How do other people on fab see their ideal meet with a couple from the start to the finish. Who would they prefer to make the first move and would they prefer the couple to start flirting first or vice versa |
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over a year ago
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I personally dislike carrying conversations so, to start with, I would prefer conversations to be just that- a conversation.
However, I would prefer it if the couple takes a leading role in the discussion, as in most cases, they hold the power when meeting.
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"I personally dislike carrying conversations so, to start with, I would prefer conversations to be just that- a conversation.
However, I would prefer it if the couple takes a leading role in the discussion, as in most cases, they hold the power when meeting.
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Blimey, who have you been meeting? 
Usually I need to stick something in my mouth to shut up 
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Usually on a first meet conversation about boundaries what is needed etc which in itself can be quite flirty and sexy. Then an appreciation that all parties are involved to whatever level they would like. Finally all parties have been satisfied and happy. Then hopefully a cuppa with Yorkshire tea. Ohh and maybe round two afterwards. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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If I’m solo with a couple, then I don’t shut up. It’s not nerves, rather my enthusiasm and maybe just maybe a bit of deflection as I don’t like to assume their interest in me. I prefer them to make the first move, even after we have explicitly agreed to play.
If it’s me as part of a couple, then it’s usually a lot easier to precipitate something as we will start playing with each other and it will go from there |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Usually on a first meet conversation about boundaries what is needed etc which in itself can be quite flirty and sexy. Then an appreciation that all parties are involved to whatever level they would like. Finally all parties have been satisfied and happy. Then hopefully a cuppa with Yorkshire tea. Ohh and maybe round two afterwards. "
Sounds very structured- you’re not a civil servant by any chance ? |
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"Usually on a first meet conversation about boundaries what is needed etc which in itself can be quite flirty and sexy. Then an appreciation that all parties are involved to whatever level they would like. Finally all parties have been satisfied and happy. Then hopefully a cuppa with Yorkshire tea. Ohh and maybe round two afterwards.
Sounds very structured- you’re not a civil servant by any chance ? "
I would have to shoot you if I told you   |
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"How do other people on fab see their ideal meet with a couple from the start to the finish. Who would they prefer to make the first move and would they prefer the couple to start flirting first or vice versa"
For first meets we like to start to start with a good social. Have a laugh with a bit of flirting whilst we do. If after a couple of hours it's going well (we would have made our excuses by then if it was not) we will usually see if they want to take things further be it that evening or another time. Not averse to asking or being asked either way.
After that wife is more than happy to kick things off by making moves.
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We love going with the flow and the conversation slowly getting more flirty we can usually tell if the other people are interested in playing by reading the signals by how they respond back with us. We think it is a big turn on when all parties involved flirt with each other but to anyone else listening it sounds like a normal conversation but we all know what each other really means we love the sexual build up slowly teasing each other |
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I like couples to be ;
Easy going
Friendly
Tactile
Drinks and a flirt between all of us, then a nice walk back to their house, music on, glasses of wine
Then the magic happens, all involved, all passionate
Kisses goodnight and off home |
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