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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them?  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them? "
I just wouldn't touch him at all lol. |
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Chastity is such a yummy headfuck.
I adore being locked up and denied. Better still is playing whilst locked, I find it really does focus the mind and gets me into a wholly obedient and compliant headspace.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them?
I just wouldn't touch him at all lol."
That's really evil lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chastity is such a yummy headfuck.
I adore being locked up and denied. Better still is playing whilst locked, I find it really does focus the mind and gets me into a wholly obedient and compliant headspace.
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What has been done to you while locked? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?"
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them?
I just wouldn't touch him at all lol.
That's really evil lol."
Yep. |
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?"
Wow, you are a lucky dude. The pic is very sexy. Enjoy worshiping her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them?
I just wouldn't touch him at all lol.
That's really evil lol.
Yep. "
Shoulda guessed that sort of evil would be right up your street lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Wow, you are a lucky dude. The pic is very sexy. Enjoy worshiping her."
Thanks I am extremely lucky she is a total Goddess.x |
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"What has been done to you while locked?"
A variety of things. From things as simple as being made to orally worship my partner and make her cum. Wearing a strapon to fuck her. Being plugged and made to watch her masturbate. Dressed in fem underwear and sent to work locked.
Then to the more “interesting” stuff. Such as being fucked anally while chaste. Made to suck cock and my personal favourite being fucked by a guy while locked.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What has been done to you while locked?
A variety of things. From things as simple as being made to orally worship my partner and make her cum. Wearing a strapon to fuck her. Being plugged and made to watch her masturbate. Dressed in fem underwear and sent to work locked.
Then to the more “interesting” stuff. Such as being fucked anally while chaste. Made to suck cock and my personal favourite being fucked by a guy while locked.
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Wow. All sorts of stuff.
How did it feel to be caged during all these things? Did you love or hate the cage? And how long did she keep you caged? Did she ever let you cum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you? "
Yes it is restrictive it's not easy getting it on. She wants me to worship her mainly, her first task was for me to put the pic up. I am hers and I am a lucky boy for being so. |
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"Wow. All sorts of stuff.
How did it feel to be caged during all these things? Did you love or hate the cage? And how long did she keep you caged? Did she ever let you cum?"
Quite honestly I really enjoy being locked. I love the notion of relinquishing control of my cock and become almost penis-less. I found it a wholly fulfilling experience.
Knowing you aren’t going to cum has quite the effect on the brain....
My favourite experience was being fucked anally. My cock and orgasm became utterly meaningless and I was literally a “hole” to be used. At the time it felt quite profound and it never crossed my mind that I’d prefer to be unlocked.
I’ve been held in chastity for a few days and up to 10 days or so. I’d happily have done longer tbh.
Obviously once released the next orgasm is always very spectacular and very messy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you?
Yes it is restrictive it's not easy getting it on. She wants me to worship her mainly, her first task was for me to put the pic up. I am hers and I am a lucky boy for being so."
Has she said how long she wants to cage you for? Or when you'll get to cum? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow. All sorts of stuff.
How did it feel to be caged during all these things? Did you love or hate the cage? And how long did she keep you caged? Did she ever let you cum?
Quite honestly I really enjoy being locked. I love the notion of relinquishing control of my cock and become almost penis-less. I found it a wholly fulfilling experience.
Knowing you aren’t going to cum has quite the effect on the brain....
My favourite experience was being fucked anally. My cock and orgasm became utterly meaningless and I was literally a “hole” to be used. At the time it felt quite profound and it never crossed my mind that I’d prefer to be unlocked.
I’ve been held in chastity for a few days and up to 10 days or so. I’d happily have done longer tbh.
Obviously once released the next orgasm is always very spectacular and very messy
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Don't you get imppossibly horny when the cage is on for a longer time? Doesn't it make you desperate to get out and cum? |
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"Don't you get imppossibly horny when the cage is on for a longer time? Doesn't it make you desperate to get out and cum?"
I guess it’s one of things that differentiates submissives from kinky folk.
For me, being locked is something to revel in. The fact that someone wants to take control away from me. As such I enjoy all of the sensations you described.
Being unable to cum, get hard is deliciously frustrating and I bask in those sensations. Moreover the fact I am following the will and wishes of my partner is extremely satisfying. To the point where I want to be locked and denied for longer just to show my commitment and eagerness to please her.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't you get imppossibly horny when the cage is on for a longer time? Doesn't it make you desperate to get out and cum?
I guess it’s one of things that differentiates submissives from kinky folk.
For me, being locked is something to revel in. The fact that someone wants to take control away from me. As such I enjoy all of the sensations you described.
Being unable to cum, get hard is deliciously frustrating and I bask in those sensations. Moreover the fact I am following the will and wishes of my partner is extremely satisfying. To the point where I want to be locked and denied for longer just to show my commitment and eagerness to please her.
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Do you really desire no orgasms while locked? You only want to please her? How long do you think you'd happily stay locked?
It almost sounds like her orgasms take teh place of your own, and you fully accept that. |
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?"
Lucky fella.i wear a cage but to have an owner too is so hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you?
Yes it is restrictive it's not easy getting it on. She wants me to worship her mainly, her first task was for me to put the pic up. I am hers and I am a lucky boy for being so.
Has she said how long she wants to cage you for? Or when you'll get to cum?"
That's for Miss to decide. |
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"Do you really desire no orgasms while locked? You only want to please her? How long do you think you'd happily stay locked?
It almost sounds like her orgasms take teh place of your own, and you fully accept that. "
In a D/s dynamic cumming certainly becomes less important for me. That’s not to say I don’t want or enjoy orgasms but that isn’t the main focus.
I definitely put pleasuring my partner and her satisfaction above my own. If she decides I am not to cum then I willing accept that.
It may sound strange but in such a dynamic I found far more contentment and fulfilment than I have in any vanilla/kink sexual session, orgasm or no orgasm...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you?
Yes it is restrictive it's not easy getting it on. She wants me to worship her mainly, her first task was for me to put the pic up. I am hers and I am a lucky boy for being so.
Has she said how long she wants to cage you for? Or when you'll get to cum?
That's for Miss to decide."
Very true. I was just curious if she'd hinted how long you might be caged for. Aren't you worried? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you really desire no orgasms while locked? You only want to please her? How long do you think you'd happily stay locked?
It almost sounds like her orgasms take teh place of your own, and you fully accept that.
In a D/s dynamic cumming certainly becomes less important for me. That’s not to say I don’t want or enjoy orgasms but that isn’t the main focus.
I definitely put pleasuring my partner and her satisfaction above my own. If she decides I am not to cum then I willing accept that.
It may sound strange but in such a dynamic I found far more contentment and fulfilment than I have in any vanilla/kink sexual session, orgasm or no orgasm...
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It's almost like the cage is just a tool for you to something more profound. Don't you get worried about it being on for a v long time, though? Is there really no limit? |
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"It's almost like the cage is just a tool for you to something more profound. Don't you get worried about it being on for a v long time, though? Is there really no limit?"
Not really, the same would be true without the chastity cage. The rules still apply.... the willing submission to other persons wishes and desires.
I’d never worry about how long it was on for as I would only do something like that with a person I trusted implicitly. As such I know they would have my best interest at heart and always ensure I was ok.
Trust is a HUGE element in D/s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's almost like the cage is just a tool for you to something more profound. Don't you get worried about it being on for a v long time, though? Is there really no limit?
Not really, the same would be true without the chastity cage. The rules still apply.... the willing submission to other persons wishes and desires.
I’d never worry about how long it was on for as I would only do something like that with a person I trusted implicitly. As such I know they would have my best interest at heart and always ensure I was ok.
Trust is a HUGE element in D/s"
Might also be smart to do this with a lady who never loses her keys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Might also be smart to do this with a lady who never loses her keys.
Got to ensure there is always a spare key in a safe place!!!
Or it’s a DIY job with the pliers and hacksaw to get it off
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Could be a tricky one to explain at A and E |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you really desire no orgasms while locked? You only want to please her? How long do you think you'd happily stay locked?
It almost sounds like her orgasms take teh place of your own, and you fully accept that.
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In a D/s dynamic cumming certainly becomes less important for me. That’s not to say I don’t want or enjoy orgasms but that isn’t the main focus.
I definitely put pleasuring my partner and her satisfaction above my own. If she decides I am not to cum then I willing accept that.
It may sound strange but in such a dynamic I found far more contentment and fulfilment than I have in any vanilla/kink sexual session, orgasm or no orgasm...
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You put that all so eloquently. My thoughts entirely  It is odd how cumming really becomes unimportant, never thought it would be but yes it’s true for me also when caged. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you really desire no orgasms while locked? You only want to please her? How long do you think you'd happily stay locked?
It almost sounds like her orgasms take teh place of your own, and you fully accept that.
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In a D/s dynamic cumming certainly becomes less important for me. That’s not to say I don’t want or enjoy orgasms but that isn’t the main focus.
I definitely put pleasuring my partner and her satisfaction above my own. If she decides I am not to cum then I willing accept that.
It may sound strange but in such a dynamic I found far more contentment and fulfilment than I have in any vanilla/kink sexual session, orgasm or no orgasm...
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You put that all so eloquently. My thoughts entirely It is odd how cumming really becomes unimportant, never thought it would be but yes it’s true for me also when caged. "
How long have you been caged at a time? How did it feel? Any fun/evil teasing from the lady in charge? |
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"You put that all so eloquently. My thoughts entirely It is odd how cumming really becomes unimportant, never thought it would be but yes it’s true for me also when caged. "
Thank you, I’m glad you think so.
Submission and D/s is so often misunderstood, I wanted to try and explain from my own submissive point of view. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You put that all so eloquently. My thoughts entirely It is odd how cumming really becomes unimportant, never thought it would be but yes it’s true for me also when caged.
Thank you, I’m glad you think so.
Submission and D/s is so often misunderstood, I wanted to try and explain from my own submissive point of view."
Your replies did feel more "real" than the kinky thoughts in my head. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'd love to hear more about how ladies have actually teased and denied caged cocks. And denied/controlled orgasms. There must be so much fun to be had in those areas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you?
Yes it is restrictive it's not easy getting it on. She wants me to worship her mainly, her first task was for me to put the pic up. I am hers and I am a lucky boy for being so.
Has she said how long she wants to cage you for? Or when you'll get to cum?
That's for Miss to decide.
Very true. I was just curious if she'd hinted how long you might be caged for. Aren't you worried? "
No hints and no I'm not worried as I trust her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been chatting to a wonderful sexy lady on here. She has instructed me to get a cock cage so she can own me and so I can worship her. Iv uploaded a pic of me in the cage. What do you think?
Looks restrictive. How does it feel? And what does she want to do to you?
Yes it is restrictive it's not easy getting it on. She wants me to worship her mainly, her first task was for me to put the pic up. I am hers and I am a lucky boy for being so.
Has she said how long she wants to cage you for? Or when you'll get to cum?
That's for Miss to decide.
Very true. I was just curious if she'd hinted how long you might be caged for. Aren't you worried?
No hints and no I'm not worried as I trust her."
Yeah, trust is so important with this sort of area. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We enjoy this from time to time and occasionally, MrsM will proudly wear the keys around her neck when we are out... "
Fun . What sorts of things do you do when he's caged? |
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"We enjoy this from time to time and occasionally, MrsM will proudly wear the keys around her neck when we are out...
Fun . What sorts of things do you do when he's caged? "
All sorts, it’s about getting in the headspace. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We enjoy this from time to time and occasionally, MrsM will proudly wear the keys around her neck when we are out...
Fun . What sorts of things do you do when he's caged?
All sorts, it’s about getting in the headspace. "
Could you give any example? I'm v curious what caged couples do and what it really feels like for both partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them? "
It’s a massive turn on. D and I played a game recently. He wasn’t allowed to cum for a week no matter what...he could wank, edge touch do what he wanted but not cum. So he would get real close but wasn’t able to satisfy himself....until I decided he could but even then was tied down and played with until he was told that he could cum....and he did so very messily the payback was definitely worth it....next time he’s gonna be caged... |
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"This is something we want to explore,
I think it would be great fun to have him locked up while I tease him "
Mr was caged for put last meet.. Thrilling. He was a poor tease little boy until release time... |
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them? "
I do.
And there are far too many ways of teasing / denying to list. Open to PMs though if you’d like to discuss further xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This whole area turns me on lately. I've no idea why lol.
Do many ladies here keep their partners chaste? And what fun/evil ways do you tease them or deny them?
I do.
And there are far too many ways of teasing / denying to list. Open to PMs though if you’d like to discuss further xx"
I'd love to hear more. Can you pm me? I tried, but it wouldn't let me pm you  . |
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