Being a lover of all things sexual I like both rough ie.. Scratching biting dirty talk holding by the throat hair pulling hard fast etc.. And sensual ie.. Stroking kissing etc.. Ideally mixing the two together so my question is what do people prefer both in a swinging situation and a personal one |
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Depends on my mood and who im with, there are some things i love that i wouldnt do with people off here as some things need a certain amount of trust and i dont get that trust with people i meet thro swinging, as most of my meets are one off's so ive never built up a friendship of trust with any guy ive met off here
But i love everything with the right person, everything has its time and place  |
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"I see rough sex as more impersonal but as you've all stated there needs to be trust so does that not cancel out the impersonal part of it lol "
depends who your doing it with
not all sex is done with random strangers off sex site |
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I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.
Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.
So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful  |
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"I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.
Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.
So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful "
We'll be round later. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Rather not have sensual sex on a meet, rather save that for my OH. Do like a ellimant of rough sex, the more we have got to know someone the rougher I like it. My OH likes sensual sex on a meet so if we get a couple who are like us one likes rough one like sensual then we hit the jackpot. As for the trust we never play alone so my OH is always there to watch over things x |
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over a year ago
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Rougher sex can be very sensual and passionate with someone that knows what they're doing and understands you well
To have a combination of both is very erotic for me
Any hint of rough for the sake of enjoying the fact it may actually be hurting me could result in pain for the other person  |
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over a year ago
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The best rough sex I have ever had was the bucking bronco
Hard fast doggy style the put arms around the neck n whisper your mot as good as your sister .... Ride em cowboy  |
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"I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.
Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.
So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful "
I completely agree, as I hate rough sex, either with Cookies or anyone else. Not into pain, although a wee slap on the bum / boob is nice during sex. |
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"I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.
Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.
So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful
We'll be round later. "
Ooo sounds like my lucky day |
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Personally I think there's rough and rough .... etc ... some can be way too much, but a little bit of giddiness is good .... so for me personally no pinching, slapping, throat grabbing, but more a light playful smack on backside and firm thrusting with the giddy side of sex is great. |
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Definitely slow and sensual. That way there's so much time to enjoy all the little tiny intimate aspects.
I remember when I was 18, kissing my then girlfriend for what we thought was about 3 mins, neither of us could believe it when we looked at the clock and realised we'd been snogging for nearly 20 minutes. I was nearly late for work because of that lol.
No slow and sensual everytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Rough sex can be risky with strangers. I pulled a girl in a club who liked it rough and reported me to the police the following day!! Thankfully she told her sister that it was a heat of the moment thing and she actually consented and her sister went straight to the police and saved me from being tarred (and charged) with a life ruining accusation!
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