"we define soft as everything but penetration...
Hard is everything  "
same as us, which makes me laugh when people refuse to meet us because they cant have sex with Em.
ateotd IF swinging is all about sticking your penis is another woman, then its not swinging you want, its an affair.
to us its all about fun and play and it doesnt have to involve full sex with someone else.
just our opinionc of course |
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"we define soft as everything but penetration...
Hard is everything
same as us, which makes me laugh when people refuse to meet us because they cant have sex with Em.
ateotd IF swinging is all about sticking your penis is another woman, then its not swinging you want, its an affair.
to us its all about fun and play and it doesnt have to involve full sex with someone else.
just our opinionc of course"
we really enjoy both, but dont like ppl who think its all about the cock so often meet soft swing couples cos they just seem to know how to enjoy themselves more |
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Sorry to have to be righteous but having a cock in you IS NOT an affair !!!!!
Of course you ended by saying it's just your opinion , but as an opinion goes it beggars belief to hear it on here !
Each to their own as far as boundaries etc .... But to suggest having a cock in you is having an affair is laughable  |
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"Sorry to have to be righteous but having a cock in you IS NOT an affair !!!!!
Of course you ended by saying it's just your opinion , but as an opinion goes it beggars belief to hear it on here !
Each to their own as far as boundaries etc .... But to suggest having a cock in you is having an affair is laughable "
i never said it was an affair, but lets be honest, if all swinging means to some is an end game, then may as well just have a dirt fumble round the back of a club |
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"Sorry to have to be righteous but having a cock in you IS NOT an affair !!!!!
Of course you ended by saying it's just your opinion , but as an opinion goes it beggars belief to hear it on here !
Each to their own as far as boundaries etc .... But to suggest having a cock in you is having an affair is laughable "
I thought the definition of an affair was to have a relationship behind your partners back, this would be very difficult when the partner is beside you watching you get fucked lol x |
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"Sorry to have to be righteous but having a cock in you IS NOT an affair !!!!!
Of course you ended by saying it's just your opinion , but as an opinion goes it beggars belief to hear it on here !
Each to their own as far as boundaries etc .... But to suggest having a cock in you is having an affair is laughable "
We enjoy being totally unrestricted with our bed partners, this includes lots of sensual forplay and kissing AS WELL as penetrative sex. It's not our end game, but it does usually end up there, to say that's an affair is a bit offensive if i'm honest! |
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It depends on ones mindset - is the full sex act one which crosses a boundary that shouldn't be crossed ? Is not full kissing , oral , intimate stroking etc .... Equally as personal ?
A fumble behind a club including full penetration is surely less like an affair than intimacy without penetration ?
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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For those who are into soft swap and if it gives you the gratification & satisfaction, goodluck and enjoy, but it's not for me.
The point of any swinging arrangement for me is the experience, and for me soft swap on its own will not get me there. I see it as foreplay, which sets you up nicely for the main event. And if the main event doesn't follow, it'll just end up being an annoying frustration. |
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