I'm interested in the views of couple's who don't do this, or have not planned to.
Is there a reason why it's currently a no-go for you?
Reasons I've heard vary from "it's wrong," (said by a swinger!), to "I'd get jealous," to "she doesn't feel safe without me there."
If you don't do it - and have no immediate plans to - is it something you can imagine doing in the future? |
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over a year ago
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We do, we have a couples and single profiles. I had a scare that made me realise life is too short and we decided we’d live life to the full.
I’ve no problem at all with her meeting other Men/Women and likewise for her. |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
We don't as we don't play seperately at all, swinging is something we like doing together and neither of us particularly fancies playing on our own, we have fun in the bedroom together and don't think swapping 1 of us out would enhance this.
Nothing against those who do though and nor do I think there's anything wrong with it if the desire's there crack on. |
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"I'm interested in the views of couple's who don't do this, or have not planned to.
Is there a reason why it's currently a no-go for you?
Reasons I've heard vary from "it's wrong," (said by a swinger!), to "I'd get jealous," to "she doesn't feel safe without me there."
If you don't do it - and have no immediate plans to - is it something you can imagine doing in the future? "
There's one very big reason we don't do it and have no plans to.
Neither of us want to. Neither of us can imagine doing it in the future. |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
This is something which is new for us, not something we ever set out to do.
Mrs T met a man we already knew by herself last week. She met him at a hotel looking stunning, it was so hot getting the pics and hearing all about it when she got home! |
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"We don't as we don't play seperately at all, swinging is something we like doing together and neither of us particularly fancies playing on our own, we have fun in the bedroom together and don't think swapping 1 of us out would enhance this.
Nothing against those who do though and nor do I think there's anything wrong with it if the desire's there crack on. "
I appreciate your response, thanks. In fact, it is exactly couples like you that I was hopong to hear from.
It's fascinating to me, because i initially we were not even interested in separate room swapping. (To be fair, I still often don't like how it feels - "you take mine and do her, while I take yours...") We weren't interested in that because this is very much something that WE do for US.
Yet, a fascinating experience of ours is that the hot-wifing we are starting to do completely feels like something we are doing together. I choose the men for her, shave her legs, help her dress. She then goes and blows someone's mind, knowing that it is turning me on, before coming home for reconnection.
I'm sure it may not make sense to some people, but Alice going off and fucking another guy whilst I am not there feels 100% like something we are doing together.
Just thought I'd share our unexpected discovery!  |
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We are very open to each other in what we do. We have a set of rules that suit us both, we generally only play as a couple, But Mrs has full permission to play and meet alone, but she says it doesn't feel right without me being involved, I've told her i like to receive pictures and videos of her with other men and love the anticipation of waiting for her to return home used, but she will only do it if I've met or we have both met the person beforehand, then she feels safe to do so. She has played the hot wife before with someone we knew, but our rules are she sends pictures and videos of what she is getting up to or even video calls. So its also got to be something that the other person involved is happy with. Everyone has different rules that work for them  |
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"We don't as we don't play seperately at all, swinging is something we like doing together and neither of us particularly fancies playing on our own, we have fun in the bedroom together and don't think swapping 1 of us out would enhance this.
Nothing against those who do though and nor do I think there's anything wrong with it if the desire's there crack on. "
Totally this for us too. The turn on for us is sharing the experience together and seeing each other with someone else. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
"This is something which is new for us, not something we ever set out to do.
Mrs T met a man we already knew by herself last week. She met him at a hotel looking stunning, it was so hot getting the pics and hearing all about it when she got home!"
This seriously makes for some vey hot fun if done well.... |
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