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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know some people have said to me that 19 is a little young to be on this site, but I think it's a great way to meet people for nsa sex and has allowed me to try things which would be a lot harder to arrange away from the swinging world. So I was just wondering how old you were when you began swinging? Also was there anything in particular that made you decide to start? |
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over a year ago
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i was 26 it was actually just before my 27th birthday, and out first meet was actually on my birthday, it was my ex's gift to me, another man to join us as it was something we had spoken about for years, he was dead craft too cause he even worked it so i met the guy before hand but pretended it was someone he worked with to make sure i liked him before he invited him over to the event
was a great night and just went on from there, 11 years later im sstill here all be it single now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some people have said to me that 19 is a little young to be on this site, but I think it's a great way to meet people for nsa sex and has allowed me to try things which would be a lot harder to arrange away from the swinging world. So I was just wondering how old you were when you began swinging? Also was there anything in particular that made you decide to start?"
I started late 17(ish) when my sexual urges kicked in but at 18 I'd tried cock and pussy, I wanted more pussy so I joined here on My 18th
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A lot of different ages then lol, glad to know I'm not the only one to start early too. Naughtynymphos do you think you would of began swinging, if your ex hadn't arranged it? Or was it something you had always wanted to try? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we were around 25, tbh, if I had known about it younger I would have been up for it before then... it's better and more respectful that pulling randoms in pubs |
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I started fooling around and experimenting aged 21 but then two long term relationships put all the fun on hold for the best part of 20 years and I'm just find my feet again now. There's a lesson there somewhere...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was born in 1404 France do the maths
* cReEps rOUnD cRyPt * -l- "
If you can say "Thou wantath a sexual awakening" in french right now I might be temped to believe that and that would put you on the top of my to do list, I'm obsessed with vampires! |
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19...but i was out there doing it, not in here ...
My general rule is if you cant out there you wont in here...most ppl i know who have been swinging since they were young were having threesomes foursomes and moresomes when the opportunity arose. Websites are useful for those of us with kids responsibilities and busy lives...i really cant see why you would need one at your age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of different ages then lol, glad to know I'm not the only one to start early too. Naughtynymphos do you think you would of began swinging, if your ex hadn't arranged it? Or was it something you had always wanted to try?"
yes im sure we would have, thats just that the story of our first meet, it was something we had spoken about many times he wouldnt have arranged it if he wasnt sure id have been up for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"19...but i was out there doing it, not in here ...
My general rule is if you cant out there you wont in here...most ppl i know who have been swinging since they were young were having threesomes foursomes and moresomes when the opportunity arose. Websites are useful for those of us with kids responsibilities and busy lives...i really cant see why you would need one at your age."
Cos they don't live in the age we did.... it's all social networks and texting, people that age have been brought up with it and it's the first thing they think of, we didn't have it as an option, that's why we got out there and just did it, same as why we knocked on our friends to play instead of inboxing them.
In my day... god I feel old lmao.... |
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"19...but i was out there doing it, not in here ...
My general rule is if you cant out there you wont in here...most ppl i know who have been swinging since they were young were having threesomes foursomes and moresomes when the opportunity arose. Websites are useful for those of us with kids responsibilities and busy lives...i really cant see why you would need one at your age.
Cos they don't live in the age we did.... it's all social networks and texting, people that age have been brought up with it and it's the first thing they think of, we didn't have it as an option, that's why we got out there and just did it, same as why we knocked on our friends to play instead of inboxing them.
In my day... god I feel old lmao.... "
in a way i see your point, but then i have read posts from younger guys on here saying they have pleanty of fun out there...
i suppose, to go with your analogy further, yes some kids are stuck inside on the PlayStation all day, but plenty i know are not, they go out, knock on their friends, have fun and just get on with life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I just think its a lot easier to find what you want on here, I would much prefer asking a couple for a 3some who said that they were looking for that with someone my age, then suggest the idea to a complete stranger I'd met in a bar or worse still a freind who might find the idea disgusting. I do meet people away from the site but in my experience there sometimes looking for more than just a bit of fun which I'm not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was born in 1404 France do the maths
* cReEps rOUnD cRyPt * -l-
If you can say "Thou wantath a sexual awakening" in french right now I might be temped to believe that and that would put you on the top of my to do list, I'm obsessed with vampires! "
so you mean tu veut-un réveil sexuel
i do believe or for the older dialect
tu indigens sexualem excitatio
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By (user no longer on site)
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myself it was the tender age of 16 when i started but back then we just thought it was a bit of fun swapping girlfriends and boyfriends around usually involved a lot of drink ... in saying that it also involved a private education so i will leave the rest of the details to your imagination  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I do meet people away from the site but in my experience there sometimes looking for more than just a bit of fun which I'm not. "
i find the same
i had a guy who was a contractor where i work ask me out for a drink, he was nice so i said ok, at the end of the night i was expecting a shag but he told me what a great night he had had and would like to take me on another date soon 
i run sharpish lol
i suppose cause i mainly meet guys off here who understand what im after it threw me a little that there was a guy who didnt just want a fuck lol
so now i stick to men on here that way we all know where we stand
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By (user no longer on site)
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"myself it was the tender age of 16 when i started but back then we just thought it was a bit of fun swapping girlfriends and boyfriends around usually involved a lot of drink ... in saying that it also involved a private education so i will leave the rest of the details to your imagination "
do you not think that at 16 thats not really swinging, just kid experimention with their sexuality
I had a 3sum with a couple i used to babysit for when i was young but i wouldnt class that as swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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True but it difficult to define anything at that age but i know from those experiences that it was i would continue to do and so far to date i have and yes i have had some bad some good but life is ever evolving ever changing and our formative years have a dramatic effect on the person who we mould and become in latter life so i suppose its kind of engrained into my life as much as the air i breath and blood that the air feeds.
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"myself it was the tender age of 16 when i started but back then we just thought it was a bit of fun swapping girlfriends and boyfriends around usually involved a lot of drink ... in saying that it also involved a private education so i will leave the rest of the details to your imagination
do you not think that at 16 thats not really swinging, just kid experimention with their sexuality
I had a 3sum with a couple i used to babysit for when i was young but i wouldnt class that as swinging "
why do we have to label it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"myself it was the tender age of 16 when i started but back then we just thought it was a bit of fun swapping girlfriends and boyfriends around usually involved a lot of drink ... in saying that it also involved a private education so i will leave the rest of the details to your imagination
do you not think that at 16 thats not really swinging, just kid experimention with their sexuality
I had a 3sum with a couple i used to babysit for when i was young but i wouldnt class that as swinging
why do we have to label it..."
very true its not so much a thing as a part of who you we all are i know i couldn't be a mormon or a monk although i have the hair style for it  |
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"myself it was the tender age of 16 when i started but back then we just thought it was a bit of fun swapping girlfriends and boyfriends around usually involved a lot of drink ... in saying that it also involved a private education so i will leave the rest of the details to your imagination
do you not think that at 16 thats not really swinging, just kid experimention with their sexuality
I had a 3sum with a couple i used to babysit for when i was young but i wouldnt class that as swinging "
at 16 i had left school got a full time job and really didnt see my self as i kid (move in to my own frist flat at 17) any kind of sexul fun i was having then wasnt playing with my sexuality and if you had a 3some at 16 (legal age) or 56 then its still a 3some and yes very much swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"myself it was the tender age of 16 when i started but back then we just thought it was a bit of fun swapping girlfriends and boyfriends around usually involved a lot of drink ... in saying that it also involved a private education so i will leave the rest of the details to your imagination
do you not think that at 16 thats not really swinging, just kid experimention with their sexuality
I had a 3sum with a couple i used to babysit for when i was young but i wouldnt class that as swinging at 16 i had left school got a full time job and really didnt see my self as i kid (move in to my own frist flat at 17) any kind of sexul fun i was having then wasnt playing with my sexuality and if you had a 3some at 16 (legal age) or 56 then its still a 3some and yes very much swinging "
hummm i dont know
i think swinging is more a mind set than a act
I dont class myself as a swinger, tho i mianly meet guys for one on one i do go to swinging clubs i do have group sex, i do engage in gang bangs and 3sums etc but i dont feel that makes me a swingers
I am one of those people who dont see single people as swingers we are just piggy backing off swingers site to get sex
everyoen has their own opinions on what swinging is and my views are by no means right they are just how i see it |
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"why do we have to label it...
i dont even know what swinging is lol
theres that many interpretations on here its hard to keep up "
tut...its beautiful couples having trophy wife swapping sex with other beautiful couples...i thought that was obvious 
thats kind of the point i was trying to make though...gently...i belive if u are the sort of person who attracts these things, they happen, and i understand mols point but i dont think the world has changed that much...in fact i know it from chatting to people...
If i started a list of the wierd sexual situations i got into as a young and unencumbered person we would be here all night, i just think go out there and see what happens...who knows where it will lead
btw why dony we have a fit and horny babysitter...ours is 62 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we sort of had not so much a three some but ten of us sharing a house and all sharing each other this went on from 16-19 for me then it was only occasional after that when i got some leave sure made up for lost time when i did get back though .... everyone loves a uniform
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was born in 1404 France do the maths
* cReEps rOUnD cRyPt * -l-
If you can say "Thou wantath a sexual awakening" in french right now I might be temped to believe that and that would put you on the top of my to do list, I'm obsessed with vampires!
so you mean tu veut-un réveil sexuel
i do believe or for the older dialect
tu indigens sexualem excitatio
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wildly claps hands, oooo that kinda got me wet! haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd been walking the planet for half a century when we started playing with other people.
It's been an eventfull 5 yrs, but to be honest, I think the adventure is drawing to a close   |
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