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been there done that, but !
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By *umps OP Man
over a year ago
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i thought after my first meet and verified it might have been easier to get meeting with other people. (doesn't look that way at all) i have emailed many profiles, just trying to get acquainted first and see if a meet is possible, right now im getting fed up with emailing those. so now im just using the wink.
any suggestions on a better approach. and yes i have used the chat section also.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a coupole its hard to say, however we tend to meet people who try to speak to us fist and do not just get down to the nitty gritty ( bad past experience)
Winks for us are ignored as it seems like they cant be bothered to message unles it comes with a message too.
I would hate to be a single guy trying to get meets on these sites to be honest as i am sure its difficult as there are so so many
Turn offs are to us:
one line messages
cock pics cock pics cock pics
no interest in what the lady wants
pushy pushy pushy ( if guys think we will make a decision in 5 mins your wrong )
I would say try to be different in some way, the thing is there are so many men out there looking for the same thing and so you have to stand out in some way.
Im a sucker for a nice guy and tend to tell the wife this one sounds cool we should try him.
Both of us get off on really respectful people who think of the lady and her limits at all times i am sure most are not that far away from us.
Good luck to you and i hope your cum pot will be emptied at all times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate,
Not saying you are or are not doing it, but i find you are more than likely to get a response if you don't ask for a meet straight away, or hint a leading to one.
Just try and find common ground with a profile you like send a face pic, more than a one line message and take it from there.
On the other hand I am probably drivelling pish.
Anyway good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a coupole its hard to say, however we tend to meet people who try to speak to us fist and do not just get down to the nitty gritty ( bad past experience)
Winks for us are ignored as it seems like they cant be bothered to message unles it comes with a message too.
I would hate to be a single guy trying to get meets on these sites to be honest as i am sure its difficult as there are so so many
Turn offs are to us:
one line messages
cock pics cock pics cock pics
no interest in what the lady wants
pushy pushy pushy ( if guys think we will make a decision in 5 mins your wrong )
I would say try to be different in some way, the thing is there are so many men out there looking for the same thing and so you have to stand out in some way.
Im a sucker for a nice guy and tend to tell the wife this one sounds cool we should try him.
Both of us get off on really respectful people who think of the lady and her limits at all times i am sure most are not that far away from us.
Good luck to you and i hope your cum pot will be emptied at all times "
This pretty much nails it. I'm a nice (well think I am) so that's how I put myself across, be polite and genuine for every ten messages that get ignored one will grab someone. So just stick with it and have patients. |
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By *umps OP Man
over a year ago
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"you have had 2 play meets in the last month that more than some single guys get in a year so i dont see what your problem is"
must be greedy then....lol.. but thanks for your response. but your words are true |
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Not that we are looking for a single guy, but your profile seams to be one of the better single profiles that I've seen who has posted about not getting enough meets. On previous similar threads some ladies have suggested face shots as that's what they like to see.
All in all, it comes down to supply and demand. Single guys are in huge supply. |
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By *umps OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not that we are looking for a single guy, but your profile seams to be one of the better single profiles that I've seen who has posted about not getting enough meets. On previous similar threads some ladies have suggested face shots as that's what they like to see.
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thanks for the compliments about my profile.. what a nice pressie on my birthday, even though you didn't know it...lol |
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