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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Us agin, we are new and have been taking whether a connection of any sort with the third is a good or bad thing. We are MF couple looking for M "
For us no connection is necessary. We play in clubs with anyone, male or female, if there is a mutual physical attraction. Having said that, there are a few (men and wonen) that we have played with several times and who have become friends and with whom we've developed a connection. |
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Everyone is different.
Personally, neither of us into just getting it on instantly with someone we've just met. We don't do the whole come in, take your clothes off, get it on then go routine some favour.
We prefer to have some sort of connection before play. A bit of a chat, some flirty banter and build up etc.
Not saying we have to best friends or have known each other forever but a couples of hours chat so we can make a final decision on play or not works best for us.
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It depends what you mean by connection.
Both of us need to like a guy on a superficial level (we don't meet single women) but there's a line neither of us cross as individuals. Any "connection" is as a couple rather than individuals.
Whether a connection is good or bad depends on your dynamic I suppose. Some people enjoy their partner having a closer relationship with someone other than them, some prefer not to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you’re after, IMO club meets are one offs and there’s no quality time or chance to sexually develop the relationship. I had a 2 year relationship with a married couple who would come round to mine at least once a month, sometimes once a week. Because we built up a trust and friendship we also developed our sexual relationship to some great heights. We tried all sorts of stuff that we’d have never dreamt of at the beginning! |
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