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over a year ago
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I like it but only when its done carefully, usually by my fella! If its done without care it bloody hurts!! A guy I didn't know that well once did it and put me out of action for about a week! I had a pic of my fella fisting me, it was in most fabbed for a while but then got banned!!! |
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over a year ago
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A sometimes splits me a little bit with just his cock, and thats when im well lubed, a fist i would be in agony, no amount of lube would be able to allow something of that size fit in there!! |
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"A sometimes splits me a little bit with just his cock, and thats when im well lubed, a fist i would be in agony, no amount of lube would be able to allow something of that size fit in there!!"
i have little girly hands and great sucess in being womens first fister  |
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over a year ago
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i tried it because i thought it would be fun but it didnt work an we didnt want to push it incase of accidents... and i think alot of women enjoy it.. i think some guys want to do it just to say they have but they wouldnt be able to unless women let them/enjoyed it so a it of both i guess |
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"A sometimes splits me a little bit with just his cock, and thats when im well lubed, a fist i would be in agony, no amount of lube would be able to allow something of that size fit in there!!
i have little girly hands and great sucess in being womens first fister "
oooh helloooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This lady has no interest whatsoever in having a fist in her honeypot thanks
Anyone that attempts to try it will be suffering from twisted bollocks
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"A sometimes splits me a little bit with just his cock, and thats when im well lubed, a fist i would be in agony, no amount of lube would be able to allow something of that size fit in there!!"
It doesn't just take lube to achieve but also time and knowledge and trust.
The fister has to be prepared to spend a lot if time massaging and relaxing the perineum. The fistee must be able to relax and control their breathing (apparently your muscles relax more on the out breath).
It is something u enjoy, but not many men have managed it, in fact the last hand up there was a womans... 
But if done carefully it is an amazing sensation  |
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By *exxymeWoman
over a year ago
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i love it if done right. it does hurt but for me the pleasure over rules this and i do think it is very much a male ego thing. makes them feel in control and to be honest, if they got there arm stuck up you, you aint going nowhere till he takes it out lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i love it if done right. it does hurt but for me the pleasure over rules this and i do think it is very much a male ego thing. makes them feel in control and to be honest, if they got there arm stuck up you, you aint going nowhere till he takes it out lol
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and if he starts talking like orville the duck - you would either laugh yourself silly and fall off his hand or you would jump off his hand eh |
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By *exxymeWoman
over a year ago
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"i love it if done right. it does hurt but for me the pleasure over rules this and i do think it is very much a male ego thing. makes them feel in control and to be honest, if they got there arm stuck up you, you aint going nowhere till he takes it out lol
and if he starts talking like orville the duck - you would either laugh yourself silly and fall off his hand or you would jump off his hand eh "
ha ha yer that would defo kill the passion  |
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"A sometimes splits me a little bit with just his cock, and thats when im well lubed, a fist i would be in agony, no amount of lube would be able to allow something of that size fit in there!!
i have little girly hands and great sucess in being womens first fister
oooh helloooo "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This lady has no interest whatsoever in having a fist in her honeypot thanks
Anyone that attempts to try it will be suffering from twisted bollocks
Never tried wouldnt want to ... ouch  "
Me neither,it makes me cringe just thinking about it,three fingers all the way is max for me. T
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my hubbys cock fits kinda well
so im not sure i would really want to make my hole any bigger 
each to their own tho ..
they are designed to take a babys head, and then shrink back...  "
That's as may be but there are a hell of a lot of physiological and hormonal changes that occur to enable that to happen to the cervix.
The same can't be said for the vagina,which is why it sometimes tears or has to be cut.
(Just that thought made my bits contract!)
I'll just stick to cocks and dildo's. T
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"my hubbys cock fits kinda well
so im not sure i would really want to make my hole any bigger
each to their own tho ..
they are designed to take a babys head, and then shrink back...
That's as may be but there are a hell of a lot of physiological and hormonal changes that occur to enable that to happen to the cervix.
The same can't be said for the vagina,which is why it sometimes tears or has to be cut.
(Just that thought made my bits contract!)
I'll just stick to cocks and dildo's. T
XXX"
Your choice, just not lets have the slut shaming your cunt must be huge if you can ve fisted that the person i quoted was doing...
Giving birth exercises muscles that you woulndt believe, which is probably why my clench can make grown men cry...in a good way...
A vagina is desgined to stretch...if a woman wants to boast about how tight hers is, fine, but the men i know prefer control and ability to use the muscles.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have fisted a lady many times she says it's the best orgasm she has ever had.Fisting takes a lot of care and expertise to save the lady from being hurt.Fisting is something of an art and I feel I am experienced enough to give the lady pleasure rather than pain.
There is bound to be a little discomfort but with patience this can be minimal and to quote the lady i fist Wow wow wow.
If any ladies need fisting get in touch and I will teach you the art of fisting. |
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I don't see how it could be an ego thing for the person doing the fisting. What does it do for their ego? Maybe for the person who manages to take a whole fist, but i'd rather think she'd be having fun than getting some weird ego trip?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my hubbys cock fits kinda well
so im not sure i would really want to make my hole any bigger
each to their own tho ..
they are designed to take a babys head, and then shrink back... "
Not every woman is big enough to take a babys head thats why they are cut or have a c section...... and just to add my 2 pence worth..its a NOOOOO from me..wouldnt want to try, never will, never shall... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This lady has no interest whatsoever in having a fist in her honeypot thanks
Anyone that attempts to try it will be suffering from twisted bollocks
Never tried wouldnt want to ... ouch
Me neither,it makes me cringe just thinking about it,three fingers all the way is max for me. T
XXX"
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"Haven't managed to get further than the knuckles yet but will keep trying "
If you're doing it with your other half (so condoms are not an issue) try using almond oil as a lube (available from many local Asian food shops and afro Caribbean hair/beauty shops). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's an ego thing, for me it's a huge turn on to be trusted enough by a partner to try it out, and the results are incredible, one woman I was with had an orgasam each time I rotated my hand and my knuckles rubbed her G spot.... Every time.... She nearly passed out... My problem is I have bloody big hands ... And something like l'occitane almond oil makes life so much easier... Water based lube is not much use tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I really,it is not about the vagina stretching it is to do with your pelvic bones."
It's nothing to do with that.. I can be told.. oh my your tight... Yet can on occasion with the right mood... Plenty of foreplay.. take a large toy or fist.... But other times two fingers and I'm gasping and needing them to be gentle.
So I can accommodate a fist... yet also happen to be that tight and have such control I can squeeze a guy and make him go oh my god too.
It amazes me that some people still think its to do with having a bucket.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I really,it is not about the vagina stretching it is to do with your pelvic bones.
It's nothing to do with that.. I can be told.. oh my your tight... Yet can on occasion with the right mood... Plenty of foreplay.. take a large toy or fist.... But other times two fingers and I'm gasping and needing them to be gentle.
So I can accommodate a fist... yet also happen to be that tight and have such control I can squeeze a guy and make him go oh my god too.
It amazes me that some people still think its to do with having a bucket.
Cali "
Your opinion your entitled to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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reminds me of a brilliant bit in curb your enthusiasm where larry is told he has a little penis and him and his friend come to the conclusion that 'these big vagina'd women have been getting away with it for years!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I really,it is not about the vagina stretching it is to do with your pelvic bones.
It's nothing to do with that.. I can be told.. oh my your tight... Yet can on occasion with the right mood... Plenty of foreplay.. take a large toy or fist.... But other times two fingers and I'm gasping and needing them to be gentle.
So I can accommodate a fist... yet also happen to be that tight and have such control I can squeeze a guy and make him go oh my god too.
It amazes me that some people still think its to do with having a bucket.
Cali
Your opinion your entitled to it."
Afraid its a medical fact not just my opinion... But it does amuse me when women have to make the assumption that its being bucket that makes you able to take a fist...
Womens pelvis size has nothing to do with how far their vaginal muscles will stretch... And tearing has nothing to do with being tight either... My first child I tore because I pushed when told not too.... I was not ready to push yet.. but I panicked...
2-4 I never tore... But number 5 I did.. as again I didn't listen....
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol some think they are experts"
Google it.. and actually being that I used to work As a sexual therapist... I guess I could be classed as an expert.
The vaginal canal actually expands as a woman gets turned on and can continue to do so as more pressure is applied... Which is why frame of mind and arousal is so important in fisting.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"everyone also seems to be ignoring the fact that some women have big vaginas"
Some will.. those that dont bother with pve etc... but the thing that does me with all these threads about DP, fisting, large toys etc... is that the assumption that you have to have a pussy that echoes more than the grand canyon to do it.. and that is not the case..
If I could take a fist instantly.. then I would say yes.. I have a bucket for a cunt.. but I cant... and neither can most women that I know...
Fisting takes time, and a certain amount of technique and a huge amount of patience from the guy/girl doing it.. but the fact is that a womans vagina is designed to increase in size during two activities.. ONE is sexual the other is child birth... a woman can do this... the muscles down there are designed to stretch and actually its why if a woman is seriously aroused she may find herself suddenly able to take something she couldnt before.
Put simply a woman's body adjusts.. this is not my opinion it is biology... Like the fact a womans body naturally lubricates itself... some more than others... the enlargement of the vagina canal is the same... However, being able to take a fist or other large object is down to about 90% mental process...
Things that prevent it include
* worrying about being a bucket after ( actually isnt true)
* Worrying about what others will think of you doing it
* Man doing it wrong or having done it wrong and causing pain ( in my experience it shouldn't be painful)
*Not being able to relax
* Not being turned on enough..
There are loads of other reasons.. but it is mostly that a woman thinks she cant... as for the fact that women have c sections because their vaginas are to tight.. that again isnt true.. its because their pelvis is to narrow... and that has no baring on vagina size.
Cali |
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By *exxymeWoman
over a year ago
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"lol some think they are experts"
maybe you should try then and see for yourself. i love fisting but have also been told im tight. if anything i think a fisting exercises the mucles and enables them to be stronger. again it is alot down to trusting the person and relaxing yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do not wish too like pleasure not pain."
the thing is done properly it shouldnt cause pain.. only serious orgasm and pleasure..
but not everyone will try it.. I certainly never expected to want to do it...
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"Haven't managed to get further than the knuckles yet but will keep trying
If you're doing it with your other half (so condoms are not an issue) try using almond oil as a lube (available from many local Asian food shops and afro Caribbean hair/beauty shops)."
Does anyone use condoms for fisting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't managed to get further than the knuckles yet but will keep trying
If you're doing it with your other half (so condoms are not an issue) try using almond oil as a lube (available from many local Asian food shops and afro Caribbean hair/beauty shops).
Does anyone use condoms for fisting? "
our first thought was - can you get a fist in a condom ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't managed to get further than the knuckles yet but will keep trying
If you're doing it with your other half (so condoms are not an issue) try using almond oil as a lube (available from many local Asian food shops and afro Caribbean hair/beauty shops).
Does anyone use condoms for fisting?
our first thought was - can you get a fist in a condom ??"
 easily lol you can get a whole person in one .
But no I'd not use one... But then I'd only have my master do this to me .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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weve done it, and it has to be done right, and no mre swinger doesnt have a pussy like the albert hall, very much not.
so im sure anyone that wants to do it can. it just has to be right |
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"everyone also seems to be ignoring the fact that some women have big vaginas
Some will.. those that dont bother with pve etc... but the thing that does me with all these threads about DP, fisting, large toys etc... is that the assumption that you have to have a pussy that echoes more than the grand canyon to do it.. and that is not the case..
If I could take a fist instantly.. then I would say yes.. I have a bucket for a cunt.. but I cant... and neither can most women that I know...
Fisting takes time, and a certain amount of technique and a huge amount of patience from the guy/girl doing it.. but the fact is that a womans vagina is designed to increase in size during two activities.. ONE is sexual the other is child birth... a woman can do this... the muscles down there are designed to stretch and actually its why if a woman is seriously aroused she may find herself suddenly able to take something she couldnt before.
Put simply a woman's body adjusts.. this is not my opinion it is biology... Like the fact a womans body naturally lubricates itself... some more than others... the enlargement of the vagina canal is the same... However, being able to take a fist or other large object is down to about 90% mental process...
Things that prevent it include
* worrying about being a bucket after ( actually isnt true)
* Worrying about what others will think of you doing it
* Man doing it wrong or having done it wrong and causing pain ( in my experience it shouldn't be painful)
*Not being able to relax
* Not being turned on enough..
There are loads of other reasons.. but it is mostly that a woman thinks she cant... as for the fact that women have c sections because their vaginas are to tight.. that again isnt true.. its because their pelvis is to narrow... and that has no baring on vagina size.
Cali "
first time i tried my mans fist i nearly spewed cos of the pain and the worry it was too big....basically convinced myself i couldnt do it.......tried a ew weeks later, more relaxed, more lube, possibly a glass of wine or two and was fine, had a epic orgasm and squirted all over x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally it's not something i would ever do to woman even if they asked, sorry but I find it a massive turn off visually and the thought of doing it to someone turns my stomach but each to their own, its obvious from this thread that there are many people that do like it and the world would be far less interesting if we were all the same, so knuckle down to your favourite hobby and have fun, just dont send me any pics of it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lovely lady i know loves fisting and i used to pleasure here that way. Once she had cum, we would have vaginal sex and she would be incredibly tight.
I guess all people are different, but its great to be able to both give and receive pleasure, and if you haven't tried it, don't knock it.
Happy swinging x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always wanted to fist a lady but the thing is, I'm 6 foot 6 with quite large hands! I'm kinda scared to fist a lady!! Visually it looks so sexy and turns me on but imm scared I'm gonna rip some1 open |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr tarts loves fisting ladies, and i (mrs tarts) have seen a number of ladies enjoying him doing this. I would love to experience it, but so far haven't managed to take his fist, so maybe a lady's smaller fist would be a good try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really not for me
No matter how many times women who do do fisting tell me i wont i just cant get the fear of ending up with a bucket fanny out my head
I dont really like the look of it if i see anyone else doing it i just think....he'll need to strap a bit of 2by4 on his back now so he dont fall in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow! Fisting in the ass (@ _heira) now that is something I'd love to do!! I love to see a gaping ass hole and get my tongue in it, ur ass must be gaping wide, lookin sexy  |
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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago
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"Wow! Fisting in the ass (@ _heira) now that is something I'd love to do!! I love to see a gaping ass hole and get my tongue in it, ur ass must be gaping wide, lookin sexy "
Its not gaping wide all the time though and quickly goes back to being just as tight as it was before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm a big fan of anal play
Me too, bend over i'll get my strap on "
pmsl
got hands way too wide for most, so it can be a bit ouchy even when I've tucked me fingers in just-so.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some ladies enjoy it, some don't. it helps if the man hasn't got big hands. I have slender fingers and a thin wrist for a man and find it enjoyable if she is relaxed, trusts you to take your time and plenty of lube is used, it seems to help is she has had children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fisting totally takes me to a different level,I have never experienced the way I feel in any other sexual encounter,not something I enjoy regularly as I often pass out and wake in a puddle .....lol but defo an awesome experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw this done in Townhouse once and deffo not for us thanks very much!
Couldn't help but thinking of "The Sooty, Sweep & Sue show"...that Sue's a right dirty panda! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore receiving and delivering a good fisting..watch out tho....one hell of a splashback lol...hit the ceiling last time...I reserve it for the special peeps in my life tho.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I adore receiving and delivering a good fisting..watch out tho....one hell of a splashback lol...hit the ceiling last time...I reserve it for the special peeps in my life tho.... "
lol snorkle mask at the ready then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I LOVE being fisted but have to be very turned on and lubed up before but once it's in i love it hard and rough - i believe they call it punch fisting  and at a party last week I had a guy with 2 hands inside me.
oh and as a btw I have excellent muscle control and have never had any complaints as being too 'loose' in fact J often says I'm squeezing him too tight when he's inside xxx |
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"I LOVE being fisted but have to be very turned on and lubed up before but once it's in i love it hard and rough - i believe they call it punch fisting and at a party last week I had a guy with 2 hands inside me.
oh and as a btw I have excellent muscle control and have never had any complaints as being too 'loose' in fact J often says I'm squeezing him too tight when he's inside xxx"
Would you like a go on the Anal Intruder 5000™?
I can re-program it for foofoos. |
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"I LOVE being fisted but have to be very turned on and lubed up before but once it's in i love it hard and rough - i believe they call it punch fisting and at a party last week I had a guy with 2 hands inside me.
oh and as a btw I have excellent muscle control and have never had any complaints as being too 'loose' in fact J often says I'm squeezing him too tight when he's inside xxx
Would you like a go on the Anal Intruder 5000™?
I can re-program it for foofoos."
Erm thanks but no thanks - I'll stick to real fists thanks lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fisting's more enjoyabale after you've cum because spunk makes an excellent lubricant... but I can normally do everything that a good fisting does with three fingers and an instinctive technique...
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I had a fb who after been reserved at first loved it and often came by the gallon.
Like Cali, said before a lady often will expand internally, and she would quite easily have taken 2 or 3 had her vagina not tightened from the orgasm (shes not on fab),
Would love to get in contact with some females/couples who would like to have some fisting fun |
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"A lovely lady i know loves fisting and i used to pleasure here that way. Once she had cum, we would have vaginal sex and she would be incredibly tight.
I guess all people are different, but its great to be able to both give and receive pleasure, and if you haven't tried it, don't knock it.
Happy swinging x
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but some do suggest surgical gloves with a good lube as it gets more slippy then skin.
