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Do you look at others veri's
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? "
no i feel very secure always, only do what you feel comfortable with and if you're not enjoying it don't do it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the beginning I (Mrs) would do it a lot and compare myself to women that someone had met... thinking they were all super hot so the person wouldn’t really be interested. But variety is the spice of life and life would be boring if we all looked the same. And we all like different things too. Xx |
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Most men have a part of them that they are not happy with, I look at others veri's and think "would I be their cup of tea" due to the fact that the veri's they have will be from people who have the quality/qualities you think you are lacking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I see it. When booking a holiday you have a look at trip advisor and see what people are saying about the place. When on here look at a verification. And if there isn’t one, best wait for someone else to take the bullet first.
But will also be honest. Not only do we read the verification we view the profile that left it. It gives a good idea of the sort of people they mix with and the level of self respect they have. |
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The way I see it. When booking a holiday you have a look at trip advisor and see what people are saying about the place. When on here look at a verification. And if there isn’t one, best wait for someone else to take the bullet first.
But will also be honest. Not only do we read the verification we view the profile that left it. It gives a good idea of the sort of people they mix with and the level of self respect they have.
Yeah that's what I'm talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read them, yes. To get an idea of the kind of person someone is. If I look at the person leaving them, the only thing likely to put me off is if they clearly have unprotected sex. Or if the profile of a straight man has sexual verifications from a man or a TV/TS. |
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I read them, yes. To get an idea of the kind of person someone is. If I look at the person leaving them, the only thing likely to put me off is if they clearly have unprotected sex. Or if the profile of a straight man has sexual verifications from a man or a TV/TS.
That's a put off for me too to be honest, if I could get a meet haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read them, yes. To get an idea of the kind of person someone is. If I look at the person leaving them, the only thing likely to put me off is if they clearly have unprotected sex. Or if the profile of a straight man has sexual verifications from a man or a TV/TS.
That's a put off for me too to be honest, if I could get a meet haha "
You could always start a thread asking for profile feedback if you want some help. |
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? "
Subconsciously and unsubconsciously i do. Maybe out of my own insecurities. But knowing their sexual history can be off putting. I really don't like bareback sex photos as it makes me think how often they do unprotected sex and are they testing themselves often enough? |
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I read them, yes. To get an idea of the kind of person someone is. If I look at the person leaving them, the only thing likely to put me off is if they clearly have unprotected sex. Or if the profile of a straight man has sexual verifications from a man or a TV/TS.
That's a put off for me too to be honest, if I could get a meet haha
You could always start a thread asking for profile feedback if you want some help.
Do you think my profile needs working on then? |
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Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity?
Subconsciously and unsubconsciously i do. Maybe out of my own insecurities. But knowing their sexual history can be off putting. I really don't like bareback sex photos as it makes me think how often they do unprotected sex and are they testing themselves often enough?
Agree with that 100% |
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Recommendations, likes, reviews or verifications in the case of fab are a greater part of how we make purchasing decisions these days.
So yes verifications are an important aspect of fab. That said the likes of amazon ebay and trip advisors have been pulled up plenty of times for fake reviews.
It will happen on fab too I expect. Given the current situation very few people will be meeting but it means more time to perv verifications though lol  |
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"I like to see if we have mutual friends x"
When i look at a man's verifications, often or not, however inexperienced fabber they are, the same women keep popping up on their verifications. Either it's a small community fabbing or them women really get about!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t read them to judge how good in bed someone is, as it’s very subjective and definitely a lot of overhyping as you’re hardly going to leave a bad veri, or show it if someone did give you one!
But definitely like to see what their normal type/standards are, and have been put off both ways ie. if all bareback & overly vulgar, or when all of their meets are very attractive and make me feel insecure haha!  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I look because I'm an eternally nosey so and so. It doesn't put me off meeting people because I think, "Oh, I stand no chance" (although I still can't believe someone is interested in me sometimes!). I do think sometimes that how they use Fab and how I do isn't compatible and that's just how it goes sometimes. |
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? "
No, I look because I'm nosey. There's also an Amazon-style thought process that goes on, as in "If you enjoyed shagging this person/couple, you may also enjoy shagging..." 
Please don't crucify me! That's only tongue-in-cheek.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went on holiday without reading trip advisor. It was great i kept safe and had a good time.
I use the same moral codes n standards in life whatever i do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Insecurity is probably the wrong word, but if their entire veri list is slim, leggy 6” blondes, it might make me re-think whether I’d really be their type...an assumption maybe but in a self preserving way!  |
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"Insecurity is probably the wrong word, but if their entire veri list is slim, leggy 6” blondes, it might make me re-think whether I’d really be their type...an assumption maybe but in a self preserving way! "
Could just be a coincidence after all, they must be chatting to you for a reason |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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I always look and perticulalry at the age of the people the person is meeting. If its all 24 year olds than i recon they will not be intereated in a man much older. Can me wrong and not insecure about it just practicle. |
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? "
Yes definitely look - one to see if they are real people (fakes have no veris) and second to see if they met single men - if they dont, they no need to contact. It saves a lot of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My insecurities dont like the veris much. Having lost a huge amount of weight i now sport impressive bingo wings and a belly that flaps as i run, not that i run often.
I know this is very unique as not many have achieved the weight loss i have and so yeah can put me off.
Besides i prefer the inexperienced young guy anywag, love showing them new things |
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I must admit I do tend to browse profiles of men who have met women I'm interested in... Usually just to compare profiles - are their photos any good? Are their profiles interesting and well written at all, or compared to mine.
Of course, this way lies madness as you see people with boring, average profiles with crappy pictures getting plenty of steamy action with the hottest ladies and you start wondering what kind of messaging voodoo they must have if they can have a profile that bland and still be getting meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your insecure then address them issues.
I like sex. I like both naturally and protected. But it's down to yourself.
I simply don't judge others. Wether they fuck men or women. As long as they don't fuck animals or children.
It's about connections.
Do I connect with the person on a humanity level. Do they have a good soul. Are they kind hearted.
They could be big or skinny. Black or white.
Insecurities are within us all. It's how you address them. (daily)
Yes I look at veris. Just because im a nosy cow.
Peace ?? |
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"Very, very rarely. I use the system for the purpose that it was intended, to confirm that the person is real and will turn up"
I don’t think the purpose is solely to ensure people are real or turn up, single ladies need to know a person is a safe meet, I always look back at veris and prefer those with several good veris than perhaps one which may not be legit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your insecure then address them issues.
I like sex. I like both naturally and protected. But it's down to yourself.
I simply don't judge others. Wether they fuck men or women. As long as they don't fuck animals or children.
It's about connections.
Do I connect with the person on a humanity level. Do they have a good soul. Are they kind hearted.
They could be big or skinny. Black or white.
Insecurities are within us all. It's how you address them. (daily)
Yes I look at veris. Just because im a nosy cow.
Peace ?? "
Its nothing to do with the person themselves, we all look for those qualities.
Yes we have to address insecurities but it isnt something that can change overnight. Im in a better place now than ever but still will get insecure at some veris and thats enough for me to not be interested as it doesnt make me comfortable with the person. I find many i am comfortable with. |
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If your insecure then address them issues.
I like sex. I like both naturally and protected. But it's down to yourself.
I simply don't judge others. Wether they fuck men or women. As long as they don't fuck animals or children.
It's about connections.
Do I connect with the person on a humanity level. Do they have a good soul. Are they kind hearted.
They could be big or skinny. Black or white.
Insecurities are within us all. It's how you address them. (daily)
Yes I look at veris. Just because im a nosy cow.
Peace ??
Its nothing to do with the person themselves, we all look for those qualities.
Yes we have to address insecurities but it isnt something that can change overnight. Im in a better place now than ever but still will get insecure at some veris and thats enough for me to not be interested as it doesnt make me comfortable with the person. I find many i am comfortable with.
Amen!! |
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We do check out verifieds to be honest, and if they have more then 5 we kind of think.. probs out of our league experience wise. and move on! we're new to this and 'intimidated' isn't the right word, it's not that.. it's just everyone should be there to have a great time. and I feel the experience gap could hinder that |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"We do check out verifieds to be honest, and if they have more then 5 we kind of think.. probs out of our league experience wise. and move on! we're new to this and 'intimidated' isn't the right word, it's not that.. it's just everyone should be there to have a great time. and I feel the experience gap could hinder that "
No that's not true, I prefer couples with less experience because it's intimidating enough to meet two people on my own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at others veris so I can ascertain if I’m similar to their previous meets. I figure it’s not worth messaging if all their precious meets were with males who are ripped |
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