It's far from meaning you're a crap fuck as I'm one of those guys myself.
It's just that it takes forever and you shouldn't take it as any indicator about how good you or the sex was.
I know what you mean though as I have felt the same when I know I've not made the woman I'm with come. |
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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago
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So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.
Sometimes it pisses off the misses, and she actually tell them they have 5 min, or she is getting up. Some believe its a manly to fuck for hours without finishing. Boring fucks in-out, in-out for hour. |
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"So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.
Sometimes it pisses off the misses, and she actually tell them they have 5 min, or she is getting up. Some believe its a manly to fuck for hours without finishing. Boring fucks in-out, in-out for hour."
Yes exactly agree to all the above
Selfish bastards. But equally selfish for the 3 stroke wonder |
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"So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.
Sometimes it pisses off the misses, and she actually tell them they have 5 min, or she is getting up. Some believe its a manly to fuck for hours without finishing. Boring fucks in-out, in-out for hour.
Yes exactly agree to all the above
Selfish bastards. But equally selfish for the 3 stroke wonder "
Ouch....some simply cant help it and get as pissed off as you probably do because of it  |
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Yes exactly agree to all the above
Selfish bastards. But equally selfish for the 3 stroke wonder "
Moral of the story... Damned if you do, damned if you don't.  |
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"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "
no.. it's very obvious if a guy is having a good time. There are many reasons why a guy cant or wont x
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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago
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If I think I might be a while  , then I stop, withdraw, and do something else, like oral / masturbation to keep things moving along, or change positions.
I play safe, and do find that condoms can make me last longer. A wank is more likely to have me completing sooner...  |
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I always have this chat with the lady or couple before a meet. Some ladies want you to go for as long as possible, others want an intense 5 minutes. It's all about communication and understanding.
Nothing worse than missing the mark! |
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"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "
Why don't you take the initiative and change position or if in the missionary position close your legs,he sure should cum then. |
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I always have this chat with the lady or couple before a meet. Some ladies want you to go for as long as possible, others want an intense 5 minutes. It's all about communication and understanding.
Nothing worse than missing the mark!"
Yup, so many of these threads seem to have quite simple solutions.
Talk to each other before hand so everyone knows what the preferences are.
Obviously, mistakes/misunderstandings can still occur, but get the big issues out there so no one goes home disappointed. |
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"So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.
Sometimes it pisses off the misses, and she actually tell them they have 5 min, or she is getting up. Some believe its a manly to fuck for hours without finishing. Boring fucks in-out, in-out for hour."
It’s interesting on another thread a woman posted that often she liked sex a number of times in a row and was worried men would feel inadequate if they could repeat
What some guys do is hold back, incase this will happen so they have petrol in the tank to go again |
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"But there is a general consensus of too long or bot long enough I suppose
Can be just as exciting to have that 3 stroke wonder quickie in the heat of the moment "
Indeed, quickies can be tremendously exciting
But sometimes a woman wants to be tucked over and over for hours and hours and that’s good too |
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As a guy it can be difficult I used to last hours without cumming then one day I came in about 30 seconds it had never happened before I felt so embarrassed for about 2 years after that if I lasted 5 minutes I was doing ok. It left me not wanting to have sex as I was embarrassed then one day it all changed again I was with a woman and went an hour I was amazed even thought for while why am I not cumming then after I'd always last a good half hour at least |
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"And I question that those guys that either cant or wont come. They can have a 2 minute hand shuffle and hey presto "
Hahahaa no, no they cant.
Some might be able to but that's not for me to say either way.
Adult circumcision changes things. |
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From myside I like to prolong me cumming but I would be alternating between sex and oral sex, using the oral sex for me to calm a little before starting again.
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"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "
Not at all, I’ve been in this situation a few times, and normally beens I’ve done too much masterbation in the previous days |
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"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck
Not at all, I’ve been in this situation a few times, and normally beens I’ve done too much masterbation in the previous days
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...or too much red wine for me!
Why I stick to gin... |
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"We are al different with different t needs and desires
I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are "
I very much doubt it's down to you, as you said you'd been playing for hours and if he really wasnt into you then he could easily have made his excuses and left.
Some just have issues of their own and its nothing to do with who they are enjoying things with.
Both sexes can be similar and as others have made clear on here, communication is the key to everything.
Don't let it knock you and also try to understand his side too. |
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As the guy I speak of is potentially gonna be my regular fb to attend clubs holidays and other such times . I might question whether I should continue as it bothers me .
Elsewhere or other play tidbit an issue with others |
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"We are al different with different t needs and desires
I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are "
Surely it should read...." Cumming or not ??"" !! |
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I always have this chat with the lady or couple before a meet. Some ladies want you to go for as long as possible, others want an intense 5 minutes. It's all about communication and understanding.
Nothing worse than missing the mark!"
Yes! |
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"We are al different with different t needs and desires
I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are
Surely it should read...." Cumming or not ??"" !! "
Upu could be right |
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We have had a guy around that’s goes for hours I’ve normally cum he’s still playing I get hard and cum a second time before he has cum once but my gf prefers guys to come quicker rather than keeping going and going it gets boring. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"In a way yes I agree. I like a good session however I think anything more than an hour and I get bored.
I would rather have a break in between.  "
That. We love really long sessions with a couple but it’s good to have regular time outs and get in the hot tub etc. Pure fucking for very long periods does get boring for guys too.
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Well we like to mix it up. Constant penetration gets boring after a few minutes so switching it up, positions, oral, sensual strokes etc prolong things. Oh and some gentle spanking 
Not all men want to cum all the time either, sometimes it's all about the session and keeping some frustration of denial |
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I actually can’t cum while wearing a condom. Never been able too. So have to take it off & either finish myself off or get the lady to do it. It’s nothing to do with wanting to or not it’s a case of I can’t. Which some don’t believe. |
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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago
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"We have had a guy around that’s goes for hours I’ve normally cum he’s still playing I get hard and cum a second time before he has cum once but my gf prefers guys to come quicker rather than keeping going and going it gets boring. "
Totally the same. I am(MRS) experienced enough to see when the guy just hold himself. I can see it in his eyes, he is just not there. Probably counting backwards from 10k. There are other stupid ones, who go to the toilet, spray themselves with a spray, then come back, and obviously as soon as I suck him, I can tell. What an idiots, never crossed his mind that I might be allergic, or that my lips will get numb? Needless to say, he get sent back to the bathroom to clean himself, an he won't get any sucking done.
I prefer the guys to enjoy themselves, if needed to finish, just do so, makes me happy, there will be always round 2 and 3 etc |
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