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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx  "
I think its some of the hookers doing themselfs out of business by being on here and escorts site with the same pix so if a guy spots one on here he's hardly gonna pay for it if he can get it here for free is he !  |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
I think its some of the hookers doing themselfs out of business by being on here and escorts site with the same pix so if a guy spots one on here he's hardly gonna pay for it if he can get it here for free is he ! "
actually when I was doing it, if a guy contacted me on here saying I had seen you on the adult site.. I would not meet him from here or there.. 
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
I think its some of the hookers doing themselfs out of business by being on here and escorts site with the same pix so if a guy spots one on here he's hardly gonna pay for it if he can get it here for free is he !
actually when I was doing it, if a guy contacted me on here saying I had seen you on the adult site.. I would not meet him from here or there..
Cali "
most guys probably wouldnt admit they had see you on the other site i dont think |
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most guys probably wouldnt admit they had see you on the other site i dont think "
It happens a lot lol.. and to be honest the worst was when I said THanks but no thanks to someone .. then he tried to book me..
I dont do it now, but I found that to be rather cheeky.. as if he wasnt my type.. he wasnt my type regardless. lol
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most guys probably wouldnt admit they had see you on the other site i dont think
It happens a lot lol.. and to be honest the worst was when I said THanks but no thanks to someone .. then he tried to book me..
I dont do it now, but I found that to be rather cheeky.. as if he wasnt my type.. he wasnt my type regardless. lol
Cali "
lol true |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are "
i dont know a single sex worker who plays rugby union. |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are
i dont know a single sex worker who plays rugby union."
My thoughts exactly |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are
i dont know a single sex worker who plays rugby union."
My laptop is now wearing my tea.. and yes its a horrible word.. I actually prefer whore over that word.. actually whore can be rather mmmm |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are "
In my mind, that's similar to suggesting the bottom line is are slags. |
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"someone who offers sexual services for payment ....what would u call them then ?"
a professional??? just an idea.
or jammy.. lucky.. I don't know but hooker is a demeaning title.
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are
In my mind, that's similar to suggesting the bottom line is are slags. "
yup...by there words shall you know them. |
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"someone who offers sexual services for payment ....what would u call them then ?
sex worker...which is what most call themselves...a non judgemental, non demeaning name."
a good mate of mine refers to her day job as being a stress therapist.. lol She is an escort but well.. guess that title works too lol
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We had a similar conversation last night at chams . We met a couple who made their living from an adult cam site and make up to 200 pounds a night ( about two hours performing wiith each other but doing what the audience ask them to do )
Tempting it is , but we do this for our pleasure and do what we wanna do so it's different altogether from doing what someone else wants us to do . So whether it's prostitution or any other act where one is paid to do as someone else wants , swinging is a different thing altogether and the two can't really be compared  |
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"There are lots of names to use to describe a prostitute..even that one someone will complain about.
Me...I will call prostitutes what I want without people telling me it is wrong.
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You can apply that reasoning to female swingers...using similar or same words |
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"someone who offers sexual services for payment ....what would u call them then ?
sex worker...which is what most call themselves...a non judgemental, non demeaning name."
Of course they do no one wants to be called a prostitute ,hooker or whore do they ...all im saying is someone in this profession are what they are we all have diffrent words to describe them . |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are
i dont know a single sex worker who plays rugby union.
My laptop is now wearing my tea.. and yes its a horrible word.. I actually prefer whore over that word.. actually whore can be rather mmmm "
i like whore...like cunt its good old fashioned angle saxon, and comes from a root of meaning to desire...
One of my favourite qiutes from a courtesan, and as you know coutesans are a bit of an obsession of mine, comes from Nell Gwyn (lover of Charles the second).
The mob attacked her carriage in one of the many riots about religion of the time, and she leaned out of the window and cried.
"Faith i am the protestant whore!"
She was led triumpahantly to the theatre by the same crowd that had been attacking her.
Soory about the lappy btw |
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"someone who offers sexual services for payment ....what would u call them then ?
sex worker...which is what most call themselves...a non judgemental, non demeaning name.
Of course they do no one wants to be called a prostitute ,hooker or whore do they ...all im saying is someone in this profession are what they are we all have diffrent words to describe them ."
ok then then u dont mind if men call u a filthy fat slag for being on a swinging site then...after all its just words?
People who are prostitutes have no problem with the word prostitute...words like hooker are demeaning and indicate your attitude towards them. |
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"Tempting it is , but we do this for our pleasure and do what we wanna do so it's different altogether from doing what someone else wants us to do . So whether it's prostitution or any other act where one is paid to do as someone else wants , swinging is a different thing altogether and the two can't really be compared "
TOTALLY AGREE but Im a swinger as well as you, I would imagine that women outside of swinginging would dissagree tho.  |
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"There are lots of names to use to describe a prostitute..even that one someone will complain about.
Me...I will call prostitutes what I want without people telling me it is wrong.
You can apply that reasoning to female swingers...using similar or same words "
Sorry, I am not with you? |
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"someone who offers sexual services for payment ....what would u call them then ?
sex worker...which is what most call themselves...a non judgemental, non demeaning name.
Of course they do no one wants to be called a prostitute ,hooker or whore do they ...all im saying is someone in this profession are what they are we all have diffrent words to describe them .
ok then then u dont mind if men call u a filthy fat slag for being on a swinging site then...after all its just words?
People who are prostitutes have no problem with the word prostitute...words like hooker are demeaning and indicate your attitude towards them."
eh yes i do mind actually im talking about no one in general you on the other hand are being insulting with your comments |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx
no...though many sex workers dont like the word hooker.
Many dont but the bottom line is thats what they are
In my mind, that's similar to suggesting the bottom line is are slags.
yup...by there words shall you know them."
Was supposed to say.... It's like saying bottom line is Swingers are slags, but my phone refused to use the word swingers,lol. |
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"I will call prostitutes what I want without people telling me it is wrong"
Can be changed to.... i will call SWINGERS what I want without people telling me it is wrong
my meaning being...women outside off both swinging and prostitution will prob use similar words for both....and its insulting.
NOT that I think theres a comparison between activities. |
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"In fairness Jem said "men" calling not actually "me" calling lol chillax girls   "
yes thank you pimp i saw what was said it was the reference to filthy fat slag
rather that just slag that was offensive |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"I will call prostitutes what I want without people telling me it is wrong
Can be changed to.... i will call SWINGERS what I want without people telling me it is wrong
my meaning being...women outside off both swinging and prostitution will prob use similar words for both....and its insulting.
NOT that I think theres a comparison between activities."
Ah right.
I might clear what I said up then....I use the word prostitute to describe a....prostitute. I have been told in the past this isn't a good word to use....to those people I would say tough, this is the word I use to describe prostitutes because that is what they are. |
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I think that anyone that indulges in sex be it for fun or money risks labels from others.
I see no difference in swinging how I do to paid work except for the fee lol but then I like impersonal sex mostly. Lol
I get what Jem is explaining... And that is that how would you feel if people refered to you in a demeaning manner because of your swinging...
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"In fairness Jem said "men" calling not actually "me" calling lol chillax girls
yes thank you pimp i saw what was said it was the reference to filthy fat slag
rather that just slag that was offensive "
well surely only someone that was filthy and fat would take offence  |
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"I will call prostitutes what I want without people telling me it is wrong
Can be changed to.... i will call SWINGERS what I want without people telling me it is wrong
my meaning being...women outside off both swinging and prostitution will prob use similar words for both....and its insulting.
NOT that I think theres a comparison between activities.
Ah right.
I might clear what I said up then....I use the word prostitute to describe a....prostitute. I have been told in the past this isn't a good word to use....to those people I would say tough, this is the word I use to describe prostitutes because that is what they are. "
Were on the same page then lol xxx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"I will call prostitutes what I want without people telling me it is wrong
Can be changed to.... i will call SWINGERS what I want without people telling me it is wrong
my meaning being...women outside off both swinging and prostitution will prob use similar words for both....and its insulting.
NOT that I think theres a comparison between activities.
Ah right.
I might clear what I said up then....I use the word prostitute to describe a....prostitute. I have been told in the past this isn't a good word to use....to those people I would say tough, this is the word I use to describe prostitutes because that is what they are.
Were on the same page then lol xxx"
I always knew we were |
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I don't think swingers are doing prostitutes a disservice because there is no comparison between prostitution and swinging.
I am a swinger and therefore I play by my rules and I do with my body what I wish, when and where and with whomever I choose. The guys I play with are chosen by me because I like them, I get on well and enjoy a good rapport and I find them attractive.
Prostitution is selling your body for financial gain and, some would argue that they can choose what clients they see, many prostitutes are swayed by payment.
There always seems to be an idealised view of prostitutes on this site by people who seem to think that if you enjoy sex why not get paid. I find that a very naïve view as the reality is that its often a demoralising and dangerous profession. It is not Pretty Woman and Belle De Jour.
I am a swinger but I would never ever work as a prostitute because to me it signifies rock bottom. The only thing we truly own for ourselves is our body and mind, to sell that day in day out is very demeaning to me. |
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx "
ive spotted a few on here who are on escort sites.suppose its cheaper to meet them here
unless the suddenley drop the money issue.they were rough though so wouldnt be too expensive |
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See I cant see any difference between what I do when in the past I have charged, and what I do with meets. Except the obvious financial bonus.
For me it was simple getting paid for what I give out on here for free.. Made sense for a while.
I stopped because I currently don't have the chance to.. rather than that I found any fault with it. Actually I found it quite good, men giving me cash for what I enjoy doing anyway..
there are plenty of women that do it because they enjoy it..
Cali |
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One of my favourite qiutes from a courtesan, and as you know coutesans are a bit of an obsession of mine, comes from Nell Gwyn (lover of Charles the second).
The mob attacked her carriage in one of the many riots about religion of the time, and she leaned out of the window and cried.
"Faith i am the protestant whore!"
She was led triumpahantly to the theatre by the same crowd that had been attacking her.
Soory about the lappy btw "
I didn't notice who posted this and was like "I bet that's Jems" Scroll up and voila!  |
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"See I cant see any difference between what I do when in the past I have charged, and what I do with meets. Except the obvious financial bonus.
For me it was simple getting paid for what I give out on here for free.. Made sense for a while.
I stopped because I currently don't have the chance to.. rather than that I found any fault with it. Actually I found it quite good, men giving me cash for what I enjoy doing anyway..
there are plenty of women that do it because they enjoy it..
Cali "
I agree id quite happily charge some one.
Beats being stuck in a dead end job that you hate |
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"I think that anyone that indulges in sex be it for fun or money risks labels from others.
I see no difference in swinging how I do to paid work except for the fee lol but then I like impersonal sex mostly. Lol
I get what Jem is explaining... And that is that how would you feel if people refered to you in a demeaning manner because of your swinging...
Cali "
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"Doing them out of a job giving it away for free , lol xxx "
Are we bovvud? We don't give it away for free we find sexy peeps for adult playtime, our pleasure and hopefully theirs too.
Two very different worlds. |
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