my quite vanilla wife! I would love to try it and personally get turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy/lady (dont think she is bi) but I know she is very vanilla in the bedroom department!
Not sure how I could bring it up without causing her huge offence and causing an argument!
Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated
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I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!
I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!
I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either  ) |
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"I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!
I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!
I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )"
Maybe you need to discover what switches her on? |
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"I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!
I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!
I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )
Maybe you need to discover what switches her on?"
We have been together years and I've tried just about bloody everything to switch her on! |
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"Are you sure that she is not getting it from someone else, maybe she is already on here? Have you tried a local search?? X "
Definitely not on here and doubt she is getting elsewhere as she doesn't go out enough for that to happen! |
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"Hello all
Firstly hope you are all well and staying safe during the current shit storm we are going through!
I was hoping to get some advice in how to bring up the subject of swinging to my quite vanilla wife! I would love to try it and personally get turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy/lady (dont think she is bi) but I know she is very vanilla in the bedroom department!
Not sure how I could bring it up without causing her huge offence and causing an argument!
Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated
Thanks"
This is a hard one dude (no pun intended)
Hope you both manage to find what you are seeking.
It can be really hard when one person has a higher sex drive than the other.
Keep us posted.
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"Have you considered divorce!
Yes, but to be fair I do love her to bits, she is a great woman just boring as fuck in the bedroom!"
What if she finds you boring and therefore doesn't bother anymore? |
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"Have you considered divorce!
Yes, but to be fair I do love her to bits, she is a great woman just boring as fuck in the bedroom!
What if she finds you boring and therefore doesn't bother anymore?"
Ok, that's an interesting twist on my dilemma!
Although I dont see myself as boring, to be fair I'm the one on here looking for advice on swinging! |
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"Hello all
Firstly hope you are all well and staying safe during the current shit storm we are going through!
I was hoping to get some advice in how to bring up the subject of swinging to my quite vanilla wife! I would love to try it and personally get turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy/lady (dont think she is bi) but I know she is very vanilla in the bedroom department!
Not sure how I could bring it up without causing her huge offence and causing an argument!
Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated
Thanks
This is a hard one dude (no pun intended)
Hope you both manage to find what you are seeking.
It can be really hard when one person has a higher sex drive than the other.
Keep us posted.
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"I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!
I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!
I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )"
Flogging a dead horse fella, dare say others will shout me down, been there had that tee shirt, eventually had enough after years without a decent shag, time to face facts tbh!  |
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"Probably need advice from a relationship councillor rather than a swing site"
To be fair my relationship is pretty perfect, the only complaint is the lack of fun in the bedroom! Apart from that we have a very healthy relationship |
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