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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
I agree it becomes a dangerous game |
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"The only thing they would lose would be their teeth once fella found out. "
What if they were 3 times the size of your fella. Then your fella would lose his teeth,?????? 
Don’t take me serious, just joking.
Truly a despicable act, I agree |
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The one time it was tried I was guarded to start with and although they were a lovely couple they way he was, was off (she was hot!). And every time he tried to enter me I said where’s your cover and he kept saying oh sorry I forgot! Don’t know if it was too much drink or he was just an idiot but they were blocked and we will never see them again! |
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"The only thing they would lose would be their teeth once fella found out.
What if they were 3 times the size of your fella. Then your fella would lose his teeth,??????
Don’t take me serious, just joking.
Truly a despicable act, I agree"
Fella fights professionally and as it pays the mortgage rather well, he’s quite good at it. |
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We are a bareback couple and are open about that,bit if we did agree to meet people who clearly wanted safe sex only then it goes without saying that condom must be worn, no attempts to sneak in without 1 should ever be made |
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I have had 3 rip in 25 years of shagging and knew instantly. You can feel the change in heat and friction so it's an instant stop and check, but never tried to 'lose' one, that's just disgraceful, and in my eyes illegal. |
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Not only from the womans point of view, but don't guys care about the possibility of catching something? I'm not saying women on here are dirty by any means but I for one wouldn't be sliding it in jacket less unless I'd known them for a while and trust was there? Might just be me though  |
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault.
I agree it becomes a dangerous game "
It would in all probability be the R word |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only thing they would lose would be their teeth once fella found out.
What if they were 3 times the size of your fella. Then your fella would lose his teeth,??????
Don’t take me serious, just joking.
Truly a despicable act, I agree
Fella fights professionally and as it pays the mortgage rather well, he’s quite good at it. "
Yeah but you wouldn't enjoy visiting him in jail which is what happens when you throw your fists around. Don't throw your man in the ring, it's not very respectful. Mines never lost a fight in 53 years but I don't use him as a weapon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
And to think in California - it is no longer a crime to knowingly give someone HIV or not tell them before you have sex because of "Muh discrimination" and "stigma" |
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex "
Sadly I've met many guys who have done this and torn the condom on purpose.
It's appalling behaviour but these men feel they are entitled to do what they like
Stealthing is sexual assult removing or damaging a condom on purpose depending where in the world has different consequences, could be charged with r@pe, or sexual assult. Hopefully UK laws will become tougher.
Emotional and physical damage these guys cause just so they can get their dick wet
In the UK agreeing to sex with a condom is called conditional consent. You break the conditions you have had sex without consent and thus forth breaking the law. |
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A woman tried it with me twice. She was actually a good looking woman and lovely. I said I'm sorry but I don't do that. She messaged me after saying "Hey, I'm really sorry about what I asked earlier ". It's fine!
The thing is, it's not just about STIs, I don't want to get anyone pregnant and you never really know what plans another person has! |
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As far as I know the theory that if you only consent to sex on the basis that it's done with a condom and then the condom is deliberately removed then that is ra pe hasn't been tested in an English court.
Until recently it certainly wouldn't have been ra pe as consent obtained by deception was only ra pe if there was deception as to the ID of the person you were having sex with or as to the nature of the act (eg it was said to be a medical examination).
Other deceptions were not historically ra pe and lying about wearing a condom was seen as similar to lying about not being married. It may well be that in either case the other person wouldn't have had sex had they known the truth, but that didn't make it r ape.
However, the law is clearly moving towards the view that deliberately removing a condom without consent is ra pe and I suspect if such a case gets to court these dates it would be found to be ra pe.
However, the problem with getting a case to court would be evidential. Condoms do break and do slip off and do doubt anyone accused of rap e in those circumstances would say it was an accident and it would be difficult prove beyond reasonable doubt it wasnt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
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Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia...
Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3]
In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom.
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex
Sadly I've met many guys who have done this and torn the condom on purpose.
It's appalling behaviour but these men feel they are entitled to do what they like
Stealthing is sexual assult removing or damaging a condom on purpose depending where in the world has different consequences, could be charged with r@pe, or sexual assult. Hopefully UK laws will become tougher.
Emotional and physical damage these guys cause just so they can get their dick wet
In the UK agreeing to sex with a condom is called conditional consent. You break the conditions you have had sex without consent and thus forth breaking the law. "
there are some very disturbing online communities defending this kind of behaviour from a male entitlement standpoint... |
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia...
Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3]
In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom.
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As I say, the situation in the country isn't clear, but I think it likely that if a case got to court and it it could be proven that a condom was deliberately removed without consent then it would be classed as ra pe.
However, there would be huge difficulties proving the deliberate aspect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had it done once, it is called stealthing, I then said I had chlamydia (to be clear I did not) so he had to tell his wife
Shouldnt be a dick"
That's a dick move on his part (and anyone who does it...) great revenge though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk
They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read?"
You can’t take chances |
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk
They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read?
You can’t take chances"
Read the whole thread , he clearly says he doesn’t agree with it ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk "
Who are you no pics no verifications and reporting people for what you guess they might have done i think i shall report you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that it's disgusting and any guys who try that have no respect or manners. Some idiots on here who don't think how lucky they are to even get the chance to play with the girls on here. I would imagine that there's plenty of them on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had it when a man at a club tried to fuck 1 lady then went to try n fuck me and said no way as uve just used that condom and he couldnt see the problem!"
That's disgusting.... |
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We did have a guy try it in a club we were in.
B spotted it and pushed him away.
He tried again and B just pulled me up and out the room.
The other guys in the room had a quiet word and he left.
The club owners band him for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex
what is wrong with you!!!"
I think he was just asking the question. Doesn't necessarily mean he's into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is an intimate act and requires trust, so to take off a condom half way through is a betrayal and completely and utterly immoral, AND illegal. There was a case of a prostitute and her client removed his condom. He was convicted of the offence. It was a bit more that just that, but it is down to 'conditional consent'.
First time I had sex (it was a while back) the condom came off, but that has never happened since. I have improved |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thankyou for standing by my side when idiots decide to put falsè allegations against you i wouldn't risk mine or anyone elses health unless we were all agreed with whatever fun ww are doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
100% This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe I'm naive but why would someone even do this? You open yourself up to potential diseases and unwanted pregnancies. I know some people say sex feels better without a condom but not that I've noticed. I've always been happy with a condom and it has been to woman who has requested sex without to feel me cum x |
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Had a few guys try it on me .needless to say a simple no hat no play my dear works ! As for the i go soft if i put one on situation a decent squeeze along side the the base of the cock shaft revives it so you can try again . Failing that a pushy
guy once had the fear of a well placed stiletto heel on the testicle ... that resulted in a very short meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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48 hour ban for defending myself on this thread really i didn't realise i can accuse someone of doing something disgusting to another person but not allowed to stick up for yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but no. That's not what's consented to. If me and the woman have agreed to use a condom then I'll use it. It's scummy to take it off half way through without consent. It's actually classed as illegal in some places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"48 hour ban for defending myself on this thread really i didn't realise i can accuse someone of doing something disgusting to another person but not allowed to stick up for yourself "
Well you could of reported that particular post to have it removed...
A timeout for two days ain't a big deal, surely you've got a life lol |
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex "
yes once in a club many many years ago. First time I gave him the benefit of the doubt that it had slipped off. Then I caught him removing it ... so I turned around.. took a good handful of his balls... and dragged him through the club.. down the stairs to the security.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep. More than once. Unfortunately some people think it's acceptable to violate your choices.
Needless to say, I was furious and they were swiftly told to fuck off! Luckily, there were no repercussions for me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"48 hour ban for defending myself on this thread really i didn't realise i can accuse someone of doing something disgusting to another person but not allowed to stick up for yourself
Well you could of reported that particular post to have it removed...
A timeout for two days ain't a big deal, surely you've got a life lol"
It's the feeling of being reprimanded for sticking up for yourself but now i know i can accuse and report for what i might suspect changes the game |
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk "
And this folks goes some way to explaining why it takes so long for reports to be acted on. Can you imagine having to wade through rubbish like this every morning? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had the female half do that to me on a meet once. I didn't even realise until after. Was a little d*unk etc and not feeling it as you should.she apologised afterwards, but never told her hubby. |
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk
And this folks goes some way to explaining why it takes so long for reports to be acted on. Can you imagine having to wade through rubbish like this every morning?"
I agree it's rubbish but when you get accused you have to defend yourself
I will let it go and be a big boy lol |
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An alternative to alleging the R word is the much more straightforward section 24 Offences Against The Person Act charge of administering a noxious substance.
"Whosoever shall unlawfully and maliciously administer to or cause to be administered to or taken by any other person any poison or other destructive or noxious thing, with intent to injure, aggrieve, or annoy such person, shall be guilty of a misdemeanor, and being convicted thereof shall be liable . . . F1 to be kept in penal servitude . . . "
It would DEFINITELY annoy... |
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
As it involves penetration, I think it would class as r a pe.
I am at a loss to understand why someone would do such a dumb and shitty thing.
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise.
If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault."
This |
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia...
Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3]
In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom.
As I say, the situation in the country isn't clear, but I think it likely that if a case got to court and it it could be proven that a condom was deliberately removed without consent then it would be classed as ra pe.
However, there would be huge difficulties proving the deliberate aspect. "
Sadly the proportion of non stealth prosecutions in the UK is fisgustingly low, meaning that actual convictions represent just a tiny number of the likely real crimes. Whether a stealthing r@,p ever proceeded, due to it being less certain to gain a conviction, is worringly uncertain. Punishments need to be likely to potentially be a deterrent |
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If any condoms rip.. Please send back to manufacturer.
Think if there's an error then they need to know.
This is serious.
.. I have worked in health field its what is recommended. |
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia...
Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3]
In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom.
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex "
Yep, seems to be on the increase.
Similarly, our profile says we're into safe sex. Their profile says the same. Then, at literally the last minute, they say 'presumanly bareback...?'
This is happening quite a bit. |
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex
Yep, seems to be on the increase.
Similarly, our profile says we're into safe sex. Their profile says the same. Then, at literally the last minute, they say 'presumanly bareback...?'
This is happening quite a bit. "
we would stop a meet at exactly that point and leave or ask them to... |
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia...
Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3]
In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom.
How on earth could it be proved in a court of law though "
And therein lies the problem with acquiring conviction for many sexual offences. How do you prove someone did not consent if the sexual activity was at least consensual to start with? It's presumably very difficult and that is very unfortunate. |
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"A guy tried it with me at a sauna a few years ago. He got a messy ending, but not the kind he expected."
Fair play to you a telling off is nothing compared to a life sentence they could give you |
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Totally wrong and unforgivable to sneak a condom off act of a low life
They can split shit happens rectify as soon as you know
Only time not wearing a condom is ok. Is when it's a choice both parties have agreed to |
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