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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
confused.co.uk"
These things happen - maybe they're all watching the footie! Even the hottest couples/singles sometimes don't get the repsonses they'd like - and when they do a lot of guys may bottle it!
If you were closer however...... |
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why do people think just because they are free to meet people will swamp them with messages?
its saturday night, people have probably made plans, its the FA cup final so that will play a part, its BH weekend people may have gone away..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There must be some bloody odd blokes on here.
Football my arse, having seen your wife's pics, if I were a single guy living in distance I know what I'd rather do and it wouldn't be watching 22 guys kick a bladder round a field either.
Just can't understand it, although I have to agree with another poster, most of them are probably having to stay home with wife and family for the weekend!   R
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi niknakuk
if you're ever looking for a single guy for meet then let me know, im recently single heard about this site and thought it would help me meet some nice ppl, have some fun and move on, like my ex has.
Always up for meeting for some fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read your profile!
Some people might just be confused as it says you only meet at clubs/parties and can't at short notice!
Sometimes having what looks like a restrictive set of 'rules' on profiles can put people off getting in touch. That or self esteem/image concerns as you also play heavily on the 'attractive' status.
Just an observation - but hopefully you'll find some fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were closer I'd love to meet up with you guys!
You seem like a friendly pair, you have a talent for photography and you certainly strike me as an interesting couple to know.
And obviously your passion for being naked outdoors like I do and the fact that your good lady is absolutely divine certainly doesn't hurt either...
Curse my location I shall have to make do with the cup final after all, though it is worth noting that I usually travel with my job... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I were closer I'd love to meet up with you guys!
You seem like a friendly pair, you have a talent for photography and you certainly strike me as an interesting couple to know.
And obviously your passion for being naked outdoors like I do and the fact that your good lady is absolutely divine certainly doesn't hurt either...
Curse my location I shall have to make do with the cup final after all, though it is worth noting that I usually travel with my job..."
cheers,yeah we love a bit of fun outside.waiting for the weather to pick up a bit first.tried to do some in the winter and it was a bad idea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just read your profile!
Some people might just be confused as it says you only meet at clubs/parties and can't at short notice!
Sometimes having what looks like a restrictive set of 'rules' on profiles can put people off getting in touch. That or self esteem/image concerns as you also play heavily on the 'attractive' status.
Just an observation - but hopefully you'll find some fun! "
we put the clubs thing and not at short notice as it stops messages asking to 'come to ours tonight' we have a baby so either have to stay at home or leave baby elsewhere,thats why time is precious,clubs are our preference.we couldnt have a group of people at home.1 male is fine
as for attractive status.although we are swingers we have standards and dont fuck anyone,got to find them good looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just read your profile!
Some people might just be confused as it says you only meet at clubs/parties and can't at short notice!
Sometimes having what looks like a restrictive set of 'rules' on profiles can put people off getting in touch. That or self esteem/image concerns as you also play heavily on the 'attractive' status.
Just an observation - but hopefully you'll find some fun!
we put the clubs thing and not at short notice as it stops messages asking to 'come to ours tonight' we have a baby so either have to stay at home or leave baby elsewhere,thats why time is precious,clubs are our preference.we couldnt have a group of people at home.1 male is fine
as for attractive status.although we are swingers we have standards and dont fuck anyone,got to find them good looking. "
Wasn't a criticism - I just know lots of very attractive girls and the odd guy who avoided the branches falling from the ugly tree who'd be reluctant to message in case a knock back dented they're confidence or who just don't believe they're actually as good looking as they are!
There always has to be attraction but different things attract me - and I guess others - in different ways! |
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"why do people think just because they are free to meet people will swamp them with messages?
its saturday night, people have probably made plans, its the FA cup final so that will play a part, its BH weekend people may have gone away....."
Don't be ridiculous!  A couple wants to meet a single man, how dare they not be available to drop trou when commanded.
What planet are you on lady?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
confused.co.uk"
looking at your profile pics we are suprised, you look a fun couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your request to meet, conflicting with your profile which says both no single men and wont meet at short notice, gives the impression you were messing with people and not serious about meeting. Any decent non-desperate single male would quite rightly then just ignore the offer.... |
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"your request to meet, conflicting with your profile which says both no single men and wont meet at short notice, gives the impression you were messing with people and not serious about meeting. Any decent non-desperate single male would quite rightly then just ignore the offer...."
Absolutely agree with this? If i had a penny for the number of times I have been contacted by a couple that don't meet single men in my age range,
It gets all very confusing, you know.
But couples sometimes put a notice up at the last minute and expect to have a deluge of replies from single men, cos after all they are all desperate, aren't they? Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
confused.co.uk"
Saturday night, most that can get out at such short notice probably already had plans. |
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
confused.co.uk"
The problem is that although i would love to meet you and would have done last night, i would have been unable to message you or contact you as fab won't allow single males to contact anyone that has "not looking for single guys" on their profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
confused.co.uk
The problem is that although i would love to meet you and would have done last night, i would have been unable to message you or contact you as fab won't allow single males to contact anyone that has "not looking for single guys" on their profile. "
That's not true, people can choose to block single males, other than that there's a polite message from fab but no block. |
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that
confused.co.uk
The problem is that although i would love to meet you and would have done last night, i would have been unable to message you or contact you as fab won't allow single males to contact anyone that has "not looking for single guys" on their profile.
That's not true, people can choose to block single males, other than that there's a polite message from fab but no block. "
That's what I meant, if I try and message Nik Nak I get told by Fab that I can't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's what I meant, if I try and message Nik Nak I get told by Fab that I can't. "
the reason we have now blocked messages is because of the content of the messages.
messages like 'fuck me now' 'hi' 'i'll pay to fuck you' etc etc from a few fucking idiots ruin the site for the genuine people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"your request to meet, conflicting with your profile which says both no single men and wont meet at short notice, gives the impression you were messing with people and not serious about meeting. Any decent non-desperate single male would quite rightly then just ignore the offer...."
did you not message asking to meet once?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you get the feeling that if it had been a single bloke that had started this type of thread... it may well have turned out a lot differently......"
i thought that to be honest, |
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Exactly how much of a struggle ?
What is struggle ?
Sorry you didn't get a meet...ermm what is one supposed to say ?
Hardly a funeral is it.
I don't think anyone can advise you any more.
Your wife looks good. In fact i'd recognise her in class There's not enough pics of you to make a decision.
Change your filters and hit every fugger on the site that meets your needs with a message.
You'll get someone that has the right look for you soon.
Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yeah we allowed all messages.it was only after friend requests from men who had read the profile which says only men we know.then the shit messages,which made us block them.
as for our profile saying 'cant meet at short notice' that was explained higher up.is it not our decision when we have a few hours free one night?
men seem to think they are persicuted,thats why they get so defensive and think they have to fight their corner.
ffs
all i asked was about the meet,
when our messages are open we get a fair few offering the best fuck of our lives,as soon as we asked for a meet.they stop
i know people were looking as at the time niks pic was number 1 fab.but i dont think alot of people actually read profiles.its straight to the pics for a perv. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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but in a way don't you see the irony in what you posted...
you said you don't do last minute meets as you are busy.. and you only meet at clubs and parties...
and then you put that you can't get a last minute meet... and wondered why...
maybe.. and this is just a maybe.... a lot of single men can't do last minute either because "they are busy"... or will only meet at "clubs and parties"....
just because there are more single men, it doesn't mean the good and popular single men don't have the same excuse.. scrub excuse.. wrong word... the same reasons for not being able to do last minute..... |
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"yeah we allowed all messages.it was only after friend requests from men who had read the profile which says only men we know.then the shit messages,which made us block them.
as for our profile saying 'cant meet at short notice' that was explained higher up.is it not our decision when we have a few hours free one night?
men seem to think they are persicuted,thats why they get so defensive and think they have to fight their corner.
ffs
all i asked was about the meet,
when our messages are open we get a fair few offering the best fuck of our lives,as soon as we asked for a meet.they stop
i know people were looking as at the time niks pic was number 1 fab.but i dont think alot of people actually read profiles.its straight to the pics for a perv."
There are plenty of genuine single men on the site who i'm sure would be more than happy to meet you, you just have to filter out the timewaisters/idiots. Unfortunately we all get lumped together a lot of the time and so you might miss out on the genuine ones.
Feel free to message me next time you're looking for one! |
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that pity me and the wife live so far away. your gorgeous hun and we would have been there like a shot.
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"we are free to meet a male tonight,so advertised to see what is on offer and who takes niks fancy.but getting nothing..
would have thought a few would be up for it.
we are genuine,we only have 5 or so visable veri's but we have met lots of people and been on here before.so it cant be that pity me and the wife live so far away. your gorgeous hun and we would have been there like a shot.
confused.co.uk"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we know,there are far too many fakes,teasers etc on here.it just makes what must be a hard job for blokes even harder.
im lucky i get a ride on niks back,in clubs she gets alot of attention and i get to benifit from it.i know full well that wouldnt happen if i went on my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we know,there are far too many fakes,teasers etc on here.it just makes what must be a hard job for blokes even harder.
im lucky i get a ride on niks back,in clubs she gets alot of attention and i get to benifit from it.i know full well that wouldnt happen if i went on my own."
see again assumptions mr OP |
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