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Dom/Sub - Where did you meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When ive had BDSM Doms ive met them mainly through another site that Im not allowed to name lol.
On here I've only really met men with Dom personalities. Im grateful for the sites as Id never get meets otherwise x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met here ,
Nice to see an exception to the rule!!! Still looking myself"
Our paths crossed . And we were both very sure and defined in what we sought . Our only advice to anyone ( not that we are trying preach ) would be , to step back slightly from the kink . Discover the person behind the profile . We can walk up the road and enjoy each other just as much in everyday life as we can during our " other " time. We also put no pressure on each other to be a certain way
. Its perhaps a cliche to say , its more a coming together of the minds that sometimes feels the most fulfilling |
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"We met here ,
Nice to see an exception to the rule!!! Still looking myself
Our paths crossed . And we were both very sure and defined in what we sought . Our only advice to anyone ( not that we are trying preach ) would be , to step back slightly from the kink . Discover the person behind the profile . We can walk up the road and enjoy each other just as much in everyday life as we can during our " other " time. We also put no pressure on each other to be a certain way
. Its perhaps a cliche to say , its more a coming together of the minds that sometimes feels the most fulfilling "
It's not cliche to say, it actually a really good thing to read on a BDSM related thread.
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"Our only advice to anyone ( not that we are trying preach ) would be , to step back slightly from the kink . Discover the person behind the profile . We can walk up the road and enjoy each other just as much in everyday life as we can during our " other " time. We also put no pressure on each other to be a certain way "
I definitely concur with this sentiment. Often in regards to D/s I see a “any Dom/Domme” will do sort of mentality.
I think that human connection, in terms of being a good fit is more important in D/s than swinging/hot wifing etc.
Sadly the numbers aren’t favourable for submissives here (especially male) but I still hold out hope.
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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In the absence of abuse and lack of consent, I am really against third parties defining what is or how a D/S relationship should be. Particularly when people in effect define it as a what apoears to be "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship i.e Jane Austen with kink.
In the phrase "D/S Relationship" both the "D/S" bit and the "relationship" are in my view equally important. But in real life, consensual adult relationships take many forms as do adult consensual kink relationshipsone and the latter (in my view) should not be shoe-horned into one form of relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I randomly and crazily met my ex-Dom on xhamster! Bizarre but a great guy. It's been 3 years now and although not together anymore, we'll be part of each others lives forever. |
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"Mrs Icebreaker was on cam on another swingers site. We talked, told jokes, it helped that I was out as a dom, and eventually had a fun social in a restaurant which led to what we do now."
Technically is "what other vegetables do you have" isn't a joke
Ms Icebreaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met on here, just over two years ago. I became exclusive to him, and have found it to be the most liberating, fulfilling and amazing relationship I’ve ever had. He’s not just my Dom, he’s my everything x I worship him, like any good lil sub should, haha x
Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met online and our relationship became very intense so quickly, from the very first time we met in person we have had something very special.
It would be very difficult to find someone kinky and compatible by chance. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on here, just over two years ago. I became exclusive to him, and have found it to be the most liberating, fulfilling and amazing relationship I’ve ever had. He’s not just my Dom, he’s my everything x I worship him, like any good lil sub should, haha x
Viv x"
Nice to hear that. Happy for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on here, just over two years ago. I became exclusive to him, and have found it to be the most liberating, fulfilling and amazing relationship I’ve ever had. He’s not just my Dom, he’s my everything x I worship him, like any good lil sub should, haha x
Viv x
Nice to hear that. Happy for you."
Thank you xx |
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"Mrs Icebreaker was on cam on another swingers site. We talked, told jokes, it helped that I was out as a dom, and eventually had a fun social in a restaurant which led to what we do now.
Technically is "what other vegetables do you have" isn't a joke
Ms Icebreaker "
But you giggled, beautifully....
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