"we thought we had found the ideal bull to use the wife and humiliate me. we arranged a meet in a pub and all got on fine. then when we wanted to crank it up a bit he is busy . what at timewaster !"
How is he a timewaster he met u didnt he ? |
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"we thought we had found the ideal bull to use the wife and humiliate me. we arranged a meet in a pub and all got on fine. then when we wanted to crank it up a bit he is busy . what at timewaster !"
I'm afraid timewasters exist in every type or at least proclaimed type, and being a bull is no different. Thankfully I've yet to meet a single timewaster from here 
I class myself as a switch as I adore being a bull but by no means is it the only string to my bow...why pigeonhole yourself and miss out on lots of fun? |
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Maybe he isn;t a timewaster at all. Maybe while you thought you got on fine he doesn;t share that view and is letting you down gently?
If you had decided not to play with him, would you be timewasters? Oh wait you aren't a single male so no of course not...
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"we thought we had found the ideal bull to use the wife and humiliate me. we arranged a meet in a pub and all got on fine. then when we wanted to crank it up a bit he is busy . what at timewaster !"
So he's a timewaster because he's not available exactly when you want him to be??  |
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"Maybe he isn;t a timewaster at all. Maybe while you thought you got on fine he doesn;t share that view and is letting you down gently?
If you had decided not to play with him, would you be timewasters? Oh wait you aren't a single male so no of course not...
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"well maybe he is busy, people do have lives other than fab. My family and then everything else comes before swinging. "
Come on you know the rules, men must drop anything and everything if a couple honour them with a chance of a shag  |
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No point deleting the post when everyone has quoted it... "
ahhh did we not tell them what unique special snowflakes they are and what a horrid man he must be  |
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"well maybe he is busy, people do have lives other than fab. My family and then everything else comes before swinging.
Come on you know the rules, men must drop anything and everything if a couple honour them with a chance of a shag "
oh god yeah completely forgot about that rule |
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"well maybe he is busy, people do have lives other than fab. My family and then everything else comes before swinging.
Come on you know the rules, men must drop anything and everything if a couple honour them with a chance of a shag
oh god yeah completely forgot about that rule "
Silly, its the one after the one that as a single female you must be looking for a couple to pleasure a man whilst his wife looses her bi cherry. |
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There are loads of reasons why a meet progesses no further than a drink
The effort was made to meet you both,it could well be that hes busy,people do have lives out of here
It could also be that he did'nt think that you're all a compatable match and does'nt want to appear rude by telling you that so is putting you off in a different way
I would'nt call him a timewaster though |
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I know it wasn't the kind of humiliation you were after (joke) but I do think when people decide to post threads attacking others, they have nobody else to blame if it backfires on them. |
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"we thought we had found the ideal bull to use the wife and humiliate me. we arranged a meet in a pub and all got on fine. then when we wanted to crank it up a bit he is busy . what at timewaster !
I'm afraid timewasters exist in every type or at least proclaimed type, and being a bull is no different. Thankfully I've yet to meet a single timewaster from here
I class myself as a switch as I adore being a bull but by no means is it the only string to my bow...why pigeonhole yourself and miss out on lots of fun?"
Cos some of us couldnt switch with a gun to our heads |
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"I know it wasn't the kind of humiliation you were after (joke) but I do think when people decide to post threads attacking others, they have nobody else to blame if it backfires on them. "
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This thread and the replies do raise a question that intrigues me... if you met someone for a social meet but felt you didn't get on but the other person/s obviously did, would you tell them up front that you weren't interested in taking things further or would you be more inclined to make excuses in an effort to let them down gently?
On my part I'd let them know, simply because that's the more polite way of doing things in my view, but I can understand why some people wouldn't feel comfortable doing that. |
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"This thread and the replies do raise a question that intrigues me... if you met someone for a social meet but felt you didn't get on but the other person/s obviously did, would you tell them up front that you weren't interested in taking things further or would you be more inclined to make excuses in an effort to let them down gently?
On my part I'd let them know, simply because that's the more polite way of doing things in my view, but I can understand why some people wouldn't feel comfortable doing that."
it depends on whether they realized it or not...if they got that i wasnt interested then i wouldn't say anything...if they got pushy then i might, but if i felt intimidated then i might just make an excuse to leave. |
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"This thread and the replies do raise a question that intrigues me... if you met someone for a social meet but felt you didn't get on but the other person/s obviously did, would you tell them up front that you weren't interested in taking things further or would you be more inclined to make excuses in an effort to let them down gently?
On my part I'd let them know, simply because that's the more polite way of doing things in my view, but I can understand why some people wouldn't feel comfortable doing that."
Its never easy as I don't believe that anyone wants to upset someone else,especially when one is more keen than the other and you don't want to come across as arrogant or rude
I would treat people the same I would expect top be treated myself and that would be with kind respect and id let them know instead of leading them on |
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By *rben112Man
over a year ago
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I'm used to rejection
10. I think of you as a brother. (You remind me of that inbred banjo-playing
geek in "Deliverance.")
9. There's a slight difference in our ages. (You are one jurassic geezer.)
8. I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way. (You are the ugliest dork I've
ever laid eyes upon.)
7. My life is too complicated right now. (I don't want you spending the
whole night or else you may hear phone calls from all the other guys I'm
seeing.)
6. I've got a boyfriend.
5. I don't date men where I work. (Hey, , I wouldn't even date you if you
were in the same 'solar system', much less the same building.)
4. It's not you, it's me. (It's not me, it's you.)
3. I'm concentrating on my career. (Even something as boring and
unfulfilling as my job is better than dating you.)
2. I'm celibate. (I've sworn off only the men like you.)
1. Let's be friends. (I want you to stay around so I can tell you in
excruciating detail about all the other men I meet and have sex with
..) |
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