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How long did it take?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! |
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
Days. Only because I didn't meet immediately.
Yes, it's different for women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
Days here as well, you do get a lot of rejection but that’s to be expected. Be brave and look to engage with everyone just chat be yourself and the rest follows. No quick fix ... be prepared to do a lot of work  |
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
Find meets as a single guy a struggle but first meet after joining was the same night. Takes a lot of work being single but get a meet every few weeks. Last was fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yooo you guys must be doing something right. When I first joined it took me forever to get a meet. I realised that you had to mix and mingle at parties and the rest of the meets become easier after a few people know you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
OP, get yourself down to your local swingers club and meet others for a social, this will increase your chances as you will meet new people who can verify you. Try not to expect straight Away, you will be left disappointed, be patient, will be worth the wait I’m sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not had a meet. Since joining five months ago. No fault of my own
Having checked your profile, I wouldn't be so sure you should not accept some of the fault! "
if it happens it will happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple of months. Breakthrough was plucking up the courage to go to an organised social.
^^ this. I recommend this to everyone."
no time to for big socials. I work on shifts |
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A couple of weeks but I work shifts so a pain anyway posted when I was free and sent some messages
Remember you are still testing the water so don’t limit yourself and you will be fine
Clubs and parties are always good to get chatting and socialising with people and get some great advice
J |
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"A couple of months. Breakthrough was plucking up the courage to go to an organised social.
^^ this. I recommend this to everyone."
us guys are still outnumbered so not easy to get noticed. That said. You are who you are and being true to yourself helps imho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A couple of months. Breakthrough was plucking up the courage to go to an organised social.
^^ this. I recommend this to everyone.no time to for big socials. I work on shifts "
Organised socials are once a month or less.
You can't manage one evening per month to attend to network and put yourself out there?
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
7 months... Wasn't a great meet.. Only lasted 40 seconds... I say no more  |
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We are a couple but dont find fab that easy to arrange meets ... we have been stood up more times than not ... met one lovely man .. and one who wasnt for us ... thats in just under a year ... yes we are picky in that we like a social meet first and there has to be an attraction ..but still thats not great statistics
We do go to a club and have had lovely encounters there with single men/women/couples .. so thats our usual route these days but not totally given up on fab .. enjoy the forums and still hope it may lead to some lovely local encounters |
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"A couple of weeks but I work shifts so a pain anyway posted when I was free and sent some messages
Remember you are still testing the water so don’t limit yourself and you will be fine
Clubs and parties are always good to get chatting and socialising with people and get some great advice
J"
I do double shifts and weekends so its impossible for me... Btw I'm off to Transylvania to see history of the ivan the impaler |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego!
7 months... Wasn't a great meet.. Only lasted 40 seconds... I say no more "
This is a good example of the persons profile being better than the person himself I guess. |
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
We had meet before we were on Fab but Fab is hard on you.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got offered meets within the first minute of joining
(fab standard idiotic wana meet for sex now messages)
It took me about a month before I found someone I wanted to meet.
Then didn't have sex with him until the second time we met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 2 weeks. Probably could have gotten a meet within minutes had the guys not all been the type that bombard women when they join"
this is why I don't message newbies as its unfair, as They get hit n overwhelm with
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really depends what you're looking for I think. I'm in a couple but looking to meet bi/gay women 1-1. Only had 2 meets. I've attended socials and clubs with no success.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It took a few months. Primarily because of time wasters and those that simply cant deliver what they spent so much time talking about. But as with all good things... patience was the virtue... and all worked out in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego! "
I’d have said about a fortnight the first time I joined or I’d have got bored and left |
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"From joining the Fab to having your first meet?
Did couples and women find it easier and single guys struggle?
I’m finding this site isn’t always good for the ego!
7 months... Wasn't a great meet.. Only lasted 40 seconds... I say no more
This is a good example of the persons profile being better than the person himself I guess. "
OR my technique too good for the youngster... All i know i walked away disappointed and hoping to meet a real stud   |
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"About 24hrs
We prefer to actually meet rather than just chatting rubbish on messages for days, not got the patience for it lol"
Totally agree ,it drives me bonkers, think its taking us so long to get a meet as H only wants females , lou x |
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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago
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"About 24hrs
We prefer to actually meet rather than just chatting rubbish on messages for days, not got the patience for it lol
Totally agree ,it drives me bonkers, think its taking us so long to get a meet as H only wants females , lou x"
I would say that's the problem, it's much easier to meet couples or single guys than it is single ladies. Not sure why but just seems to be the way it is  |
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"About 24hrs
We prefer to actually meet rather than just chatting rubbish on messages for days, not got the patience for it lol
Totally agree ,it drives me bonkers, think its taking us so long to get a meet as H only wants females , lou x
Cheers thanks for feedback much appreciated, lou x
I would say that's the problem, it's much easier to meet couples or single guys than it is single ladies. Not sure why but just seems to be the way it is "
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About 3 weeks but was incredibly lucky as turned out we had so much in common. Still friends to this day.
I think for a single guy it's down to timing, location and luck. You can get a meet in a few days in the bigger cities. |
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I was really lucky tbh.
Within about two weeks of joining the site I was approached by a lovely lady a bit older than myself. Had our first meet within days and then became long term fuck buddies thereafter.
If only it was always as easy as that... |
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