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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this? |
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?"
no, I hardly ever speak to them about the weather never mind sex. |
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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago
Harringay |
I get messgaded by straight men but dont feel comfortable. Its also very assuming thats what I'm into. Dont get straight guys who message me to 'come round for a wank.' Whats that all about? It all feels like a trap to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is very presumptuous, like if a guys straight then he’s obviously attracted to women and no matter how well a dude could suck dick, deepthroat, rim, take him to the balls or whatever. The straight guy isn’t going to like it cos it’s not a woman doing it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is very presumptuous, like if a guys straight then he’s obviously attracted to women and no matter how well a dude could suck dick, deepthroat, rim, take him to the balls or whatever. The straight guy isn’t going to like it cos it’s not a woman doing it.
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This is what I thought. How can he be straight if he’s letting a man suck his cock? To me that’s not straight it’s bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But why don’t lesbians and bi sexual women say they wanna mop me out then? Like I don’t get messages from birds offering discreet lick outs. "
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Mop me out?? I just spat tea across the room reading that  |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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A good friend of mine works in a prison and its fairly common for the guys to develop relationships. It doesn't make them bi
Also its perfectly possible for a person to derive pleasure from somebody that they're not necessarily attracted to |
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?"
Where have you got the idea that 'a lot' of bi/gay men like to 'suck straight men'. You may get the odd gay man that wants to try to turn straight men but you get the exact same thing with lesbian women but it's definitely not a majority |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?
Where have you got the idea that 'a lot' of bi/gay men like to 'suck straight men'. You may get the odd gay man that wants to try to turn straight men but you get the exact same thing with lesbian women but it's definitely not a majority "
From being on here for years and reading others guys experiences of the messages they receive. |
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?
Where have you got the idea that 'a lot' of bi/gay men like to 'suck straight men'. You may get the odd gay man that wants to try to turn straight men but you get the exact same thing with lesbian women but it's definitely not a majority
From being on here for years and reading others guys experiences of the messages they receive. "
.yeah, you cant use the very small demographic that is the people on fab to make sweeping statements about entire members of a sexual orientation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?
Where have you got the idea that 'a lot' of bi/gay men like to 'suck straight men'. You may get the odd gay man that wants to try to turn straight men but you get the exact same thing with lesbian women but it's definitely not a majority
From being on here for years and reading others guys experiences of the messages they receive. .yeah, you cant use the very small demographic that is the people on fab to make sweeping statements about entire members of a sexual orientation "
She said "a lot" and "some"
That's not exactly tarring everyone with the same brush! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I guess its because its something I cant have so it turns me on when I can have it .
Some “straight” men who I have sucked get alot more turned on when i suck them than they usually do with a woman, probably because its more kinky and forbidden to them, almost like doing something naughty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is very presumptuous, like if a guys straight then he’s obviously attracted to women and no matter how well a dude could suck dick, deepthroat, rim, take him to the balls or whatever. The straight guy isn’t going to like it cos it’s not a woman doing it.
This is what I thought. How can he be straight if he’s letting a man suck his cock? To me that’s not straight it’s bi. "
Not true.. A mouth is just a mouth after all and pleasure is just pleasure.
Like if i was blindfolded and a guy was sucking my cock and it was great then all of a sudden my gf took the blindfold off to find out it wasnt her im not instantly going to think its shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sense of achievement 'turning' the elusive straight guy so to speak? "
Lol no “straight” man is going to actively seek a guy or tv to suck them. I think thats the issue, people think gay men are trying to turn them, when in actual fact I get more of them approach me than I do them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is very presumptuous, like if a guys straight then he’s obviously attracted to women and no matter how well a dude could suck dick, deepthroat, rim, take him to the balls or whatever. The straight guy isn’t going to like it cos it’s not a woman doing it.
This is what I thought. How can he be straight if he’s letting a man suck his cock? To me that’s not straight it’s bi.
Not true.. A mouth is just a mouth after all and pleasure is just pleasure.
Like if i was blindfolded and a guy was sucking my cock and it was great then all of a sudden my gf took the blindfold off to find out it wasnt her im not instantly going to think its shit"
I dont really agree, its a completely different scenario and also that would be sexual assault since it was not initially agreed upon.
If a man is straight then he wont get hard, I honestly could never ever get hard over a woman sucking me, Ive tried twice and it was floppy. That was on two different occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sense of achievement 'turning' the elusive straight guy so to speak?
Lol no “straight” man is going to actively seek a guy or tv to suck them. I think thats the issue, people think gay men are trying to turn them, when in actual fact I get more of them approach me than I do them.
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My 'question' was more relating to those who actively seek a straight guy to suck. Kind of like presenting yourself as a woman to entice said 'straight' man. Also likely why you get approached more than you need to do the approaching no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is very presumptuous, like if a guys straight then he’s obviously attracted to women and no matter how well a dude could suck dick, deepthroat, rim, take him to the balls or whatever. The straight guy isn’t going to like it cos it’s not a woman doing it.
This is what I thought. How can he be straight if he’s letting a man suck his cock? To me that’s not straight it’s bi.
Not true.. A mouth is just a mouth after all and pleasure is just pleasure.
Like if i was blindfolded and a guy was sucking my cock and it was great then all of a sudden my gf took the blindfold off to find out it wasnt her im not instantly going to think its shit
I dont really agree, its a completely different scenario and also that would be sexual assault since it was not initially agreed upon.
If a man is straight then he wont get hard, I honestly could never ever get hard over a woman sucking me, Ive tried twice and it was floppy. That was on two different occasions. "
Yeah it was just an example.. Im straight but revkon i could get hard if a guy was sucking me off, its just an erogenous zone after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?
Where have you got the idea that 'a lot' of bi/gay men like to 'suck straight men'. You may get the odd gay man that wants to try to turn straight men but you get the exact same thing with lesbian women but it's definitely not a majority
From being on here for years and reading others guys experiences of the messages they receive. .yeah, you cant use the very small demographic that is the people on fab to make sweeping statements about entire members of a sexual orientation "
Sorry, but she's right. There are 'a lot' of men who do this, whether by message or by status update. Not just in my own experience, but that of plenty of friends I have on here. And Yes, it does happen in the real world too.
I believe with those inclined to do this it is simply that they fancy men and as well as achieving the unobtainable, the stereotype of a chap with a non-camp voice who chats about football etc conforms with their typical idea of a man more thoroughly?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?"
guess the don't smell of shit? |
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If a guy doesn't want me to suck his cock I have no interest in sucking it... there is no pleasure in an act for me if the other person doesn't desire it and get off on it.. If he does want it then he isn't str8....
If I'm playing with a str8 couple the guy is off limits by mutual consent,
and we're both just focusing on enjoying the woman's pleasure.... I'm not going to waste time trying to seduce someone who isn't interested and won't enjoy it!
So I don't think I can bring you any closer to an answer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So to sum up, it’s a combination of wanting something they can’t have, the thrill of being able to turn someone and the idea that a straight guy is somehow more manly than one that’s gay or bisexual? That last bit doesn’t really make sense to me. One of the hardest blokes in my village is bisexual and will wear lipstick, nail vanish and eyeliner, always has but should see him fighting boy. Fucking animal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So to sum up, it’s a combination of wanting something they can’t have, the thrill of being able to turn someone and the idea that a straight guy is somehow more manly than one that’s gay or bisexual? That last bit doesn’t really make sense to me. One of the hardest blokes in my village is bisexual and will wear lipstick, nail vanish and eyeliner, always has but should see him fighting boy. Fucking animal. "
There is obviously exceptions but then you get gay guys prancing around carrying handbags pouting that could not even throw a punch. They slap instead  |
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"There is obviously exceptions but then you get gay guys prancing around carrying handbags pouting that could not even throw a punch. They slap instead "
What's manly about throwing a punch? Plus, let's be honest, not many straight guys can throw a decent punch either.
I've seen more broken jaws than broken wrists in my time! ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sense of achievement 'turning' the elusive straight guy so to speak?
Lol no “straight” man is going to actively seek a guy or tv to suck them. I think thats the issue, people think gay men are trying to turn them, when in actual fact I get more of them approach me than I do them.
My 'question' was more relating to those who actively seek a straight guy to suck. Kind of like presenting yourself as a woman to entice said 'straight' man. Also likely why you get approached more than you need to do the approaching no? "
I was actually speaking as a gay man rather than a TV. People outside of this site do not know iam a TV, I easily meet men as a man. When Iam at a straight club or on holidays there have been many many times when “straight” men have approached me. |
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Think some lads are very happy to just provide a 'service' to 'straight' lads even if they are treated like dirt or as a quick convenience. I was once present when a mate entertained a 'straight' lad and I was really struck how the lad having his cock sucked didn't give a toss about my mate's needs or even having any discernible qualities except for reasonably sized cock. |
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"It is very presumptuous, like if a guys straight then he’s obviously attracted to women and no matter how well a dude could suck dick, deepthroat, rim, take him to the balls or whatever. The straight guy isn’t going to like it cos it’s not a woman doing it.
This is what I thought. How can he be straight if he’s letting a man suck his cock? To me that’s not straight it’s bi.
Not true.. A mouth is just a mouth after all and pleasure is just pleasure.
Like if i was blindfolded and a guy was sucking my cock and it was great then all of a sudden my gf took the blindfold off to find out it wasnt her im not instantly going to think its shit"
I have no personal experience of this scenario but I can appreciate the point you make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is obviously exceptions but then you get gay guys prancing around carrying handbags pouting that could not even throw a punch. They slap instead
What's manly about throwing a punch? Plus, let's be honest, not many straight guys can throw a decent punch either.
I've seen more broken jaws than broken wrists in my time! ??"
As a whole gay men are not more manly then straight men lets be honest. You can argue it all day but it still won't be true |
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"There is obviously exceptions but then you get gay guys prancing around carrying handbags pouting that could not even throw a punch. They slap instead
What's manly about throwing a punch? Plus, let's be honest, not many straight guys can throw a decent punch either.
I've seen more broken jaws than broken wrists in my time! ??
As a whole gay men are not more manly then straight men lets be honest. You can argue it all day but it still won't be true"
I think hes more pointing out that you seem to think a mans masculinity is proportional to how well he can throw a punch |
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"There is obviously exceptions but then you get gay guys prancing around carrying handbags pouting that could not even throw a punch. They slap instead
What's manly about throwing a punch? Plus, let's be honest, not many straight guys can throw a decent punch either.
I've seen more broken jaws than broken wrists in my time! ??
As a whole gay men are not more manly then straight men lets be honest. You can argue it all day but it still won't be true"
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"As a whole gay men are not more manly then straight men lets be honest. You can argue it all day but it still won't be true"
Don't worry, I never argue about anything all day. However, I would point out that I did not say gay men are more manly. I just said I don't think they are less so.
I'm not even really sure what that would mean, tbh. |
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I like my bi men bi and my gay men gay... See lots of bi/gay guys looking for straight men and I just don't get it. I want the people I play with to be into me just as much as I'm into them. Life's to short to be fooling around with curious or straight folk who are only there to satisfy their own needs. Ric xXx |
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I know quite a few ‘straight’ guys here who when comfortable enough have admitted that they would experiment for the experience and to say they’ve tried it. So perhaps the bi/gay men know this too and are seeking them out. The expression ‘fab straight’ came from somewhere and I think it’s because generally to even be on the site youre more likely to be an experimental person than someone who isn’t here.
Trying to arrange a bi mmf is a nightmare though...just saying lol  |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?"
How on earth can a straight mans dick taste better than a gay mans dick??? |
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?
How on earth can a straight mans dick taste better than a gay mans dick???"
No one mentioned taste.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do a lot of men like to suck the dicks of straight men? Some even say it’s better to suck a straight guys dick than someone who’s gay or bi.
Can anyone explain this?
Where have you got the idea that 'a lot' of bi/gay men like to 'suck straight men'. You may get the odd gay man that wants to try to turn straight men but you get the exact same thing with lesbian women but it's definitely not a majority "
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