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Am I missing something...if a person/couple are already email/photo verified, so everyone knows they're real - what's the point of ten people saying they just met or chatted to them at a club?
I just looked at a profile with nearly 50 veris, but 48 were club/met/chatting/clothed veris...only a couple were from actual 'meets'.
I get veris that follow any kind of sexual interaction, but tens of 'we chatted at the bar' veris seem pointless...or am I missing something? |
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Lots of people have met them, liked them. Some of the verifications are just from meeting, others for more.
Why is that a problem?
If they are genuine, sociable and not newbies then surely it is only natural? |
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I do understand that all veris are valid and give others an insight.
Praps there needs to be an additional category of veri and the ability to quickly see the type youre interested in.
Trawling through ten veris at a club bar last night is a bit tedious. |
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The purpose of a verification is to show that a profile is real, not actually to give a review of someone’s performance, though that’s the norm. Photo verification is better than nothing but isn’t foolproof, so veris saying I’ve met this person, they’re real is worth a lot more. I don’t see why you’d find social veris a problem. |
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"The purpose of a verification is to show that a profile is real, not actually to give a review of someone’s performance, though that’s the norm. Photo verification is better than nothing but isn’t foolproof, so veris saying I’ve met this person, they’re real is worth a lot more. I don’t see why you’d find social veris a problem."
I don't really find them a problem and agree with a lot of what you say, but ten from a single night in a non-sexual exchange makes it hard to find any from actual meets with that person...id prefer there to be a 'met/played with' category... |
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I display all my veris, I like people to see my social side too, they show alot about your personality rather than "she gave a great blowjob" although i do display them too 
I enjoy having lots of veris, if someone does not want to read them then dont. |
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"The purpose of a verification is to show that a profile is real, not actually to give a review of someone’s performance, though that’s the norm. Photo verification is better than nothing but isn’t foolproof, so veris saying I’ve met this person, they’re real is worth a lot more. I don’t see why you’d find social veris a problem.
I don't really find them a problem and agree with a lot of what you say, but ten from a single night in a non-sexual exchange makes it hard to find any from actual meets with that person...id prefer there to be a 'met/played with' category... "
I guess I just don’t see why the distinction matters. Unless you’re hoping for details or something, a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed. I’ve met people with glowing veris who were absolutely disastrous meets. |
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They are fully clothed verifications that back up that people are who they say they are nothnig more nothnig less. Photo varis can be faked as can meet ones but if you get 20 people at a social saying they met them then its fairly nailed on they are genuine. They might be verification whores too but that a whole other thing people do mind. |
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"Am I missing something...if a person/couple are already email/photo verified, so everyone knows they're real - what's the point of ten people saying they just met or chatted to them at a club?
I just looked at a profile with nearly 50 veris, but 48 were club/met/chatting/clothed veris...only a couple were from actual 'meets'.
I get veris that follow any kind of sexual interaction, but tens of 'we chatted at the bar' veris seem pointless...or am I missing something? "
photo verification doesn't prove anyone is real... |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another"
That’s my point - I don’t pay much attention to them myself. My comment was aimed at OP because he thinks they’re more meaningful than social veris for some reason. |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another
That’s my point - I don’t pay much attention to them myself. My comment was aimed at OP because he thinks they’re more meaningful than social veris for some reason."
No, that isn't really what I'm getting at, my fault as hard to explain.
I get why 'social' veris are important, but have chatted to several here who've been stood up by people with social veris...so I guess I like 'played with' veris, because it shows that a person/couple actually turned up...and they're more interesting, obvs.
And TEN social veris from a single social is a bit like you looking for a plumber and me telling you about the great plumber I met in the pub...you want to know if he turns up for work and does a good job, not how many pints he drinks. |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another"
Omg, just chuckling at the mere thought of a reviews/ratings section...f*k advisor...??
And NO I'm not in favour of one either, just chuckling at the thought... |
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over a year ago
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I don't mind what veris people show, in fact I find the sex ones can be a bit cringe. I'd rather read 'we met and had a great time together', rather than 'he's got a massive cock and blew his load all over my tits' any day. |
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"I don't mind what veris people show, in fact I find the sex ones can be a bit cringe. I'd rather read 'we met and had a great time together', rather than 'he's got a massive cock and blew his load all over my tits' any day."
yep...if I don't want to spend time with someone, I sure as hell won't want to fuck them... |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another
That’s my point - I don’t pay much attention to them myself. My comment was aimed at OP because he thinks they’re more meaningful than social veris for some reason.
No, that isn't really what I'm getting at, my fault as hard to explain.
I get why 'social' veris are important, but have chatted to several here who've been stood up by people with social veris...so I guess I like 'played with' veris, because it shows that a person/couple actually turned up...and they're more interesting, obvs.
And TEN social veris from a single social is a bit like you looking for a plumber and me telling you about the great plumber I met in the pub...you want to know if he turns up for work and does a good job, not how many pints he drinks. "
All it really shows is they played with someone (not necessarily that they turned up if they’re the ones hosting). It definitely doesn’t tell you they’ll “do a good job” because everyone leaves either a good veri which is untrue because they feel they have to be polite or something; or a lukewarm veri that basically boils down to “yes I met this person and [insert vaguely positive thing about person that doesn’t say anything about the sex]”. If anyone ever leaves a scathing “yes this person exists but is terrible in bed” type veri I guarantee it won’t be displayed! Plus which lots of people don’t leave veris, even when they say the meet was amazing and they want a repeat, and least of all when it was awful. |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another
That’s my point - I don’t pay much attention to them myself. My comment was aimed at OP because he thinks they’re more meaningful than social veris for some reason.
No, that isn't really what I'm getting at, my fault as hard to explain.
I get why 'social' veris are important, but have chatted to several here who've been stood up by people with social veris...so I guess I like 'played with' veris, because it shows that a person/couple actually turned up...and they're more interesting, obvs.
And TEN social veris from a single social is a bit like you looking for a plumber and me telling you about the great plumber I met in the pub...you want to know if he turns up for work and does a good job, not how many pints he drinks.
All it really shows is they played with someone (not necessarily that they turned up if they’re the ones hosting). It definitely doesn’t tell you they’ll “do a good job” because everyone leaves either a good veri which is untrue because they feel they have to be polite or something; or a lukewarm veri that basically boils down to “yes I met this person and [insert vaguely positive thing about person that doesn’t say anything about the sex]”. If anyone ever leaves a scathing “yes this person exists but is terrible in bed” type veri I guarantee it won’t be displayed! Plus which lots of people don’t leave veris, even when they say the meet was amazing and they want a repeat, and least of all when it was awful."
Leads us perfecty into another related topic...
Why don't I ever see negative feedback (with a reply section) for individuals or clubs?!
Every meet can't be amazing and I know first hand that clubs sometimes get things horribly wrong...like lack of heating in winter (just sayin).
So if the veris and reviews are all fixed, how can we get a true picture of a person or club? |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another
That’s my point - I don’t pay much attention to them myself. My comment was aimed at OP because he thinks they’re more meaningful than social veris for some reason.
No, that isn't really what I'm getting at, my fault as hard to explain.
I get why 'social' veris are important, but have chatted to several here who've been stood up by people with social veris...so I guess I like 'played with' veris, because it shows that a person/couple actually turned up...and they're more interesting, obvs.
And TEN social veris from a single social is a bit like you looking for a plumber and me telling you about the great plumber I met in the pub...you want to know if he turns up for work and does a good job, not how many pints he drinks.
All it really shows is they played with someone (not necessarily that they turned up if they’re the ones hosting). It definitely doesn’t tell you they’ll “do a good job” because everyone leaves either a good veri which is untrue because they feel they have to be polite or something; or a lukewarm veri that basically boils down to “yes I met this person and [insert vaguely positive thing about person that doesn’t say anything about the sex]”. If anyone ever leaves a scathing “yes this person exists but is terrible in bed” type veri I guarantee it won’t be displayed! Plus which lots of people don’t leave veris, even when they say the meet was amazing and they want a repeat, and least of all when it was awful.
Leads us perfecty into another related topic...
Why don't I ever see negative feedback (with a reply section) for individuals or clubs?!
Every meet can't be amazing and I know first hand that clubs sometimes get things horribly wrong...like lack of heating in winter (just sayin).
So if the veris and reviews are all fixed, how can we get a true picture of a person or club? "
I don’t leave a veri from a bad meet. Simple. Why would anyone do that? Veri’s are to show someone is real, genuine. Social/clubs ones helps show if a person is a nice/funny/chatty person etc. I like to read that people have a personality to go with that cock that’s been jizzing on Sandras* last night after he had her squirting all over the room and him making her cum 406 times in 12 minutes |
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a veri tells you very little about what someone’s like in bed.
I didn't know they were supposed to...they're not trip advisor reviews...and what works for one person wouldn't for another
That’s my point - I don’t pay much attention to them myself. My comment was aimed at OP because he thinks they’re more meaningful than social veris for some reason.
No, that isn't really what I'm getting at, my fault as hard to explain.
I get why 'social' veris are important, but have chatted to several here who've been stood up by people with social veris...so I guess I like 'played with' veris, because it shows that a person/couple actually turned up...and they're more interesting, obvs.
And TEN social veris from a single social is a bit like you looking for a plumber and me telling you about the great plumber I met in the pub...you want to know if he turns up for work and does a good job, not how many pints he drinks.
All it really shows is they played with someone (not necessarily that they turned up if they’re the ones hosting). It definitely doesn’t tell you they’ll “do a good job” because everyone leaves either a good veri which is untrue because they feel they have to be polite or something; or a lukewarm veri that basically boils down to “yes I met this person and [insert vaguely positive thing about person that doesn’t say anything about the sex]”. If anyone ever leaves a scathing “yes this person exists but is terrible in bed” type veri I guarantee it won’t be displayed! Plus which lots of people don’t leave veris, even when they say the meet was amazing and they want a repeat, and least of all when it was awful.
Leads us perfecty into another related topic...
Why don't I ever see negative feedback (with a reply section) for individuals or clubs?!
Every meet can't be amazing and I know first hand that clubs sometimes get things horribly wrong...like lack of heating in winter (just sayin).
So if the veris and reviews are all fixed, how can we get a true picture of a person or club?
I don’t leave a veri from a bad meet. Simple. Why would anyone do that? Veri’s are to show someone is real, genuine. Social/clubs ones helps show if a person is a nice/funny/chatty person etc. I like to read that people have a personality to go with that cock that’s been jizzing on Sandras* last night after he had her squirting all over the room and him making her cum 406 times in 12 minutes "
I totally get that, but I'm thinking more if something someone did worried or upset you, howd you give others a heads up, if all veris are fixed?
I left a coupla balanced, polite feedbacks about clubs listing the good and bad of certain nights, but they weren't published.
Praps fab needs to separate veris from reviews/feedback. |
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The advantage of a social verification is that it may be from someone who isn't trying to get a shag.
Turning up, being able to behave in mixed company & have a conversation.
Sorts the keyboard warriors from the genuine swingers. |
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"I totally get that, but I'm thinking more if something someone did worried or upset you, howd you give others a heads up, if all veris are fixed?"
In a system where the person has the choice to show it or not, anything negative you might say about someone will never be seen as they just won’t display it. And anything else would be seen as your word against theirs, or would be open to abuse, just like “naming and shaming” on the forums. Unfortunately I don’t think there’s any way around it. |
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"I do understand that all veris are valid and give others an insight.
Praps there needs to be an additional category of veri and the ability to quickly see the type youre interested in.
Trawling through ten veris at a club bar last night is a bit tedious."
why do you need to look through them all x they just show someone is who they say they are. Very few of mine are sexual..as people tend not to leave me sexual ones or I dont display them |
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I show all of my veris, quite a lot are from hosting and some are from playing. It shows off my personality, I'm not keen on the veris that over share our sexual experiences together but I have them up because all are true. |
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"I don't mind what veris people show, in fact I find the sex ones can be a bit cringe. I'd rather read 'we met and had a great time together', rather than 'he's got a massive cock and blew his load all over my tits' any day.
yep...if I don't want to spend time with someone, I sure as hell won't want to fuck them..."
This 100% |
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"I don't mind what veris people show, in fact I find the sex ones can be a bit cringe. I'd rather read 'we met and had a great time together', rather than 'he's got a massive cock and blew his load all over my tits' any day.
yep...if I don't want to spend time with someone, I sure as hell won't want to fuck them...
This 100%"
Agreed-ish, though I/we always keep the social side minimal...ive found differing views and biases can directly affect my sexual attraction to someone.
I prefer minimal chat and keeping a firm focus on the main event.
Its different for all I guess. |
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