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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.
The whole idea really turns me on.
Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us.
Does he think this is the start of rekindling their relationship ?"
He moved away and paths are only crossing momentarily, so for us it was a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.
As we see it, having an ex is a bit of a negative and this is a way to turn it into a positive.
We understand everybody would not be comfortable enough to want this. |
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.
The whole idea really turns me on.
Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"
Well the thought of having sex with my ex would be enough to turn celibate lol
However on a serious note please both be very careful. There were feelings before a lot stronger than just lust that could surface on either side without warning or expectation
All swingers know there is always a risk inviting anyone into the bed but they haven’t usually had relationships with them
Anyway , hope it’s as horny as you hope  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.
The whole idea really turns me on.
Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?
Well the thought of having sex with my ex would be enough to turn celibate lol
However on a serious note please both be very careful. There were feelings before a lot stronger than just lust that could surface on either side without warning or expectation
All swingers know there is always a risk inviting anyone into the bed but they haven’t usually had relationships with them
Anyway , hope it’s as horny as you hope "
Thanks for the thoughtful message. I probably should have mentioned it was only a 1 year relationship through university so no deep roots being unturfed lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"for us it was a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.
But is it fair on the ex not to tell him she is in a new relationship?"
That's your decision to make I suppose. In these circumstances we think its fine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bit unfair on the ex if he's unaware she's in a relationship. But each to their own. "
Not often did I think there would be a situation that is unfair on the single guy getting to fuck a hottie when their paths cross but each to their own opinion lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.
The whole idea really turns me on.
Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"
Ex for a reason, massive mistake but just our opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.
The whole idea really turns me on.
Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"
Sounds like a car crash waiting to happen.
Also your fucking with the ex's emotions which is pretty shitty.
But each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Loool loving the feedback. A lot of difference in opinion. Alot of people seem very against it in this thread but a lot of people in favour of it sending private messages. Maybe this says something lol
Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loool loving the feedback. A lot of difference in opinion. Alot of people seem very against it in this thread but a lot of people in favour of it sending private messages. Maybe this says something lol
Interesting"
In fairness if I was interested in fucking your partner I'd possibly PM and say it was an excellent idea too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just my opinion but a few points of note here.
The ex was a short university relationship.
They are now crossing paths momentarily, so no chance to see each other regularly and allow any feelings to be rekindled.
Whether he knows she's in a relationship now or not, I dont think hes looking to fall back in love. Maybe I'm wrong but doubt it, I'm seeing this from a man's pov.
OP you're missus is hot. I look regularly  Love the challenge thing you do too 
Enjoy and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just my opinion but a few points of note here.
The ex was a short university relationship.
They are now crossing paths momentarily, so no chance to see each other regularly and allow any feelings to be rekindled.
Whether he knows she's in a relationship now or not, I dont think hes looking to fall back in love. Maybe I'm wrong but doubt it, I'm seeing this from a man's pov.
OP you're missus is hot. I look regularly Love the challenge thing you do too
Enjoy and have fun "
Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If the ex knew about your relationship fine, everyone is consenting with all information out there, the fact that he doesn't know makes me say no. You're then potentially toying with his feelings as he doesn't know the whole situation. |
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us.
a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.
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What boundaries are you pushing ? Having your fun without consideration for someone else? |
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"Just my opinion but a few points of note here.
The ex was a short university relationship.
They are now crossing paths momentarily, so no chance to see each other regularly and allow any feelings to be rekindled.
Whether he knows she's in a relationship now or not, I dont think hes looking to fall back in love. Maybe I'm wrong but doubt it, I'm seeing this from a man's pov.
OP you're missus is hot. I look regularly Love the challenge thing you do too
Enjoy and have fun "
What he said. |
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There’s clearly a reason he’s an ex and as long as you are in control of the whole situation then why not.... an ex won’t have the awkwardness of the first meet when you are feeling your way.... although that is sometimes part of the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.
The whole idea really turns me on.
Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"
What people do is entirely up to them but the not telling him about her being in a relationship bit is taking away his choice in the matter I would feel, personally, that that is wrong ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest I feel like the risk is too high since fun is all well and good but previous emotional connection is still a thing (since they probably didn't break up because of negativity)
I mean if it works out good for you but if I was with someone and swinging I'd probably avoid this kind of situation
Just seems a bit of a rocky slope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest I feel like the risk is too high since fun is all well and good but previous emotional connection is still a thing (since they probably didn't break up because of negativity)
I mean if it works out good for you but if I was with someone and swinging I'd probably avoid this kind of situation
Just seems a bit of a rocky slope"
Lol I love how much people can make their own assumptions lol. This forum is funny.
Appreciate everybody's opinions! |
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