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Wifes first time with another man!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After years of discussion my wife has decided to act on out my fantasy of sleeping with someone else. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions, things to avoid etc. I am so excited!! |
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We absolutely love it... Just find the right fella. It took us an age to find the chap and then a while before we committed. The wait is worth it. The day leading up to our meet was the most intense feeling of excitement, worry but most of all.... The horn, my god the horn.... Phew
Had a couple of single fella meets now and would certainly do another.
Good luck x |
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"After years of discussion my wife has decided to act on out my fantasy of sleeping with someone else. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions, things to avoid etc. I am so excited!!"
Top tip: Don't sleep.  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"After years of discussion my wife has decided to act on out my fantasy of sleeping with someone else. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions, things to avoid etc. I am so excited!!"
Let her do the searching and choose who she is comfortable with but be involved in chatting to the guy as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We absolutely love it... Just find the right fella. It took us an age to find the chap and then a while before we committed. The wait is worth it. The day leading up to our meet was the most intense feeling of excitement, worry but most of all.... The horn, my god the horn.... Phew
Had a couple of single fella meets now and would certainly do another.
Good luck x"
Sign me up!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been the “other guy” in this situation, it’s all about everyone feeling comfortable and enjoying the time together, I have found a chat and a drink to start the night helps relax all of us and the atmosphere is a lot better. And just go the flow. Usually if I’m meeting a couple and it’s there first time I let them have control of the evening and keep at their pace, not be pushy or persistent helps.
It’s not all about getting your kit off and getting it on. |
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"She would be alone with the other guy. I think she would find it too awkward if I was there."
Why would she feel awkward? You are her husband. She should be able to share everything with you without any awkwardness. |
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"She would feel awkward because it would be a new experience that she is not used to."
how the two of you go about this is entirely up to you to decide between you.
If she wants to be alone with the man and you're ok with that its fine.
Just keep the lines of communication open between you and talk over any negative feelings either of you might have without blame as well as the good feelings |
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"Been the other guy before and it’s all about being respectful and making sure everyone is enjoying the experience."
Chose the wrong person could ruin it all chose the right person and the experience could lead to years of fun ! I love helping out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something that we are trying to do. Rather than a one of encounter, we are looking for a long term play mate....proving very difficult. Good luck and enjoy!! X |
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