It would probably hurt if you just dive straight in and try taking a massive strapon, just need to use toys first getting bigger as you go and use plenty of lube, then start with smaller slimmer strapons and again work your way up as you feel comfortable |
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"Does it hurt?
Bit of a fantasy of mine would like to be eased in gently"
Any first anal fun will hurt. Get yourself some toys and work up to a dildo.
Never been pegged but so wanna try. Had a couple of cocks in my arse but a woman doing me is a fantasy of mine |
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"Does it hurt?
Bit of a fantasy of mine would like to be eased in gently
Any first anal fun will hurt. Get yourself some toys and work up to a dildo.
Never been pegged but so wanna try. Had a couple of cocks in my arse but a woman doing me is a fantasy of mine"
I'd have to disagree! Anal done right should absolutely not be painful. There may be a feeling of tightness, and quite a bit of resistance, but the key things are to relax, go slow, and use lots of lube. Generally speaking when you think you've got enough lube, add more!
Pain is a telltale sign that you are causing damage, and anal tearing is absolutely not fun, and will put you off. Considering its entirely possible to take a fist (and more) anally without damaging your body, it's clearly all a question of being sensible and listening to your body. |
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"Does it hurt?
Bit of a fantasy of mine would like to be eased in gently
Any first anal fun will hurt. Get yourself some toys and work up to a dildo.
Never been pegged but so wanna try. Had a couple of cocks in my arse but a woman doing me is a fantasy of mine
I'd have to disagree! Anal done right should absolutely not be painful. There may be a feeling of tightness, and quite a bit of resistance, but the key things are to relax, go slow, and use lots of lube. Generally speaking when you think you've got enough lube, add more!
Pain is a telltale sign that you are causing damage, and anal tearing is absolutely not fun, and will put you off. Considering its entirely possible to take a fist (and more) anally without damaging your body, it's clearly all a question of being sensible and listening to your body. "
I agree but also disagree. Anal with a toy (pegging) isn’t the same as cock. A real cock bends the right way and a dildo has no give, hope that makes sense lol. |
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"Does it hurt?
Bit of a fantasy of mine would like to be eased in gently
Any first anal fun will hurt. Get yourself some toys and work up to a dildo.
Never been pegged but so wanna try. Had a couple of cocks in my arse but a woman doing me is a fantasy of mine
I'd have to disagree! Anal done right should absolutely not be painful. There may be a feeling of tightness, and quite a bit of resistance, but the key things are to relax, go slow, and use lots of lube. Generally speaking when you think you've got enough lube, add more!
Pain is a telltale sign that you are causing damage, and anal tearing is absolutely not fun, and will put you off. Considering its entirely possible to take a fist (and more) anally without damaging your body, it's clearly all a question of being sensible and listening to your body.
I agree but also disagree. Anal with a toy (pegging) isn’t the same as cock. A real cock bends the right way and a dildo has no give, hope that makes sense lol. "
Depends on the dildo - we tend to use soft, medical-grade silicone for our larger toys, which have a reasonable amount of give, with a relatively firm core. In fact they're probably more giving than the average cock, but it depends on the size and depth of the toy.
It's all very subjective as we all have very slightly different anatomies, but that's why listening to your body is key. Yes it'll feel tight at first, and perhaps even slightly uncomfortable as you acclimatise to having something inserted inside of you, but any real pain and you should slow down, use more lube, or try a smaller toy. Some days you've just got to take a break and come back later - a lot of the time once you start to tense up it can be difficult (if not impossible) to relax yourself - especially when you first start out. |
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By *anSMan
over a year ago
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I’ve been on the receiving end a couple of times..
First time was with a relatively small one, probably no more than two fingers thick, and about 5”..
I was surprised at how quickly I got used to it, and how good it felt..
Skip forward a few years, I met up with a fellow Fabber, who had a much larger toy (around 1.5”-2.0” diameter), 8-9” long, she was very gentle to begin with, but I was soon pushing back and taking it to the hilt  ..
Met her a few times actually ;-D
Reasonable levels of lube used on all occasions
Something I’d love to repeat someday, just need a willing pegger lol.. |
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"Does it hurt?
Bit of a fantasy of mine would like to be eased in gently"
It can do..very much an acquired taste.
It's weird when it comes out you feel like you are going to have an accident..1st time I was like..get out  |
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"There is always the opportunity to upgrade to the 'real thing'..."
Pegging is not a gateway to being fucked by a man. It just means a man wants to be fucked by a woman  |
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I've just been pegged for the first time I'm literally sat in the car outside of the house it was the most extreme pleasure I think I've ever felt
But like they say on here lots and lots of lube and go at your own pace and start with a finger first then move up to 2 two and then start with the strap on |
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"I've just been pegged for the first time I'm literally sat in the car outside of the house it was the most extreme pleasure I think I've ever felt
But like they say on here lots and lots of lube and go at your own pace and start with a finger first then move up to 2 two and then start with the strap on"
My man! Congrats on popping your anal cherry. By the sounds of it you'll be going back for more?
Happy for you! |
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By *anSMan
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"I've just been pegged for the first time I'm literally sat in the car outside of the house it was the most extreme pleasure I think I've ever felt."
Who, where, when??
Cumbria is only 3hrs(ish) drive for me haha.. |
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"I've just been pegged for the first time I'm literally sat in the car outside of the house it was the most extreme pleasure I think I've ever felt.
Who, where, when??
Cumbria is only 3hrs(ish) drive for me haha.."
I'm not telling she is all mine lol |
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Tho with plenty of lube and the right rythym I can imagine it be lots of fun rather than with just toys alone x