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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love all different kinds of fun, a fair few from the 'Interests' list on this site. (shock horror!)  
Sometimes people might say I'm 'dirty' or 'filthy' or that I'm a slut because I do this thing or that thing. But I really hate all those words. I just can't get my head round why any of it should be called 'dirty' or 'filthy'.... I enjoy it and it's lots of fun!
A friend suggested that I shouldn't worry about being called a slut and just have fun doing 'slutty' things. I like thinking of it that way. 
(Just to clarify- I only hate the words, I love the dirty filthy slutty fun!!)
What do you think about the words? Love them or hate them?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bothers me not a jot ... because in the mood of the moment things are often said aren't they
If someone walked up to me in Asda and said it Id set the demon on to them !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the context. Some women love being called a slut in the bedroom but would hate to be called it in the street."
when chris calls it me it makes me smile as i know theres no malice behind it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depende on who says and in what context. By a man in bed telling me he loves me being I dirty slut as a way of expressing his pleasure I don't care. But out of bed be called it when its full intention is to upset I do take offense. And also in bed it can be abusive to me anyway if used in a context I not comfortable with. Example being giving oral sex to a man one might say does Sarah slut wanna swallow for me that won't bother me at all but suck this slut will follow with a hard bite lol |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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Filthy and dirty I have no problem with.
Anyone refers to me as slut, thats the end of the conversation.
If I see someone use it in their profile or status updates then I do a bigggg swerve.
I know many women on here have no problem with it whatsoever and love the term, but Im not one of them.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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not a particular fan of the words.. but like everything else I suppose it really depends on what context the words are used.... some to degrade and mock and some to excite.... |
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context is everything...i am a proud slut, i see it as a word that was used to attack women for behaving in a way that was acceptable for men. Rather as the organisors of the slut walks did i have taken it as a word that is only negative if you believe being sexual is negative for a woman.
However if in a sexual situation the use of certain words decreases rather than increases your pleasure then dont use them or allow others too. There is no rule that says everyone is turned on by the same thing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use these words because of threads like this! 
Clearly there's a fine line between sexy and derogatory and a minefield for anyone who chooses to use them. |
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"It depends on the context. Some women love being called a slut in the bedroom but would hate to be called it in the street.
when chris calls it me it makes me smile as i know theres no malice behind it x"
yup...kev calls me a dirty bitch and it makes me smile
When Sir calls me a filthy slut, or used to refer to me as his slut it was because it excited me, and makes me react in a way he wants...words can be very powerful used well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree that the context of when/ how the words are used is very important. Words are just words but if they are used a certain way- for example to humiliate or degrade someone- then to me that's a bad thing.
I'm glad so many people agree, I was worried that my word phobia meant I was going to have to become a nun!  But now I don't have to.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am Masters dirty filthy little fucking tramp, Masters dirty little slut, amongst other titles.. I take it as a good thing.
HOWEVER, if anyone else tries to call me even a slut I will pull them up on it..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They only use them works in a offensive way because they cant comprehend being open to having the fun that you do. As long as you are having fun you have nothing to worry about. |
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Cookies and I both hate the words slut etc. We swing for pleasure, and don't agree in those who say "come f*ck my slut wife" etc.
In our opinion, swinging females just enjoy sex, having pics taken, whatever takes their fancy.
Maybe in the throes of passion calling someone a slut etc may be someones fantasy, but not mine
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In certain situations its something that I love,but thats only when the guy involved will have shown that he has the intelligence to understand that its for play and not an attitude towards all women
That makes it more erotic and exciting for me as it can be so completely out of character for them and I like that |
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My man calls me his dirty, filthy slut and that's coz I am! I find it a huge turn on coming from him and give back as good as I get, which he loves too.
If someone I didn't know tried it, I probably wouldn't like it, not because I'd be insulted but because they were being presumptuous x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it when mark calls me a filthy dirty slut,,, because im only a slut for him.. lol i'll do anything he wants whenever he wants... and that turns me on.. and he knows it! i don't see whats wrong with it.. i do some dirty things with him, and we love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love calling a woman a dity fuck slut when im fucking her, 99% of the time women love it, i think most women are wanton sluts.hehe"
i think at point u said this your fun would be over if it was me so clearly i am 1% that find it a completely turn off in any situation x  |
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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago
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I think words like 'slut' or 'dirty' are completely irrelevent on a site like this. Anyone who says something like that to me, although not yet had that actually happen, MUST be being totally two-faced. They shouldn't even enter the mind of any decent swinger, yet alone be uttered towards anyone, male or female, with intention to offend. They are, of course very sexy when used in the right context, but I'd only want to be talked to like tht with my prior permission. |
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"i love calling a woman a dity fuck slut when im fucking her, 99% of the time women love it, i think most women are wanton sluts.hehe
i think at point u said this your fun would be over if it was me so clearly i am 1% that find it a completely turn off in any situation x "
It would be a turn off for m too, if a random meet spoke to me like that they would probably be singing soprano afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love calling a woman a dity fuck slut when im fucking her, 99% of the time women love it, i think most women are wanton sluts.hehe
i think at point u said this your fun would be over if it was me so clearly i am 1% that find it a completely turn off in any situation x
It would be a turn off for m too, if a random meet spoke to me like that they would probably be singing soprano afterwards."
i think that maybe my reaction too extremely loud and not in a way they would like xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's interesting reading your points because mark gets asked to call people dirty and sluts all the time on meets... he wouldn't if he wasn't asked thought. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i love calling a woman a dity fuck slut when im fucking her, 99% of the time women love it, i think most women are wanton sluts.hehe
i think at point u said this your fun would be over if it was me so clearly i am 1% that find it a completely turn off in any situation x
It would be a turn off for m too, if a random meet spoke to me like that they would probably be singing soprano afterwards. i think that maybe my reaction too extremely loud and not in a way they would like xx"
I saw his comment earlier and decided not to bother responding. I too am in the 1% that would be kicking his bits.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They only use them works in a offensive way because they cant comprehend being open to having the fun that you do. As long as you are having fun you have nothing to worry about."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights."
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights."
No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
i know plenty of men who refer to themselves as male sluts, because they do not think it is a bad thing for a woman or a man to be.
There would be equality when people like you didnt alut ahme by the back door. |
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights."
No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
i know plenty of men who refer to themselves as male sluts, because they do not think it is a bad thing for a woman or a man to be.
There would be equality when people like you didnt slut shame by the back door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love all different kinds of fun, a fair few from the 'Interests' list on this site. (shock horror!)
Sometimes people might say I'm 'dirty' or 'filthy' or that I'm a slut because I do this thing or that thing. But I really hate all those words. I just can't get my head round why any of it should be called 'dirty' or 'filthy'.... I enjoy it and it's lots of fun!
A friend suggested that I shouldn't worry about being called a slut and just have fun doing 'slutty' things. I like thinking of it that way.
(Just to clarify- I only hate the words, I love the dirty filthy slutty fun!!)
What do you think about the words? Love them or hate them?! "
I always think being broad minded starts with words but I know some struggle with certain words. I really think its more the context they are used in that matters though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it when mark calls me a filthy dirty slut,,, because im only a slut for him.. lol i'll do anything he wants whenever he wants... and that turns me on.. and he knows it! i don't see whats wrong with it.. i do some dirty things with him, and we love it! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights.
No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
i know plenty of men who refer to themselves as male sluts, because they do not think it is a bad thing for a woman or a man to be.
There would be equality when people like you didnt slut shame by the back door."
wtf are you on about? Were you d*unk when you tried to read my post?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One of the reasons I started this post was because I wanted to get over my 'word phobia'. I totally understand how 'slut' or 'dirty' etc can be horny, powerful words. I don't like feeling bad (who does lol) about things.
It has actually helped me by reading everyone's responses. It's all about context, and being brave enough to say that actually I don't like it, so don't call me that unless we're.hard at it.
Oooh group hug everyone!!! |
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By *CoupleCouple
over a year ago
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I think these comments say more about the people that are saying them !. This whole thing , I Think !, is about getting away from reality of life. If you enjoy, on one's doing anything they dont want to, good for you. I like it when Rosie tells me what she likes and fancies ?????. To use the words you mention are disgrace to those concerned and if poss, the site should take action.
Blimey this was going to be quick note lol
R & J
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think these comments say more about the people that are saying them !. This whole thing , I Think !, is about getting away from reality of life. If you enjoy, on one's doing anything they dont want to, good for you. I like it when Rosie tells me what she likes and fancies ?????. To use the words you mention are disgrace to those concerned and if poss, the site should take action.
Blimey this was going to be quick note lol
R & J
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Why should the site take action???some people like being called names during the throws of passion...so why say its a disgrace....just cause you dont like them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think these comments say more about the people that are saying them !. This whole thing , I Think !, is about getting away from reality of life. If you enjoy, on one's doing anything they dont want to, good for you. I like it when Rosie tells me what she likes and fancies ?????. To use the words you mention are disgrace to those concerned and if poss, the site should take action.
Blimey this was going to be quick note lol
R & J
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Blimey think you need to take a chill pill. You want the site to take action? What for!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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"I think these comments say more about the people that are saying them !. This whole thing , I Think !, is about getting away from reality of life. If you enjoy, on one's doing anything they dont want to, good for you. I like it when Rosie tells me what she likes and fancies ?????. To use the words you mention are disgrace to those concerned and if poss, the site should take action.
Blimey this was going to be quick note lol
R & J
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You dont like something and so you want the site to stop others enjoying it,even though it affects you in no way at all...
Wow i can actually still be surprised by the small mindedness of some swingers |
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights.
No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
i know plenty of men who refer to themselves as male sluts, because they do not think it is a bad thing for a woman or a man to be.
There would be equality when people like you didnt slut shame by the back door. wtf are you on about? Were you d*unk when you tried to read my post? "
no... 
You see a slut as a bad and demeaning thing ot be, and so make claims about thsoe who use the word, either as a label for themselves, or during sex with others...
It says everything about your attitude and i dont like being lectured on sexual equality by a boy who cannot see how patronising that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like it. its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights.
No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
i know plenty of men who refer to themselves as male sluts, because they do not think it is a bad thing for a woman or a man to be.
There would be equality when people like you didnt slut shame by the back door. wtf are you on about? Were you d*unk when you tried to read my post?
no...
You see a slut as a bad and demeaning thing ot be, and so make claims about thsoe who use the word, either as a label for themselves, or during sex with others...
It says everything about your attitude and i dont like being lectured on sexual equality by a boy who cannot see how patronising that is."
Well said Jem
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Not just the word slut but "dirty talk" in general is all subjective. Some like it some dont, some like certain words some dont. The key is to discuss things before you meet.
As far as being called a slut or any word sexual in a message would get someone a block if i didnt know them and what context it was being used.
I have my "everyday" persona and my "bedroom" persona and never the twain shall meet |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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If I was confident that every man who wanted to call me a slut was using it in a positive way to indicate his understanding of a womans right to sexual equality, then I would possibly be less offended by it.
However, until that time, he's more likely to get a kick in the bollocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think these comments say more about the people that are saying them !. This whole thing , I Think !, is about getting away from reality of life. If you enjoy, on one's doing anything they dont want to, good for you. I like it when Rosie tells me what she likes and fancies ?????. To use the words you mention are disgrace to those concerned and if poss, the site should take action.
Blimey this was going to be quick note lol
R & J
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ROFL - hope this post was a joke ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to clarify our perspective on this thread - there are clearly times and situations for name calling - for us together or at a club slut , cumslut , filthy bitch etc ..... Are all good in the heat of the moment and indeed enhance the experience ! When we met a swinging friend in Saturday night in a club we all commented on what a bunch of sluts we all were as it was the third club in a week for us !
We had a different kind if night on Monday , met a girl who enjoyed some ff fun with us and finished up with a wild mff session and it was her first time in a club or swinging . She was mud twenties , quiet and unassuming but once things got going was more vocal than us with name calling !
So yes we are sluts and love it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proud slut here! To be honest its what i am, to me a slut is a lady that likes sex A LOT ie as much as men. I wud neva be offended to be called it by a guy as its true and anyway most guys r the same so pot kettle lol. If a girl called me it i mite be upset unless she too was a slut lol. When my bf calls me slut, slag and fuck pig i luv it cos its very powerful and turns me on my subby side... Actually makes me ashamed but in a good way  xxx mel |
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"Not just the word slut but "dirty talk" in general is all subjective. Some like it some dont, some like certain words some dont. The key is to discuss things before you meet.
As far as being called a slut or any word sexual in a message would get someone a block if i didnt know them and what context it was being used.
I have my "everyday" persona and my "bedroom" persona and never the twain shall meet"
I agree!
This site is about adults having fun, different people enjoying sex in different ways, I would imagine most people on here are adult enough to know that the word slut which is normally used in a derogatory way towards women has a powerful and positive effect when used by couples in their own privacy. It can be used in a submissive way, it can also be used in a way describing a woman who knows, loves and enjoys sex and certain sexual acts and is not afraid to be open and say so. I find it used in these positive ways a real turn on. But only in intimate private moments with consenting adults who also get a turn on from it.
It is not for some to judge what turns others on.
Each to their own. |
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"Not just the word slut but "dirty talk" in general is all subjective. Some like it some dont, some like certain words some dont. The key is to discuss things before you meet.
As far as being called a slut or any word sexual in a message would get someone a block if i didnt know them and what context it was being used.
I have my "everyday" persona and my "bedroom" persona and never the twain shall meet I agree!
This site is about adults having fun, different people enjoying sex in different ways, I would imagine most people on here are adult enough to know that the word slut which is normally used in a derogatory way towards women has a powerful and positive effect when used by couples in their own privacy. It can be used in a submissive way, it can also be used in a way describing a woman who knows, loves and enjoys sex and certain sexual acts and is not afraid to be open and say so. I find it used in these positive ways a real turn on. But only in intimate private moments with consenting adults who also get a turn on from it.
It is not for some to judge what turns others on.
Each to their own. "
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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This site is about adults having fun, different people enjoying sex in different ways, I would imagine most people on here are adult enough to know that the word slut which is normally used in a derogatory way towards women has a powerful and positive effect when used by couples in their own privacy. It can be used in a submissive way, it can also be used in a way describing a woman who knows, loves and enjoys sex and certain sexual acts and is not afraid to be open and say so. I find it used in these positive ways a real turn on. But only in intimate private moments with consenting adults who also get a turn on from it.
It is not for some to judge what turns others on.
Each to their own. "
I absolutely agree and I have no concern whatsoever about what consenting adults do in the privacy of their own relationship.
My personal dislike is the fact that some people do not use the term in the privacy of a relationship, as you describe, but publicly as a way to describe their behaviour.
Other people then see it being used, think its perfectly acceptable to call women sluts, and think because if women call themselves sluts then it must be ok for them to do it.
For some women that may be acceptable, but for other women it is not.
I would love to think that men would take time and make the effort to determine whether the person they are calling a slut thinks that is acceptable or not. The number of status updates 'Looking for sluts' suggests to me that this isnt the case.
But absolutely agree - 'each to their own' |
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
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"One of the reasons I started this post was because I wanted to get over my 'word phobia'. I totally understand how 'slut' or 'dirty' etc can be horny, powerful words. I don't like feeling bad (who does lol) about things.
It has actually helped me by reading everyone's responses. It's all about context, and being brave enough to say that actually I don't like it, so don't call me that unless we're.hard at it.
Oooh group hug everyone!!! "
It's always the context that counts ie smile when you call me that ? Personally I don't like the word slut but I might be persuaded to use it in the right place |
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
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"Somebody once asked me would I mind if they called me a 'Fat Slut' while they fucked me..... Needless to say I said yes and hit the block button  "
Before they met you in person? that's disrespectful and dreadful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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find it very rude and disrepectful when someone says that to me on here/or harld know and we havent spoke about.....love it when its with someone im comfortable with and we both geting into it.
Was watching a documentary about the impact of porn which argued the case that porn gives guys an unrealistic view of woman, which effects the way they treat them, and to some extent believe this is true with some inexperienced men |
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"Was watching a documentary about the impact of porn which argued the case that porn gives guys an unrealistic view of woman, which effects the way they treat them, and to some extent believe this is true with some inexperienced men"
Those guys don't have a proper distinction between reality and fantasy and should be avoided at the best of times... |
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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago
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"Those guys don't have a proper distinction between reality and fantasy and should be avoided at the best of times..."
Very true, but a lot of the kids nowadays are watching this stuff on the internet and thinking that that's how women 'like it'.
I'm in the camp that doesn't like being called names, as I see it as being derogatory and disrespectful. Sentences like 'you like that, don't you you dirty bitch' or 'dirty slut' has me stop play immediately and walking away, as it's a complete turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"context is everything...i am a proud slut, i see it as a word that was used to attack women for behaving in a way that was acceptable for men. Rather as the organisors of the slut walks did i have taken it as a word that is only negative if you believe being sexual is negative for a woman.
However if in a sexual situation the use of certain words decreases rather than increases your pleasure then dont use them or allow others too. There is no rule that says everyone is turned on by the same thing..."
well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
You see a slut as a bad and demeaning thing ot be "
do i? how did you work that one out?
" and so make claims about thsoe who use the word, "
could you please highlight where i did that, cos i think i must have missed what i wrote...
" It says everything about your attitude"
your ability to understand what people write, instead of just thinking with your own opinions says alot about your attitude
" and i dont like being lectured"
sorry, was i late for the lesson, who was lecturing?
"on sexual equality by a boy"
Hmmm... so you are strongly against sexual inequality, yet you have no issue with being ageist?
"who cannot see how patronising that is"
and your use of the word boy there is not patronising at all...
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No, in your opinion it is...you admit you see the word as a bad thing, and for some reason about being sub, which is just hilarious...
You see a slut as a bad and demeaning thing ot be
do i? how did you work that one out?
and so make claims about thsoe who use the word,
could you please highlight where i did that, cos i think i must have missed what i wrote...
It says everything about your attitude your ability to understand what people write, instead of just thinking with your own opinions says alot about your attitude
and i dont like being lectured sorry, was i late for the lesson, who was lecturing?
on sexual equality by a boy Hmmm... so you are strongly against sexual inequality, yet you have no issue with being ageist?
who cannot see how patronising that is and your use of the word boy there is not patronising at all...
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"To be fair i used to be called "male slut" in my uni days. Didnt like "
You presumably didnt like it for a reason, rather than seeing it as a descriptor of your sexual behaviour.
" its not something that a guy would get called in bedroom though unless he's being a sub. "
and so make claims about thsoe who use the word,
could you please highlight where i did that, cos i think i must have missed what i wrote...
You claimed men who use the word slut were subs
i know plenty of men who are not sub but are sluts, Sir describes himself as a slut. He see's it as a term without derogatory overtones and simply a way of referring to sexual behaviour.
And here you lecture,
However Im very attracted to women who are liberal/open with sex. "slut" is used by people who still dont fully believe in equal rights.
yes you are immature, so i used the word boy, or perhaps i might have asked you to google the term mansplaining...dont tell me what you think sexual equality is...accepting women and the fact they are also sexual beings who may not want to be patronized is at the heart of equality.
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