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Genuine couple looking for genuine meets with couples
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? |
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We have kind of the same problem with what people want ! We are a couple that dont swap voyeurism exhibitionists watch and be watched kind of thing. We are now looking at clubs for this as most couples on here are full swap which we fully understand but many start off saying they soft swap then try to push full swap !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes we get that totally. When we first started out our dynamic was hard to accommodate as it was so niche but I think clubs would be ideal for your dynamic x |
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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago
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We're genuine, the issue is around 70% of couples aren't within 50 miles of us. And a further percentage aren't into the same stuff we are. And there has to be mutual attraction all round.
It's a numbers game unfortunately. |
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"We're genuine and looking 
Hi! It’s nice to know you are out there! How do you find the site? "
We find it to be many things.
Annoying, hilarious, disgusting, interesting, bonkers! We've had a couple of meets, mainly social and I had one solo meet for sex which was dreadful. We get a lot of daft messages which we mainly ignore.
We're newish to the whole scene so trying to work out exactly what we want from it and how, like you are, to separate the wheat from the chaff. And there is a LOT of chaff!
We have a few interests we'd like to pursue, so meeting couples is one, but we're also into hotwifing with a view to solo meets for me, but it has to be the right person.
We're struggling to find like minded couples who like the look of us too, but it's early days and I think clubs might be the best place for more serious meets. We're happy to talk though. |
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Genuine couple here interested in meeting like minded couples. Just find it's really difficult to find mutual attraction, too many people to please. When you do see someone they are usually living the other side of the country. It's so frustrating! X |
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"We have kind of the same problem with what people want ! We are a couple that dont swap voyeurism exhibitionists watch and be watched kind of thing. We are now looking at clubs for this as most couples on here are full swap which we fully understand but many start off saying they soft swap then try to push full swap !!!"
As lame as this may sound I have a HUGE interest in voyeurism, as a submissive it makes for a good fit. Especially so when locked in chastity. FWIW I’m reasonably local to you but due to your filters I couldn’t message you. Hence this post...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're genuine, the issue is around 70% of couples aren't within 50 miles of us. And a further percentage aren't into the same stuff we are. And there has to be mutual attraction all round.
It's a numbers game unfortunately."
Yes we have found that people aren’t usually close by which makes things more difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that "
Yes we try to have decent pictures up but have to be careful as we have been recognised by people we knew in the past! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We go to clubs, have met lots of genuine amazing couples that way "
We do attend Town House but prefer private meets as it’s so much more laid back we find |
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"Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that
Yes we try to have decent pictures up but have to be careful as we have been recognised by people we knew in the past! "
I'll take the chance for now 
We're going to try Townhouse in March, by the way. We haven't been before. |
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Because of the lack of spare time and a few times when we’ve been stood up we stick to Chams. However someone we know who shows no discretion has informed us that they frequent the aforementioned club so unfortunately as much as we love Chams the risk of bumping into them may be too great and we may have to travel further afield. That in itself is also going to limit our opportunities even further as it’s not as if we can pop out for a few hours down the road now.  |
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"Hi
We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? "
It can be a bit frustrating sometimes ...we dont rush deciding on meets social or otherwise and find most timewasters lose interest ...and the serious ones wait for the right occasion to hook up x |
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"If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up.
If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one "
The issue for us with much of it is childcare - it's not on tap and we can't get sitters at the times we'd like sometimes. Real life, eh? |
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"If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up.
If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one
The issue for us with much of it is childcare - it's not on tap and we can't get sitters at the times we'd like sometimes. Real life, eh? "
 feel your pain |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because of the lack of spare time and a few times when we’ve been stood up we stick to Chams. However someone we know who shows no discretion has informed us that they frequent the aforementioned club so unfortunately as much as we love Chams the risk of bumping into them may be too great and we may have to travel further afield. That in itself is also going to limit our opportunities even further as it’s not as if we can pop out for a few hours down the road now. "
That’s so annoying! We have never been to champs but stick to Town House in the Wirral. It’s a shame that there are people out there that are out to spoil it for others! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we are a genuine couple who swing and was until recently, in a thouple. However we do better in real life than on here and generally stay in our lane. You guys are way out of our lane. |
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The trouble with meeting couples is that you have to accommodate 4 different tastes. He may fancy her but she may not fancy him and vis versa.
Most single guys are honest in their lust and just want to fuck. That makes choosing quite easy. He's not ugly, he has a penis, he wants to fuck, let's fuck then
Clubs are better for meeting couples, you can mingle, meet many couples, chat, ask if they're interested, go to a room, fuck, leave. |
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Genuine couple who know what they want here! We like a bit of back and forth messaging to get to know each other, but not to spend weeks just chatting - if we're getting on we're
keen to arrange a social to see where things go. Find the club scene is easier than here, hard to convey certain things with only text! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always up for fun but sadly my hubby’s age seems to put a lot off having said that when in clubs we never find it a barrier played with a lot of sexy younger cpls  |
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"Hi
We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? "
We are finding exactly the same issue. So annoying |
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We only meet at clubs certainly for the first time, so many couples say we don’t like them or never been, can we meet for a coffee etc social,
Well not to put to finer point on it clubs serve coffee, have a large social area, let’s be honest you’re not swinging in Costa you can all make your choices have a proper discussion in the right environment. |
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"Hi
We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? "
Plenty of couples in your age range at AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We experience just the same trying to find couples with same interests.
We're Derbyshire based and like watching and being watched same room own partner fun scenarios.
We go to the attic and libs and can accom.
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