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"That personality or character has anything to do with anything." Did you know you can tell a lot about someones personality from what they're like? | |||
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"Not just on FAB but what about the black cock myth?" Myth? I guess I have seen a lot of white white guys, and very average black guys, so maybe there really is nothing to it at all actually. More the marketing of it all? | |||
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"Myth? I guess I have seen a lot of white white guys, and very average black guys, so maybe there really is nothing to it at all actually. More the marketing of it all?" I think porn has a lot to answer for.... | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? " I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. " Because you only get lots of messages if you want to get lots of messages. If you don’t want them use your filters. The truth is most of the women (‘women of the forum’ possibly excepted) are never planning to meet anyone and are either fake, or loving the attention. The next myth is that they don’t like dick pics, if it didn’t work the guys wouldn’t have them on their profiles or send them | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. Because you only get lots of messages if you want to get lots of messages. If you don’t want them use your filters. The truth is most of the women (‘women of the forum’ possibly excepted) are never planning to meet anyone and are either fake, or loving the attention. The next myth is that they don’t like dick pics, if it didn’t work the guys wouldn’t have them on their profiles or send them " The dick pics are to attract men, hun. So it's not that they don't get lots of messages, they just get them because of false advertising or whatever, yes? | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. Because you only get lots of messages if you want to get lots of messages. If you don’t want them use your filters. The truth is most of the women (‘women of the forum’ possibly excepted) are never planning to meet anyone and are either fake, or loving the attention. The next myth is that they don’t like dick pics, if it didn’t work the guys wouldn’t have them on their profiles or send them The dick pics are to attract men, hun. So it's not that they don't get lots of messages, they just get them because of false advertising or whatever, yes? " There's certainly some ... fun ... logic in there! | |||
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"That there's someone for everyone. There isn't. Most of the guys on here have no idea how to talk to women, and given the ratios such guys will never meet anyone. " Seems to me most don't know how to talk to humans at all. I wonder how so many of them literally stay alive... | |||
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"That swinging, single women are easy" Especially us old fat ones!  | |||
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"That there's someone for everyone. There isn't. Most of the guys on here have no idea how to talk to women, and given the ratios such guys will never meet anyone. Seems to me most don't know how to talk to humans at all. I wonder how so many of them literally stay alive..." We agree with this as well! And then they wonder why they can’t get a meet  | |||
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"Oh, and that it's best to "be yourself". It isn't. This is a site for casual sexual encounters. Especially for men, if you want to meet, you have to be what other people want and fake it if necessary. As fab encounters are not usually long term you won't have to keep it up for long... " Being able to keep it up for long will definitely help get more meets! | |||
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"That there's someone for everyone. There isn't. Most of the guys on here have no idea how to talk to women, and given the ratios such guys will never meet anyone. Seems to me most don't know how to talk to humans at all. I wonder how so many of them literally stay alive... We agree with this as well! And then they wonder why they can’t get a meet
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"That the majority of women are punching way above their weight due to the men to women ratio. When in the so called real world the type of men wouldnt even look in their direction. Is that a myth?" I’d say it was bollocks myself. | |||
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"That the majority of women are punching way above their weight due to the men to women ratio. When in the so called real world the type of men wouldnt even look in their direction. Is that a myth? I’d say it was bollocks myself." Well yes, says a guy who "kindly offers" to wank over photos? That always just seems like a way to pretend you're involved in the scene when you aren't. | |||
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"That swinging, single women are easy Especially us old fat ones! "Your sexy.  | |||
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"Isn’t wanking over photo just terribly fuck sad?! "I get PMs asking S's permission to wank over our pics  | |||
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"Isn’t wanking over photo just terribly fuck sad?!
I get PMs asking S's permission to wank over our pics "We had a guy message us to say he couldn't stop looking at our pics as J is so perfect. 2nd time he felt the need to tell us, I told him there was a really easy way to help him out.. and block :D But as much as I think it's all a bit tragic, I still also see the attention seekers saying "tributes" are welcome... bleurgh. Is all this one of the things that never happened "back in the day" on fab i hear so much about? | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? " That's not a myth I get loads - mainly from men who just see a decent rack and think "oooh I'll hop on!!!" And dont read the profile | |||
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" That more men cheat than women. Statistically impossible!" It's not. Take the following example. 100 men 100 women in a closed group. 50 of each attached and 50 single. 10 of the attached men cheat and forty don't. 5 cheat with attached women and 5 with single women 5 of the attached women cheat and 45 don't. The 5 cheating women are the 5 seeing the cheating men. That leaves a pool of 50 single men for 45 single women. I'm not saying that's how it happens (though all surveys that have been done do say more men cheat), but it's certainly not mathematically impossible for more men to cheat than women. | |||
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 When they may have the strongest relationship on fab, may have been together longer than 98% on here but actually don’t want to full swap and won’t do something they don’t want to | |||
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"I'm 26 and and 18 year olds are like children to me now." Yep, with you there. And all that saggy wrinkly skin, no ta! Wait until you're my age, then you'll probably think a 25 year old is too young. Women possibly not so much, but certainly most of the you men we talk to here... just a different generation. I mean, I'm guessing you don't even know who DEM-OHHH-LISHHHH-UNNN even were in the 90s?! I presume in 20 years I wouldn't dream of going near a young 40 something, will probably feel like cradle snatching then! | |||
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"I'm 26 and and 18 year olds are like children to me now. Yep, with you there. And all that saggy wrinkly skin, no ta! Wait until you're my age, then you'll probably think a 25 year old is too young. Women possibly not so much, but certainly most of the you men we talk to here... just a different generation. I mean, I'm guessing you don't even know who DEM-OHHH-LISHHHH-UNNN even were in the 90s?! I presume in 20 years I wouldn't dream of going near a young 40 something, will probably feel like cradle snatching then!" It's an interesting thing with us old blokes. I'm 53 and there's still something that tells you you have a chance with any 25 year old whose friendly to you. Then your rational brain kicks him and you realise you're a boring old fart who reminds them of their sad  | |||
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"Dad not sad!! " Either works! | |||
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"I'm 26 and and 18 year olds are like children to me now. Yep, with you there. And all that saggy wrinkly skin, no ta! Wait until you're my age, then you'll probably think a 25 year old is too young. Women possibly not so much, but certainly most of the you men we talk to here... just a different generation. I mean, I'm guessing you don't even know who DEM-OHHH-LISHHHH-UNNN even were in the 90s?! I presume in 20 years I wouldn't dream of going near a young 40 something, will probably feel like cradle snatching then! It's an interesting thing with us old blokes. I'm 53 and there's still something that tells you you have a chance with any 25 year old whose friendly to you. Then your rational brain kicks him and you realise you're a boring old fart who reminds them of their sad "Yes but hopefully you look at age limits and respect them. We have friends over 50 who we love but they respect the age limit. Then we get guys constantly messaging saying we're missing out or women who think rules don't apply to them. | |||
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"I'm 26 and and 18 year olds are like children to me now. Yep, with you there. And all that saggy wrinkly skin, no ta! Wait until you're my age, then you'll probably think a 25 year old is too young. Women possibly not so much, but certainly most of the you men we talk to here... just a different generation. I mean, I'm guessing you don't even know who DEM-OHHH-LISHHHH-UNNN even were in the 90s?! I presume in 20 years I wouldn't dream of going near a young 40 something, will probably feel like cradle snatching then!" Unless you mean Ax and Smash.. not a clue. -Beast | |||
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"I'm 26 and and 18 year olds are like children to me now. Yep, with you there. And all that saggy wrinkly skin, no ta! Wait until you're my age, then you'll probably think a 25 year old is too young. Women possibly not so much, but certainly most of the you men we talk to here... just a different generation. I mean, I'm guessing you don't even know who DEM-OHHH-LISHHHH-UNNN even were in the 90s?! I presume in 20 years I wouldn't dream of going near a young 40 something, will probably feel like cradle snatching then! It's an interesting thing with us old blokes. I'm 53 and there's still something that tells you you have a chance with any 25 year old whose friendly to you. Then your rational brain kicks him and you realise you're a boring old fart who reminds them of their sad
Yes but hopefully you look at age limits and respect them.
We have friends over 50 who we love but they respect the age limit. Then we get guys constantly messaging saying we're missing out or women who think rules don't apply to them."I don't have any illusions and know that 99% of women in their twenties wouldn't touch guys my age with a bargepole. Experience has shown the same does not apply to young men and 48 years old women | |||
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"Rumour has it " Ah! Yes I did start the rumour  | |||
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"That soft swap is “boring” and soft swap couples don’t have a strong relationship or have trust issues When they may have the strongest relationship on fab, may have been together longer than 98% on here but actually don’t want to full swap and won’t do something they don’t want to "I think often it's *WHY* people don't "want to" though. There's a reason and a lot of the time it's not as... positive... as people make out. We often play soft, but only as safe sex in an mfmf rules out too much other fun stuff. | |||
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" That more men cheat than women. Statistically impossible! It's not. Take the following example. 100 men 100 women in a closed group. 50 of each attached and 50 single. 10 of the attached men cheat and forty don't. 5 cheat with attached women and 5 with single women 5 of the attached women cheat and 45 don't. The 5 cheating women are the 5 seeing the cheating men. That leaves a pool of 50 single men for 45 single women. I'm not saying that's how it happens (though all surveys that have been done do say more men cheat), but it's certainly not mathematically impossible for more men to cheat than women. " If that were the case, since the we are assuming every liaison involved one man and one woman, either a very small number of women are responsible for most of the male cheating. Or that the genuinely single guys won’t be getting very much at all. | |||
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"That the majority of women are punching way above their weight due to the men to women ratio. When in the so called real world the type of men wouldnt even look in their direction. Is that a myth? I’d say it was bollocks myself. Well yes, says a guy who "kindly offers" to wank over photos? That always just seems like a way to pretend you're involved in the scene when you aren't." It was a genuine question to your post, why take offence to it, its a regular topic in the forums. No need to get personal. | |||
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"Rumour has it that swinging is a single man’s world, and the single male is the ultimate unicorn and are sick and tired of receiving pussy pics all the time that they’re having to block females from contacting them. On the other hand single females are the pariah to the swinging community. Not all of them, I hasten to add, but a small group of the walking dead that follow couples round all the rooms in clubs and then continue to be door wankers frigging themselves to orgasm, much to the displeasure of couples wanting a bit of swinging space. They continue to make fake profiles up pretending to be couples or single men. Why do they do this? It’s just shocking, desperate behaviour! I mean if we wanted a single female, we’ll go out and contact a single female! Block filters on again! It’s just ridiculous getting 150-200 mails a day from these women! Don’t they read? Are they just interested in dick pics for their wank bank?" Sorry  | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population " If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” | |||
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"It was a genuine question to your post, why take offence to it, its a regular topic in the forums. No need to get personal." Very not personal I assure you, your username is the only thing I know about you. | |||
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"It was a genuine question to your post, why take offence to it, its a regular topic in the forums. No need to get personal. Very not personal I assure you, your username is the only thing I know about you." Must of hit a nerve. Bless. | |||
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"Biggest myths ? Professional couple/man seek similar .. got a job? Well done, then you're professional by fab standards Athletic seek similar ... Really, just average. Those well toned 6 packs or tight buns are few and far between BBC .. no, be honest, just black. The big ones are as rare as they are with white guys. Quality over quantity .. oh please, be honest with yourself. Your out to fuck anyone and everyone you find in any way, what so ever, attractive. " that's made my day | |||
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" That more men cheat than women. Statistically impossible! It's not. Take the following example. 100 men 100 women in a closed group. 50 of each attached and 50 single. 10 of the attached men cheat and forty don't. 5 cheat with attached women and 5 with single women 5 of the attached women cheat and 45 don't. The 5 cheating women are the 5 seeing the cheating men. That leaves a pool of 50 single men for 45 single women. I'm not saying that's how it happens (though all surveys that have been done do say more men cheat), but it's certainly not mathematically impossible for more men to cheat than women. If that were the case, since the we are assuming every liaison involved one man and one woman, either a very small number of women are responsible for most of the male cheating. Or that the genuinely single guys won’t be getting very much at all." Not at all. I'm my example 90% of the single women are available for the single men and single women are responsible for 50% of the male cheating. My point is to show its clearly not mathematically impossible for women to cheat less than men. Its a matter of empirical evidence as to whether that is, in fact, the case. | |||
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"I think the biggest myth is that bitching about women on your status or in the forums will make them see you in a better light and decide to meet you, judging by how often that bitching occurs!" Amen. | |||
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"Rumour has it that swinging is a single man’s world, and the single male is the ultimate unicorn and are sick and tired of receiving pussy pics all the time that they’re having to block females from contacting them. On the other hand single females are the pariah to the swinging community. Not all of them, I hasten to add, but a small group of the walking dead that follow couples round all the rooms in clubs and then continue to be door wankers frigging themselves to orgasm, much to the displeasure of couples wanting a bit of swinging space. They continue to make fake profiles up pretending to be couples or single men. Why do they do this? It’s just shocking, desperate behaviour! I mean if we wanted a single female, we’ll go out and contact a single female! Block filters on again! It’s just ridiculous getting 150-200 mails a day from these women! Don’t they read? Are they just interested in dick pics for their wank bank? Sorry " we did say not all of them. You must be “one of the better ones” or a silver tongued devil.
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"That the majority of women are punching way above their weight due to the men to women ratio. When in the so called real world the type of men wouldnt even look in their direction. Is that a myth?" Think that shows why you’ve never had a meet. Maybe readjust your attitude. | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” " I came here from the spanking community which I always thought wasn't as tolerant as it should be. But by comparison it's a fucking commune. I've been chatting online for twenty years and honestly thought I'd seen it all but the racism, misogyny, elitism and contempt for people here has genuinely shocked me. I feel like I'm starting all over again. I've never seen anything like this tolerated anywhere online. | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” I came here from the spanking community which I always thought wasn't as tolerant as it should be. But by comparison it's a fucking commune. I've been chatting online for twenty years and honestly thought I'd seen it all but the racism, misogyny, elitism and contempt for people here has genuinely shocked me. I feel like I'm starting all over again. I've never seen anything like this tolerated anywhere online. " Indeed. I would say that the majority of swingers are conservative in everything except their sex lives. | |||
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"Isn’t wanking over photo just terribly fuck sad?! "Yes, yes it is. | |||
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"Isn’t wanking over photo just terribly fuck sad?! "Each to their own i guess. The women and couples who enjoy this kink are very sad too according to you. | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” I came here from the spanking community which I always thought wasn't as tolerant as it should be. But by comparison it's a fucking commune. I've been chatting online for twenty years and honestly thought I'd seen it all but the racism, misogyny, elitism and contempt for people here has genuinely shocked me. I feel like I'm starting all over again. I've never seen anything like this tolerated anywhere online. " I completely agree. There are those who appear to trawl the forums looking to pick a fight. Only the other day on a forum about tattoos a couple of individuals appeared to take offence about a choice of tattoo a person had and appeared to be looking for an online argument. My mum used to say if you can’t say anything nice then say nothing. | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” " Eh, yes, that's why I said it's the biggest myth! | |||
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"We was told it was hard to get a meet on here. We haven’t found that. Spend most of our time saying no thanks. " Ditto! Trying to juggle the ones that look promising while being sensible about time etc. We've had a lot of interest | |||
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"That I'm the most stunning woman on fab. Hear it almost every day. I might just give in and have it! " Even with a morrisons bag you are rather scouching hot. | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? That's not a myth I get loads - mainly from men who just see a decent rack and think "oooh I'll hop on!!!" And dont read the profile "  | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” I came here from the spanking community which I always thought wasn't as tolerant as it should be. But by comparison it's a fucking commune. I've been chatting online for twenty years and honestly thought I'd seen it all but the racism, misogyny, elitism and contempt for people here has genuinely shocked me. I feel like I'm starting all over again. I've never seen anything like this tolerated anywhere online. I completely agree. There are those who appear to trawl the forums looking to pick a fight. Only the other day on a forum about tattoos a couple of individuals appeared to take offence about a choice of tattoo a person had and appeared to be looking for an online argument. My mum used to say if you can’t say anything nice then say nothing. " Yeah? My mum used to say don't call black people horrible names. In fact she still does. That's a perfect example of what I meant. In the spanking community people would just know that wasn't OK. And if for some reason someone didn't a moderator would remove it. You just wouldn't be allowed to refer to black people as spades whether in tattoo form or not. I genuinely feel like I've stepped back forty years that this is even an issue. But it's an eye opener into what people do and don't find acceptable. I come from a world where racial slurs aren't OK. Maybe others don't... Well clearly they don't. | |||
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"I come from a world where racial slurs aren't OK. Maybe others don't... Well clearly they don't. " Sadly the current state of politics is only making this step back more and more acceptable.
As for conservative in every other way... The more variety and diversity I see in this world, the more narrow minded many "real" swingers are inside this world too. Just crass wife swaps and nominal bi-fem and everything else is disgusting still. Yick! | |||
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"I come from a world where racial slurs aren't OK. Maybe others don't... Well clearly they don't. Sadly the current state of politics is only making this step back more and more acceptable.
As for conservative in every other way... The more variety and diversity I see in this world, the more narrow minded many "real" swingers are inside this world too. Just crass wife swaps and nominal bi-fem and everything else is disgusting still. Yick! "I watched a police programme this week about the area I live in and the gigantic escalation in racially motivated crime and I was in tears by the end, I just felt so ashamed of this country and how people think its OK to behave
It's just obtuse to say it's about a tattoo, it's not. It's nothing to with tattoos. It's about using a term for black people that wasn't acceptable forty years ago. It truly feels like we're slipping backwards. | |||
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"We was told it was hard to get a meet on here. We haven’t found that. Spend most of our time saying no thanks. Ditto! Trying to juggle the ones that look promising while being sensible about time etc. We've had a lot of interest "Us too, but most are instant no's to us. Maybe you should be fussier! | |||
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"We was told it was hard to get a meet on here. We haven’t found that. Spend most of our time saying no thanks. Ditto! Trying to juggle the ones that look promising while being sensible about time etc. We've had a lot of interest
Us too, but most are instant no's to us. Maybe you should be fussier! "I'm willing to give people a chance and it's hard to establish attraction from the frankly shite photos that many send! And no, I don't want to see your knob first | |||
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"Myth? I guess I have seen a lot of white white guys, and very average black guys, so maybe there really is nothing to it at all actually. More the marketing of it all? I think porn has a lot to answer for...." You can blame Omar for this lol gorgeous guy and amazing talents wink, wink x | |||
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"Biggest myth is that this site is for swingers. Fakers? Yes. Single daters? Yes. Picture collectors? Yes. Bedroom masturbators? Yes. Swingers? A very small minority in comparison x" What makes it the fact that the majority aren’t swingers? | |||
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"That everyone has such a high profile job they cant share pix! I have heard it so many times... And another myth is that couples dont meet single guys, they do, i can confirm that x" Hotwife couples are looking for single guys and also couples depending on the dynamic. | |||
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"That there's a clique on the forums......." Ha ha, mega myth, why oh why is there this, I’m out with the in crowd. | |||
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"That there's a clique on the forums....... Ha ha, mega myth, why oh why is there this, I’m out with the in crowd. " Me too... | |||
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"Not just on FAB but what about the black cock myth?" Exactly what myth? Of course black men have black cocks
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"That "straight man" on a profile always means "straight man"" That "straight man" on a profile doesn't really mean "straight man" | |||
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"That swinger's are open minded! Couldn't be farther from the truth, some very narrow-minded bigoted people on here." Yep, absolutely. | |||
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"That there's a clique on the forums......." | |||
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"That swinger's are open minded! Couldn't be farther from the truth, some very narrow-minded bigoted people on here." Simply reflecting real life? | |||
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"That swingers are more tolerant and open-minded than the general population If you read into some some of the forums I would say there’s a fair few who aren’t “ tolerant” and many who are are not “ open minded” Eh, yes, that's why I said it's the biggest myth!" I very much agree that this is the biggest myth. Found that out first hand lol. This is definitely not a site of like minded individuals. The other is if you take time to write a personalised message your more likely to get a response. No it just wastes more of your time. I see why people do one liners. The third, everyone on here are wanting to meet and play. | |||
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"That there are plenty of good doms on here "Seconded!!! | |||
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"“I’m not like the other men on here”" aren't you a couple? | |||
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"“I’m not like the other men on here”aren't you a couple? "That’s why we put it in speech bubbles to quote others. | |||
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"“I’m not like the other men on here”aren't you a couple?
That’s why we put it in speech bubbles to quote others. "lol not sure how speech bubbles differentiate | |||
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"I must be horny because I'm online." are you though? | |||
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"I must be horny because I'm online.are you though? "No. Forums don't make me horny. | |||
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"I must be horny because I'm online.are you though?
No. Forums don't make me horny."me neither thought it was online though | |||
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"I must be horny because I'm online.are you though?
No. Forums don't make me horny.me neither thought it was online though "That's why it's a myth. | |||
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"I must be horny because I'm online.are you though?
No. Forums don't make me horny.me neither thought it was online though
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"That there are plenty of good doms on here
Seconded!!!"I've certainly seen the sales pitches, but I'd think you should be off to fetlife for that typically. It's not *meant* to be here really is it? | |||
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"I think one of the biggest myths is that single guys think that couples are on here to get better sex from single guys. Or that the wives aren’t satisfied with what they’re getting at home. " possibly | |||
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"I think one of the biggest myths is that single guys think that couples are on here to get better sex from single guys. Or that the wives aren’t satisfied with what they’re getting at home. possibly" Definitely a myth. We're looking for a guy for me as a hotwife. S isn't cuckold and we have mind blowing sex. So our search is not to replace S but to spice things up and fulfil fantasies. | |||
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"That soft swap is “boring” and soft swap couples don’t have a strong relationship or have trust issues When they may have the strongest relationship on fab, may have been together longer than 98% on here but actually don’t want to full swap and won’t do something they don’t want to
I think often it's *WHY* people don't "want to" though. There's a reason and a lot of the time it's not as... positive... as people make out.
We often play soft, but only as safe sex in an mfmf rules out too much other fun stuff."Please OP or someone tell us this was an attempt at humour and we misunderstand, suggesting there's a reason people play within boundaries and it's not as positive as people make out. Otherwise it's very disturbing. Swingers questioning other swingers boundaries? In fact anyone questioning anyone's boundaries! Most of us are parents on here. We pray our children are never quizzed on their sexual boundaries (Why they don't want to? ), which are completely up to them and should be respected. | |||
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"That soft swap is “boring” and soft swap couples don’t have a strong relationship or have trust issues When they may have the strongest relationship on fab, may have been together longer than 98% on here but actually don’t want to full swap and won’t do something they don’t want to
I think often it's *WHY* people don't "want to" though. There's a reason and a lot of the time it's not as... positive... as people make out.
We often play soft, but only as safe sex in an mfmf rules out too much other fun stuff. Please OP or someone tell us this was an attempt at humour and we misunderstand, suggesting there's a reason people play within boundaries and it's not as positive as people make out. Otherwise it's very disturbing. Swingers questioning other swingers boundaries? In fact anyone questioning anyone's boundaries! Most of us are parents on here. We pray our children are never quizzed on their sexual boundaries (Why they don't want to? ), which are completely up to them and should be respected."would you want your adult children to be swingers though? | |||
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"That swinging, single women are easy" That is so far from the truth. If a bloke is so desperate to get a shag, go out and pick a girl up in a bar. You have a lot more chance BUT if you want a quality meet with a lady who knows what she wants and won't settle for less. FAB is the place. It's like comparing a mcdonalds to a fillet steak, A macdonalds is ok and and easy meal but a fillet steak is worth saving up for and worth the wait. Put some effort in and it's well worth it. X | |||
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"That swinging, single women are easy That is so far from the truth. If a bloke is so desperate to get a shag, go out and pick a girl up in a bar. You have a lot more chance BUT if you want a quality meet with a lady who knows what she wants and won't settle for less. FAB is the place. It's like comparing a mcdonalds to a fillet steak, A macdonalds is ok and and easy meal but a fillet steak is worth saving up for and worth the wait. Put some effort in and it's well worth it. X" Ha! That's a myth right? | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. Because you only get lots of messages if you want to get lots of messages. If you don’t want them use your filters. The truth is most of the women (‘women of the forum’ possibly excepted) are never planning to meet anyone and are either fake, or loving the attention. The next myth is that they don’t like dick pics, if it didn’t work the guys wouldn’t have them on their profiles or send them " Wtf??? Dick pics are horrendous. Plus the fact that men just randomly send pics of their tiny wrinkly dicks without any form of build up is just utter stupid. Tits are pretty in pictures, dicks are not. | |||
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"That soft swap is “boring” and soft swap couples don’t have a strong relationship or have trust issues When they may have the strongest relationship on fab, may have been together longer than 98% on here but actually don’t want to full swap and won’t do something they don’t want to
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We often play soft, but only as safe sex in an mfmf rules out too much other fun stuff. Please OP or someone tell us this was an attempt at humour and we misunderstand, suggesting there's a reason people play within boundaries and it's not as positive as people make out. Otherwise it's very disturbing. Swingers questioning other swingers boundaries? In fact anyone questioning anyone's boundaries! Most of us are parents on here. We pray our children are never quizzed on their sexual boundaries (Why they don't want to? ), which are completely up to them and should be respected."Totally this... | |||
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"That when women say 'quality not quantity' and they have no or very little veris, and you think yes she is all about that statement, but then you see the veris she's left displayed all over the local blokes profiles while having a quick nose about " When I say quality over quantity. I mean I'm looking for your undivided attention all night long. Not a quick fix fuck and go. How many men I spend quality time with is irrelevant. Plus my verification s are nobody's business but mine. To be fair it's not hard to find what I want on here and if I was free to do as I wish my verification s would probably be as long as your leg. The only frustration I get out of fab is knowing it's there for the taking and can't get the time out from real life to make the most of it. So here I am in the forum s trying not to get horny. Haha | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. Because you only get lots of messages if you want to get lots of messages. If you don’t want them use your filters. The truth is most of the women (‘women of the forum’ possibly excepted) are never planning to meet anyone and are either fake, or loving the attention. The next myth is that they don’t like dick pics, if it didn’t work the guys wouldn’t have them on their profiles or send them Wtf??? Dick pics are horrendous. Plus the fact that men just randomly send pics of their tiny wrinkly dicks without any form of build up is just utter stupid. Tits are pretty in pictures, dicks are not." It's a myth that all women hate cock pics. Some of us love them, if they are well taken photos of good looking cocks | |||
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"Wtf??? Dick pics are horrendous. Plus the fact that men just randomly send pics of their tiny wrinkly dicks without any form of build up is just utter stupid. Tits are pretty in pictures, dicks are not. It's a myth that all women hate cock pics. Some of us love them, if they are well taken photos of good looking cocks" Room for both perspectives, absolutely. People should be careful about talking on behalf of a population. It was interesting to see how prevalent dick pics are on Grindr. Just absolute default, maybe even more so than here, and that's men to men... I do wonder where the default hatred of dick pics comes from though, I think it's exaggerated through received wisdom. Nice lovely boobies are pretty much always lovely, but we've had some vaginas sent to us that have literally made us feel sick... All part of the same logic that says "Bi-fem gooooood, bi-man baaaad"? Whilst I'd rather not be sent dick pics, they are still what I go hunting for on a couples profile first. So so many disappointments in that regard, I do want to see the evidence early doors. | |||
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" How about the myth that women get a lot of messages? I guess that depends what counts as a lot. I get what I regard as a lot of messages esp as I can't be messaged except by men between 40 and 60. If I took the filters off I'd get five times as many. Not sure why you think it's a myth. Because you only get lots of messages if you want to get lots of messages. If you don’t want them use your filters. The truth is most of the women (‘women of the forum’ possibly excepted) are never planning to meet anyone and are either fake, or loving the attention. The next myth is that they don’t like dick pics, if it didn’t work the guys wouldn’t have them on their profiles or send them " I disagree. I know a few women on here and they constantly get hundreds of messages. Seems you are a bit bitter. | |||
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"That being honest and upfront will be beneficial in regards to meeting people... "It works for me! Can't stand people lying or not be honest here, an immediate turn off. Whether it's about age, marital status, whatever - there's no point. | |||
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"Not just on FAB but what about the black cock myth? Ffs" The biggest myth on HERE is that people with prejudice dont band together and try stick the k ife in where ever possible as a STRAIGHT white man why would black cock concern you anyway ???? | |||
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"Not just on FAB but what about the black cock myth? Ffs The biggest myth on HERE is that people with prejudice dont band together and try stick the k ife in where ever possible as a STRAIGHT white man why would black cock concern you anyway ???? " What? You seem to be trying to turn it into a racism AND sexuality issue, when it's absurd to not acknowledge some differences, and to question other assertions which have been proven to not be valid. He's not judging, accusing black men of anything, just referring to evidence about a (potentially racist) misconception | |||
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"I didnt turn it into anything but I'm UPFRONT enough to call people out " clicky, nasty people in forums it makes me laugh because it's always the same I'm playing the race card ?? No I'm not stupid and have been around people too much not to know when someone has 'issues' . | |||
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"That all swinging couples are happy in their relationships??? "Oh of course, but would anyone say ALL? The default line I'd always read on Reddit about a threesome was, conversely that it ALWAYS ruined your relationship and must ALWAYS be avoided no matter how tempting. Any blanket assertion is very likely to be wrong. | |||
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"Getting meets are hard. No they aren’t, just don’t be a dick. " Getting ANY meet isn't hard, getting good ones is more challenging! | |||
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"I didnt turn it into anything but I'm UPFRONT enough to call people out clicky, nasty people in forums it makes me laugh because it's always the same I'm playing the race card ?? No I'm not stupid and have been around people too much not to know when someone has 'issues' . So that guy has issues because he is aware that, from what I also googled, there is no statistically relevant correlation between penis size and skin colour? That makes him have "issues" but everyone fetishing, and believing, this innaccuracy is just fine and dandy?? He *may* have issues, but in the context and spirit of my post, it's a perfectly suitable answer I think. Don't be the thought police." ok ? So when that 'guy' responds I'll answer to him not you the female of a couple who dosnt even have a dick ? | |||
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"I didnt turn it into anything but I'm UPFRONT enough to call people out clicky, nasty people in forums it makes me laugh because it's always the same I'm playing the race card ?? No I'm not stupid and have been around people too much not to know when someone has 'issues' . So that guy has issues because he is aware that, from what I also googled, there is no statistically relevant correlation between penis size and skin colour? That makes him have "issues" but everyone fetishing, and believing, this innaccuracy is just fine and dandy?? He *may* have issues, but in the context and spirit of my post, it's a perfectly suitable answer I think. Don't be the thought police. ok ? So when that 'guy' responds I'll answer to him not you the female of a couple who dosnt even have a dick ? "Should I take misgendering me as a compliment? Maybe I should decide you have gender issues from that? I have a cock. And I had one in my mouth last night, so I think I'm entitled to be part of the conversation either way round. | |||
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