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Sharing your wife or GF, how to start and what to watch out for.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So for those who have been into cuckold,hotwife and generally sharing their gf or wife how did you start? I guess you dont know untill youve done it but how do you know your fantasy will actually pleasure you? I guess its too late afterwards when you think you hated the experiance and it wasnt for you, and you feel cheated or whatever. Any arvice on how to start, what to make sure your doing to not get too far ahead and any advice please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So for those who have been into cuckold,hotwife and generally sharing their gf or wife how did you start? I guess you dont know untill youve done it but how do you know your fantasy will actually pleasure you? I guess its too late afterwards when you think you hated the experiance and it wasnt for you, and you feel cheated or whatever. Any arvice on how to start, what to make sure your doing to not get too far ahead and any advice please."
Take tiny steps first. No jumping in as can be overwhelming
Maybe organise a very low key soft play meet first, try that few times to see how you feel seeing your mrs kiss a guy.
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It wasn't instant for us, when we decided to visit a club the first few times we just played with each other, then soft swap progressing to full swap so by that point you now how you feel about it, after on to threesomes with single guys next fantasy to fulfil for sapphire is more-somes 
It was a slow build up and talk to each other and nobody takes one for the team
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any arvice on how to start, what to make sure your doing to not get too far ahead and any advice please."
Well Op, as a single guy you first need to get yourself a girlfried or wife
For us it started in fantasy talk during sex, then conversations (not during sex) about the things we each find erotic and stimulating. Then a trip to a swingers club, and the rest just followed. Communication is always there, though, and we often chat about it too make sure we're both still happy to continue. |
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I enjoyed this lifestyle with a previous GF. I started for us, as with many here as sexy talk. We then discussed it while not aroused, over a dinner in a restaurant I believe. First steps, in a vanilla club she would go off and dance with other guys, I watched. It built from there. One step at a time, no rush. |
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