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over a year ago
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I’m still looking for this , don’t think al ever find it tho because I’m getting on myself now , but I been looking since I was about 20 and only ever found someone about 5 year older when I’m wanting someone about 15/20 year older |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Younger guys tend to have two main problems when looking for mature ladies (other than the ratios obviously)
1) A woman of say 45 will often have kids either around or not much younger than that age. You won't fully understand how of putting that can be until you have kids yourself.
2) Mature ladies will have preconceived ideas about what younger lovers can offer, compared to older chaps, sometimes _ased on actual experiences. They're stereotypes, but stereotypes often exist for a reason and indicate there's a much higher proportion in each age group that fit them? A stereotype for a younger guy will be; generally in good shape and can bang hard. And is good at slapping a woman's arse, possibly at "fingerblasting". An older guy may not be in as good shape. He's good at understanding a woman's mind and all the nerves on her body to stimulate them in tandem which maximize pleasure. He's also good at conversation without having to rely on the same old generalised cliche compliments. Kind of like the male version of mature ladies being better in bed that younger guys tend to speak about.
Yes, they're stereotypes. Not all younger and older guys will fit these molds. But there's higher proportions of each that do and if a younger guy has little detail on his profile than "looking for fun" a bit of txtspk, his kik, snapchat, etc and "hit me up" then a lot of mature ladies will just think "stereotypical younger guy, not one that breaks that mold. No thanks."
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