Just wondering if anyone just feels alone in themselves and if you think it affects you on here i know im not the best looking guy and everyone gets lonely.But has anyone just craved a touch a kiss something to make you feel human for the briefest of moments? I know sex gives you a high but even the slightest of touches can make your day also.i dont know if its just me or the fact its hard to get a meet (for me) or if anyone feels the same? Females? couples? Anyone? |
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Yes, I get lonely. I miss being in a relationship. I miss kissing, cuddling, making each other laugh, romantic meals for two, being their for each other at times of need, sharing a bed, spooning, etc.
I think it is perfectly natural to get lonely when you are not in a relationship. We all like to be liked and we all like to be loved.
I think a lot of single fabsters get lonely. |
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"Yes, I get lonely. I miss being in a relationship. I miss kissing, cuddling, making each other laugh, romantic meals for two, being their for each other at times of need, sharing a bed, spooning, etc.
I think it is perfectly natural to get lonely when you are not in a relationship. We all like to be liked and we all like to be loved.
I think a lot of single fabsters get lonely. "
I just think people should speak up about mental health everyone misses the simple things i know it sounded like a lonely hearts section what i put but if anyone feels down im always good for a laugh |
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I'm never lonely ..I always keep occupied. a relationship is the last thing I crave for.. I'm not that sort of person tried it a few times..everyone ended up a nightmare... this scene is ideal for me sex without that emotional attachment.... |
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"Yes im lonely. Thats why im looking for a relationship now i miss the closeness the trust and everything else"
Im sure you will find someone just keep your chin up dont let yourself get down or depressed about it hope your mental healths ok tho |
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"I'm never lonely ..I always keep occupied. a relationship is the last thing I crave for.. I'm not that sort of person tried it a few times..everyone ended up a nightmare... this scene is ideal for me sex without that emotional attachment...."
Its not about relationships its about mental health and the negative side that makes you just wanna be held but i see what you mean your after fwb no strings kinda thing |
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"Yes sometimes but i prefer to be alone and alway able to kiss and hug my dogs when need affection."
But is your mental health ok though? If you feel ok in yourself thats ok dont hide if anythings wrong |
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"Yeah it’s tough out there these days don’t think I’ve had fun in years need to make some changes in my life always thought it was just old people that got lonely now I know it’s not  "
Its mainly about peoples mental health if there ok in themselves just want people to be honest and stand up |
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I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change |
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"I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change"
But i want to inspire people to speak out about there deamons the first steps the hardest they say. I dont want anyone to feel excluded or left out i want to help people with there mental health one step a time if you get my meaning |
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Dont ever think your not good enough, dont ever think your not good looking, feel happy and satisfied in yourself and the rest will follow, when your in the deepest darkest of holes (not in a sexual way lol) it's kinda hard to get out, but there is always light at the end mate, surround yourself in friends and family and avoid anyone being negative in your life! |
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"I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change
But i want to inspire people to speak out about there deamons the first steps the hardest they say. I dont want anyone to feel excluded or left out i want to help people with there mental health one step a time if you get my meaning"
That was talking about my mental health so it worked haha |
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"Dont ever think your not good enough, dont ever think your not good looking, feel happy and satisfied in yourself and the rest will follow, when your in the deepest darkest of holes (not in a sexual way lol) it's kinda hard to get out, but there is always light at the end mate, surround yourself in friends and family and avoid anyone being negative in your life! "
I hear you i posted this so people can stand up and we can help with there deamons its a hard place for some an easy place for others yes i suffer from depression but i never let that affect who i am who i can be, negativity affects us all i hope this inspires people to stand against mental illness |
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"I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change
But i want to inspire people to speak out about there deamons the first steps the hardest they say. I dont want anyone to feel excluded or left out i want to help people with there mental health one step a time if you get my meaning
That was talking about my mental health so it worked haha"
Then step out your comfort zone my "word game" buddy were all here for you brave tomorrow with a smile and head high and show it you cant be fucked about today! |
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"I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change
But i want to inspire people to speak out about there deamons the first steps the hardest they say. I dont want anyone to feel excluded or left out i want to help people with there mental health one step a time if you get my meaning
That was talking about my mental health so it worked haha
Then step out your comfort zone my "word game" buddy were all here for you brave tomorrow with a smile and head high and show it you cant be fucked about today! "
That's why I am doing these days being more outgoing and forward than i normally would and not stay in the background
Its not always easy but trying is the main thing
Yep word buddy haha |
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"I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change
But i want to inspire people to speak out about there deamons the first steps the hardest they say. I dont want anyone to feel excluded or left out i want to help people with there mental health one step a time if you get my meaning
That was talking about my mental health so it worked haha
Then step out your comfort zone my "word game" buddy were all here for you brave tomorrow with a smile and head high and show it you cant be fucked about today!
That's why I am doing these days being more outgoing and forward than i normally would and not stay in the background
Its not always easy but trying is the main thing
Yep word buddy haha"
Thats why we need more people to join in and a friend to text to encourage you or send you a quote shine bright and loud lifes to short so say fuck you mental health no more!! |
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"I have my ups and downs
Can be a lonely place even with 100's of people around you (virtually)
Can look through threads and hope that you've been listed but its just the cool kids (no disrespect) but can make you feel excluded and doubt yourself
But you live to fight another day and push yourself they call it comfort zone for a reason if you stay in it nothing is likely to change
But i want to inspire people to speak out about there deamons the first steps the hardest they say. I dont want anyone to feel excluded or left out i want to help people with there mental health one step a time if you get my meaning
That was talking about my mental health so it worked haha
Then step out your comfort zone my "word game" buddy were all here for you brave tomorrow with a smile and head high and show it you cant be fucked about today!
That's why I am doing these days being more outgoing and forward than i normally would and not stay in the background
Its not always easy but trying is the main thing
Yep word buddy haha
Thats why we need more people to join in and a friend to text to encourage you or send you a quote shine bright and loud lifes to short so say fuck you mental health no more!!"
It's a battle but nice to know theres support out there too thanks
Same for you too
No one is alone if they reach out
The person sitting next to you could get going through the same thing and you wouldn't know |
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over a year ago
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"Just wondering if anyone just feels alone in themselves and if you think it affects you on here i know im not the best looking guy and everyone gets lonely.But has anyone just craved a touch a kiss something to make you feel human for the briefest of moments? I know sex gives you a high but even the slightest of touches can make your day also.i dont know if its just me or the fact its hard to get a meet (for me) or if anyone feels the same? Females? couples? Anyone?"
I'm alone in that someone important passed on, but I can live with me self, I come into world alone leave the world alone. |
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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah it’s tough out there these days don’t think I’ve had fun in years need to make some changes in my life always thought it was just old people that got lonely now I know it’s not
Its mainly about peoples mental health if there ok in themselves just want people to be honest and stand up"
Like what I said mate isolation being lonely thinking shit all the time in you’re own world  |
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"Yeah it’s tough out there these days don’t think I’ve had fun in years need to make some changes in my life always thought it was just old people that got lonely now I know it’s not
Its mainly about peoples mental health if there ok in themselves just want people to be honest and stand up
Like what I said mate isolation being lonely thinking shit all the time in you’re own world "
Im never alone but sometimes i feel it but as i said do the beared gent i suffer from depression i admit that it dont effect who i am im just posting to raise awareness and to help and inspire others |
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"Just wondering if anyone just feels alone in themselves and if you think it affects you on here i know im not the best looking guy and everyone gets lonely.But has anyone just craved a touch a kiss something to make you feel human for the briefest of moments? I know sex gives you a high but even the slightest of touches can make your day also.i dont know if its just me or the fact its hard to get a meet (for me) or if anyone feels the same? Females? couples? Anyone?
I'm alone in that someone important passed on, but I can live with me self, I come into world alone leave the world alone. "
Were never truely alone and im sorry you lost a dear one if you feel your mental health is to much speak out it helps |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
The Worlds a very large place and can feel lonely at times for even the most popular of people..
We are all valued by someone and most dont even realise it or take for granted.....
Amazing how people can change or have an impact on our lives...
Im here for anyone who needs a sounding board.. |
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"The Worlds a very large place and can feel lonely at times for even the most popular of people..
We are all valued by someone and most dont even realise it or take for granted.....
Amazing how people can change or have an impact on our lives...
Im here for anyone who needs a sounding board.."
Were all here for everyone lol i want people to stand up if there mental health needs a boost |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Is this a sex site or mental health service?
If you need help, go to your doctor "
It's actually a swinging site.
The forum is a place for any type of discussion. Whether it be sex or every day chat. It's a great way to communicate with other people.
The op is has chosen a topic that he wishes to discuss and reach out to others. That can only be a good thing. Not everyone wants to go to a doctor and tbh they aren't always the answer ! |
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"Yes, I get lonely. I miss being in a relationship. I miss kissing, cuddling, making each other laugh, romantic meals for two, being their for each other at times of need, sharing a bed, spooning, etc.
I think it is perfectly natural to get lonely when you are not in a relationship. We all like to be liked and we all like to be loved.
I think a lot of single fabsters get lonely. "
Great post |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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"The Worlds a very large place and can feel lonely at times for even the most popular of people..
We are all valued by someone and most dont even realise it or take for granted.....
Amazing how people can change or have an impact on our lives...
Im here for anyone who needs a sounding board..
Were all here for everyone lol i want people to stand up if there mental health needs a boost"
Thats why i said we are all valued and can have amazing effects on ours and other peoples lives.....
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"Is this a sex site or mental health service?
If you need help, go to your doctor
It's actually a swinging site.
The forum is a place for any type of discussion. Whether it be sex or every day chat. It's a great way to communicate with other people.
The op is has chosen a topic that he wishes to discuss and reach out to others. That can only be a good thing. Not everyone wants to go to a doctor and tbh they aren't always the answer !"
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Slightly off topic but I think relationship breakdown can lead into this.
I honestly think they are one of the toughest things you ever go through and are brushed over it by society..you will get over it etc. |
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"Is this a sex site or mental health service?
If you need help, go to your doctor "
I was just thinking how well constructed and well behaved this forum had been received.
Then this turns up. What a damn shame.
Good on you Op for your positivity. |
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"The Worlds a very large place and can feel lonely at times for even the most popular of people..
We are all valued by someone and most dont even realise it or take for granted.....
Amazing how people can change or have an impact on our lives...
Im here for anyone who needs a sounding board..
Were all here for everyone lol i want people to stand up if there mental health needs a boost
Thats why i said we are all valued and can have amazing effects on ours and other peoples lives.....
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Just you said im here for anyone when were all here for that lol  |
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"I have a Maserati which keeps me company
Now that is company which you will need help with......financially as well as mentally...."
But she makes me smile  |
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"Is this a sex site or mental health service?
If you need help, go to your doctor
I was just thinking how well constructed and well behaved this forum had been received.
Then this turns up. What a damn shame.
Good on you Op for your positivity. "
Thank you i try and help others by saying about my depression so they can see my weakness so they can show theres someone in the same boat |
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Yes I am very lonly once the things keeping me busy during the day end. When I am really low as a result, I tend to stay away from fab and meets, random meets and nsa sex is a killer to my good mental health. |
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"Slightly off topic but I think relationship breakdown can lead into this.
I honestly think they are one of the toughest things you ever go through and are brushed over it by society..you will get over it etc."
Everyone needs a helping hand so to speak dont be shy on asking for help  |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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"I have a Maserati which keeps me company
Now that is company which you will need help with......financially as well as mentally....
But she makes me smile
5050 on the payout claim? "
And thats before roadside assistance..not the pants down nice stuff... |
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"Yes I am very lonly once the things keeping me busy during the day end. When I am really low as a result, I tend to stay away from fab and meets, random meets and nsa sex is a killer to my good mental health. "
Just cause your alone on the outside but inside are the people who love and care for you ive sent you a message so we can talk off here |
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Alone alone in my head
Over thinking, fear and dread
Never leave me alone with me
My mind is not a friend to me
Those that hurt, isolated, My memories
Those thoughts be gone from me please
It's only me that can really see
That it's me that can let it be
As I'm my own worst enemy to me
I'm the one that can give me glee
I'm alive I'm not gone
I have the will to carry on
So I'm not alone as you see
As I know I still have LIFE LOVE AND ME
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"Just wondering if anyone just feels alone in themselves and if you think it affects you on here i know im not the best looking guy and everyone gets lonely.But has anyone just craved a touch a kiss something to make you feel human for the briefest of moments? I know sex gives you a high but even the slightest of touches can make your day also.i dont know if its just me or the fact its hard to get a meet (for me) or if anyone feels the same? Females? couples? Anyone?"
Big hugs and kisses op
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"Just wondering if anyone just feels alone in themselves and if you think it affects you on here i know im not the best looking guy and everyone gets lonely.But has anyone just craved a touch a kiss something to make you feel human for the briefest of moments? I know sex gives you a high but even the slightest of touches can make your day also.i dont know if its just me or the fact its hard to get a meet (for me) or if anyone feels the same? Females? couples? Anyone?Big hugs and kisses op"
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"Alone alone in my head
Over thinking, fear and dread
Never leave me alone with me
My mind is not a friend to me
Those that hurt, isolated, My memories
Those thoughts be gone from me please
It's only me that can really see
That it's me that can let it be
As I'm my own worst enemy to me
I'm the one that can give me glee
I'm alive I'm not gone
I have the will to carry on
So I'm not alone as you see
As I know I still have LIFE LOVE AND ME
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Hey tiny T hope ur ok |
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"Alone alone in my head
Over thinking, fear and dread
Never leave me alone with me
My mind is not a friend to me
Those that hurt, isolated, My memories
Those thoughts be gone from me please
It's only me that can really see
That it's me that can let it be
As I'm my own worst enemy to me
I'm the one that can give me glee
I'm alive I'm not gone
I have the will to carry on
So I'm not alone as you see
As I know I still have LIFE LOVE AND ME
Hey tiny T hope ur ok "
I'm always ok thx I hope you are too |
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"Alone alone in my head
Over thinking, fear and dread
Never leave me alone with me
My mind is not a friend to me
Those that hurt, isolated, My memories
Those thoughts be gone from me please
It's only me that can really see
That it's me that can let it be
As I'm my own worst enemy to me
I'm the one that can give me glee
I'm alive I'm not gone
I have the will to carry on
So I'm not alone as you see
As I know I still have LIFE LOVE AND ME
Hey tiny T hope ur ok
I'm always ok thx I hope you are too "
Im good thanks |
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"Is this a sex site or mental health service?
If you need help, go to your doctor
What a heartless comment to make from the folk who started a thread about Disney films."
Thank you for the support just trying to help others who cant talk to anyone about it |
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Although I dont suffer from mental health issues... as far as I know. I do suffer from health issues, which limit me socialising etc so yes I get lonely occasionally and sometimes would love just a hug or cuddle or even the brush of a ladies lingerie |
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"Although I dont suffer from mental health issues... as far as I know. I do suffer from health issues, which limit me socialising etc so yes I get lonely occasionally and sometimes would love just a hug or cuddle or even the brush of a ladies lingerie "
Japanese love pillow and some panties to put on to it? Lol im joking |
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"Although I dont suffer from mental health issues... as far as I know. I do suffer from health issues, which limit me socialising etc so yes I get lonely occasionally and sometimes would love just a hug or cuddle or even the brush of a ladies lingerie
Japanese love pillow and some panties to put on to it? Lol im joking"
Haha thanks but a normal pillow is a lot easier and I wouldnt have to buy a pair of pillow sized knickers/panties |
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"Although I dont suffer from mental health issues... as far as I know. I do suffer from health issues, which limit me socialising etc so yes I get lonely occasionally and sometimes would love just a hug or cuddle or even the brush of a ladies lingerie
Japanese love pillow and some panties to put on to it? Lol im joking
Haha thanks but a normal pillow is a lot easier and I wouldnt have to buy a pair of pillow sized knickers/panties "
Just trying to make you smile |
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I think sport Is a major way of improving mental health and stopping loneliness. I don't have time to be lonely if I'm not at work I'm working on my house or I'm seeing freinds or going on a date or running/mountain biking which clears my head and makes me feel good about my self, I don't need anyone in my life other than my self. |
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I dont think being on here helps with mental health when feeling low, rejection etc just makes you feel worse. I was on here in the summer when i was probably at my lowest ever point, contemplating suicide and meeting on here just caused even more of a head fuck, thinking people wanted you as i was told to find out it wasnt true.
I came off here for a while and was able to focus on myself and nobody else, which has helped me through the other side and now im stronger for it. |
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