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Can we not share timewasters and fakes in DMs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone
I think we can't name and shame fakes and timewasters and rude profiles in public anymore but we can share their names on personal DMs, can't we ?
We are more than happy to share our experiences so other couples can be alert .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not put it behind you and carry on. We have all been let down at some point. "
It's not about putting behind us or anyone ,I thought sharing may help making the site cleaner .
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Why not put it behind you and carry on. We have all been let down at some point.
It's not about putting behind us or anyone ,I thought sharing may help making the site cleaner .
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I suppose it depends on your definition of time wasting and rudeness. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No one can stop you but I don't think it's worth the energy. Block and move on and don't waste a second longer  xxx"
Offcourse we all do block assholes here and move on until someone gets stung by them. There are many newbies who may require assistance using this site.
Such steps may help.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on your definition of time wasting and rudeness."
Abusive
Arrogant
Obnoxious
Condescending
Fixing a meet and then not turning up
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The couple in question - she likes those shoes doesn’t she? "
You mean Rejection?
That's not the question here but general behavior and attitude or experiences, could be disaster meets etc |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on your definition of time wasting and rudeness.
Abusive
Arrogant
Obnoxious
Condescending
Fixing a meet and then not turning up
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The ones who don't turn up for a meet can be reported.
Everything else on your list seems rather subjective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What someone seems like a time waster and fake to you may not seem the same to someone else. People are too quick to through the terms around without good reason.
If someone sent us a message slagging someone else - they'd be the ones going onto our block list.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What someone seems like a time waster and fake to you may not seem the same to someone else. People are too quick to through the terms around without good reason.
If someone sent us a message slagging someone else - they'd be the ones going onto our block list.
Mrs"
Yes, them ones |
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"The couple in question - she likes those shoes doesn’t she?
You mean Rejection?
That's not the question here but general behavior and attitude or experiences, could be disaster meets etc "
I was joking cos she has lots of pics of her shoes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What someone seems like a time waster and fake to you may not seem the same to someone else. People are too quick to through the terms around without good reason.
If someone sent us a message slagging someone else - they'd be the ones going onto our block list.
Mrs
Yes, them ones "
Let me clarify - if you sent us a message saying X and Y are time wasters, we would read it as you slagging them off.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You mentioned helping newbies...so people you don't really know? You could shoot yourself in the foot. People generally don't like being warned off others. "
Well we sought help from many people here in the past about meets by going through veris and other usual things .
And we do share the info in our meets too " Fab stories "
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If someone sent us a message slagging someone else - they'd be the ones going onto our block list.
Mrs"
This  I would see the sender as trying to cause trouble regardless of their reasons for doing so |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What someone seems like a time waster and fake to you may not seem the same to someone else. People are too quick to through the terms around without good reason.
If someone sent us a message slagging someone else - they'd be the ones going onto our block list.
Mrs
Yes, them ones
Let me clarify - if you sent us a message saying X and Y are time wasters, we would read it as you slagging them off.
Mrs"
Slagging why ? We don't know them to slag about ,we can only share our experience.
I am just asking ,you may be right |
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"You mentioned helping newbies...so people you don't really know? You could shoot yourself in the foot. People generally don't like being warned off others.
Well we sought help from many people here in the past about meets by going through veris and other usual things .
And we do share the info in our meets too " Fab stories "
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You share details of your meets? |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
Fairy Land |
"I use fabguys much more than this site but tbh, I think I can spot a time waster a mile off. There's so many obvious red flags to look for. "
Pretty much this (aside from the fact I’m not on Fab Guys) but the red flags do scream out easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And we do share the info in our meets too " Fab stories "
That's just wonderful 
Mrs
Thanks , everybody does by the way "
I can assure you not everybody. We've been on the site for over 2 years with a little break in between - no stories about any other meets were shared by anybody.
Mrs |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
Mancetter? |
"You mentioned helping newbies...so people you don't really know? You could shoot yourself in the foot. People generally don't like being warned off others.
Well we sought help from many people here in the past about meets by going through veris and other usual things .
And we do share the info in our meets too " Fab stories "
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Your now getting into the realms of being indiscreet ????? I basically PM any unsavoury users tell THEM my reason for my upset then dont block ......gives them the opportunity to apologise, and take constructive critisism to help them be better...... go off with their tail between their arse cheeks or give me a torent of abuse .......which i laugh at and block them. Then i move on.......Lifes for Livin Not For Long xx |
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