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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great when you find someone with the same intrests and lifestyle choices as you, but I’m really struggling, to find that person!
I've always told perspective partners that i enjoy this lifestyle, if it wasnt something they where into or wouldn't consider it then we wouldn't be compatible. No point changing or hiding what you enjoy!!
I see so many sexy hot couples on here and think how do they do it, where did they meet. Can anyone give me some suggestions or tips?
Seen plenty of sexy hot singles on here, but the demand for them is so high, it’s hard to make a connection, because they have 1000s of other men messaging them... help!! Haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was about to post a similar thing, it’s hard to find someone when you know you enjoy this lifestyle and they dont.
Its a big conundrum to think about, although recently I found out a close female friend of mine wants to come in to the scene, so there’s always a chance i guess? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't it just nicer to find someone that you like and enjoy having fulfilling sex with rather than hope they want to involve others in your sex life too? |
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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago
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I met my partner on a dating app.. But when things were looking to go from dating to seeing each other I mentioned my desire to swing... But to be honest I knew from early on that he would be more than willing to join in... And certainly not everyone would be... We were somewhat lucky to find each other... Certainly none of my other dates would have been... Compatable... So I didn't even mention it...
I guess you have to just wait until you meet the right one.. So I guess putting yourself out there.. Meeting lots of people in the social... Until someone clicks...
Not overly helpful I know... Xx |
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We been married for 10yrs and, as of the 17th of this month, together for 16yrs. We've built a strong relationship which we think is essential to allow us to enjoy this lifestyle. We're pretty new to it but we don't think it'd work if we didn't know each other inside out. |
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"Isn't it just nicer to find someone that you like and enjoy having fulfilling sex with rather than hope they want to involve others in your sex life too?"
Nope, not if it is what you want. Some people are 'wired up' differently to others, where just having one person sexually for the rest of their lives, isn't what they want from life. So being honest and finding someone sexually compatiable is very important to them. |
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"Isn't it just nicer to find someone that you like and enjoy having fulfilling sex with rather than hope they want to involve others in your sex life too?
Nope, not if it is what you want. Some people are 'wired up' differently to others, where just having one person sexually for the rest of their lives, isn't what they want from life. So being honest and finding someone sexually compatiable is very important to them."
Yep, I put my hand up to being one of those!
I'm looking for a partner. It even says it on my profile. Not against finding someone on here, where there's already and openness and honesty about what we both want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep, I put my hand up to being one of those!
I'm looking for a partner. It even says it on my profile. Not against finding someone on here, where there's already and openness and honesty about what we both want."
Same here, i only recently recognised that myself and it answered so many questions for me. |
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"Yep, I put my hand up to being one of those!
I'm looking for a partner. It even says it on my profile. Not against finding someone on here, where there's already and openness and honesty about what we both want.
Same here, i only recently recognised that myself and it answered so many questions for me. "
Such a shame you're so far away, Mr Spacecowboy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great when you find someone with the same intrests and lifestyle choices as you, but I’m really struggling, to find that person!
I've always told perspective partners that i enjoy this lifestyle, if it wasnt something they where into or wouldn't consider it then we wouldn't be compatible. No point changing or hiding what you enjoy!!
I see so many sexy hot couples on here and think how do they do it, where did they meet. Can anyone give me some suggestions or tips?
Seen plenty of sexy hot singles on here, but the demand for them is so high, it’s hard to make a connection, because they have 1000s of other men messaging them... help!! Haha x "
well this is refreshing you want a wife and one you can share.......... not surprised its proving a difficult prospect    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We found each other, and I found out mrs likes girls so as a suprise one night I found one for her (us)
However I would give this lifestyle up in a heartbeat if she didnt like it or things changed as love is to good a thing to lose over randoms.
Also if I was into it and fell and love with her she didnt want me to do it then I would stop. |
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"Great when you find someone with the same intrests and lifestyle choices as you, but I’m really struggling, to find that person!
I've always told perspective partners that i enjoy this lifestyle, if it wasnt something they where into or wouldn't consider it then we wouldn't be compatible. No point changing or hiding what you enjoy!!
I see so many sexy hot couples on here and think how do they do it, where did they meet. Can anyone give me some suggestions or tips?
Seen plenty of sexy hot singles on here, but the demand for them is so high, it’s hard to make a connection, because they have 1000s of other men messaging them... help!! Haha x "
So you are on Fab to find a wife?. I find that strange. I have never bn a wife and never intend to be a wife ever. Im not wife material. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn't it just nicer to find someone that you like and enjoy having fulfilling sex with rather than hope they want to involve others in your sex life too?
Nope, not if it is what you want. Some people are 'wired up' differently to others, where just having one person sexually for the rest of their lives, isn't what they want from life. So being honest and finding someone sexually compatiable is very important to them."
But what about when the relationship is new...doesn't it over complicate things by involving others from the get go, rather than take the time to nurture the fledgling relationship and build that first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same, I would love to meet somone for a 'proper' relationship but I love the swinging secene and fet scenr so do you try and meet somone already in the scene or convert a vanilla. Tricky tricky |
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I am similarly minded. I'm not wired for a vanilla relationship and think it would be unfair on both my partner and myself to be with someone who had monogamy as their end goal.
When in a relationship swinging doesn't have to play a part month in month out but if it wasn't even an option that relationship wouldn't work for me. |
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It can happen.
We found each other on here.
Both singles and were enjoying the lifestyle but something clicked for us and we couldn’t be happier.
We’ve discussed what would happen if either of us wanted a break from Fab and we’d both stop happily if the other wasn’t into it anymore.
Hope you guys find what you’re after.
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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago
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I have had the best relationship being swinger with my ex partner. Full of passion, sexy time ect. Buy time pass by he didn't want commitment more so for me I started felt unsure and relationship fall apart I would love find again someone like him. Best friends, lovers but more than just swingers |
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Yep, i think there are many of us like that on here who would love to find a partner but also be able to swing when we want to as well.
I know I want more than random hook ups as I really do like the intimacy of being with that special someone and as has been said before, the likelihood of finding someone with the same outlook on regular dating sites is tiny so we end up on here going to find that elusive click.
Just to make you guys on here feel better and drop in a 'woe is me' vibe, you try adding into the mix that you're also a crossdresser as well and you'll find that you have much more chance of finding it than I do |
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