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Smile on your pictures, add some with more variety maybe suited and booted ?
Text is messy, take out double commas and capital letters randomly added to words.
On the plus side, the music passion is quite good especially as you play as well as listen.
You need to stand out and use any advantage you have, against your rivals on here. As there are more guys than girls and you need to stand out to be successful.
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"hi my is Alex,i'm going to make this question short and to the point,i've only got 21 days left before i tell myself,i gave it my best shot at trying to just get someone to reply and move on from there,but have no replies from women,a few from men ,yes its very flattering,but it clearly says im straight,,i understand everyone has their own preferences,but i have msgd a good few people that i think i could possibly make a connection with and then,,,who knows,if it feels right,im not just looking for a quickie,and i say that in the messages ive sent,should i stop saying that??...i'm here for the same reason as you,,but can anyone be kind enough to look at my profile and tell me where im going wrong,i wont take offence,,if it needs to be said,just y it,,unless its an insult,,for me its not just about raw sex,,im an eccentric musician ,looking to explore life a bit more,i understand that i did not make that question short,but i just wanted to add some context, i would really appreciate a few responses,,peace,," Have a quick tidy before taking pictures. Having the telly on in the background doesn't really work for us, looks like you have just noticed your penis and got distracted..... You look like a handsome enough chap, the long hair should appeal to certain people, disheveled look probably less so. Nothing a quick spruce up couldn't solve. The musician thing should be interesting to people as well, then you spoil it by saying you also bang away at drums, there is a reason they sit drummers at the back behind everyone else you know 
Work on the unusual punctuation, it is a bit confusing.
Don't come across as desperate or creepy, pushy or arrogant. Make an effort when messaging, it may be more disappointing if you don't get a reply after putting in the effort, but it increases your chances of a reply a thousand fold. Not saying you do come across as any of those things or that you don't put effort into messages, just general advice. | |||
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"Could I ask how I can make my cock look better,I've now only got a semi to show my girth, for public, I've always thought I had a pretty good looking willy, but there we go, and the other cock pic is for friends only, and I cropped my flat out of the picture, I have taken all the advice and it's much appreciated, if you are wanting a massive penis, then of course I understand why mine isn't for you,but yes could you give me any advice on how to make my penis look better, cos I can't change it but can take advice, I'm high functioning asperges, so I knew this was going to be tricky anyway, but I want to continue to explore, if someone finds me interesting enough, I also understand that women must get so Many messages, " Honestly, it would look better if there was no photo of it. That's not a personal comment that's a general comment to everyone. You don't need a penis photo. You can send it after if someone asks. Arty body shots are way more appealing. | |||
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"Could I ask how I can make my cock look better,I've now only got a semi to show my girth, for public, I've always thought I had a pretty good looking willy, but there we go, and the other cock pic is for friends only, and I cropped my flat out of the picture, I have taken all the advice and it's much appreciated, if you are wanting a massive penis, then of course I understand why mine isn't for you,but yes could you give me any advice on how to make my penis look better, cos I can't change it but can take advice, I'm high functioning asperges, so I knew this was going to be tricky anyway, but I want to continue to explore, if someone finds me interesting enough, I also understand that women must get so Many messages, Honestly, it would look better if there was no photo of it. That's not a personal comment that's a general comment to everyone. You don't need a penis photo. You can send it after if someone asks. Arty body shots are way more appealing." This | |||
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"OK thanks man, we share the same girth, so I've got that, and I am actually confident when I'm with or in a relationship, I have a regular friend with benefits at the moment, so by no means am I desperate, going to events would be a challenge cos of my asperges, but I'll really think about it, and, thanks for your advice " You saw we are all there for the same reasons- which is a massive generic assumption- which is wrong | |||
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