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Swinging Attraction Or Just Interaction?
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over a year ago
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Define proper swingers.. for fun, I dont need to be attracted to someone but it helps.. I will suck someones cock in a club that I wouldnt kiss 
Its about what is right for you.. there is no proper way about doing it.. its just about doing it the way that works for you.
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"Define proper swingers.. for fun, I dont need to be attracted to someone but it helps.. I will suck someones cock in a club that I wouldnt kiss
Its about what is right for you.. there is no proper way about doing it.. its just about doing it the way that works for you.
Cali "
i define ppl who say they are proper swingers as prats...so do what works for u and dont let anyone tell u that you are doing it wrong |
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As we see it, swinging is a bit like seeing someone you like in a pub, chatting them up then deciding to take them home if you fancy them. Except there's a group dynamic to spice things up! If you want to take on all-comers (no pun intended!), regardless of appearance, hygiene etc, then dogging or public rooms at adult clubs offer that opportunity.
We just wouldn't, couldn't meet couples or singles that we didn't fancy (at least a little bit!) We have an amazing sex life as a couple, so anyone joining in would have to add something to that for us to enjoy it... |
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Wow this is an interesting one !
What is a proper swinger ?
Simple answer is there is no such thing and those that say they are will invariably come across as pompous twats !
What suits you as a couple is the right way to swing - we are much happier with spontaneity and rarely look for friendship although it happens lol
Whatever you choose to do makes it right for you and the most important consideration is to have fun  |
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Swinging is 80% socialising and getting to know one anothe and 20% playing.
I personally am not interested in quickies, as a single girl yes could have that 10/20 times a day. It does nowt for me.
I prefer to get to know people before I share myself. xxxx |
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"Swinging is 80% socialising and getting to know one anothe and 20% playing.
I personally am not interested in quickies, as a single girl yes could have that 10/20 times a day. It does nowt for me.
I prefer to get to know people before I share myself. xxxx"
thats for that i feel the same and you put the words outta my mouth  |
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For us, getting to know people a bit and flirting with them is a big turn on and everyone we've met says the same thing.
At the opposite end of the spectrum, we've seen profiles saying things like "We do not send face pics. This is a swingers' site not a dating site. You either want to swing or you don't."  |
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Depends on the people; some we get on with really well and want to see again, others we have a good time with but don't necessarily want to be good friends. It's great to make good swinging friends and be 'regulars' together, you can be more relaxed and more intimate that way and sex is more fun if you know what the others like and don't like. But sometimes it's nice to have a quick fuck with people you'll never meet again, we go clubbing for this sort of fun. It's all about sexual variety. |
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"Depends on the people; some we get on with really well and want to see again, others we have a good time with but don't necessarily want to be good friends. It's great to make good swinging friends and be 'regulars' together, you can be more relaxed and more intimate that way and sex is more fun if you know what the others like and don't like. But sometimes it's nice to have a quick fuck with people you'll never meet again, we go clubbing for this sort of fun. It's all about sexual variety."
This is us to.
It's great when it does develope into something semi regular but it doesn't always workout that way.
Though we would never play of there wasn't attraction or felt we wouldn't get on with another couple. |
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