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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been swinging at club's for over 17 years been members of about 10.been off and on this site for about 10 years.so what do people think a swinger is or should be .that is on this site.thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Open minded and inclusive.
Able to establish their preferences without making others feel judged.
Sociable and friendly, even with people they have no intention of shagging.
Open to new experiences.
Now I’ll sit back and watch the picket fencers busily close of ‘their’ bit of fab.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Open minded and inclusive.
Able to establish their preferences without making others feel judged.
Sociable and friendly, even with people they have no intention of shagging.
Open to new experiences.
Now I’ll sit back and watch the picket fencers busily close of ‘their’ bit of fab.."
This about covers it, I think!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion
Couples who swap partners or add another person to their sex lives, on occassions or regular
Singles who join with couples or group fun, sometimes go to swingers clubs
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Someone who enjoys the freedom and variety of having sex with different people (sometimes a few af the same time) I guess. And for me swinging is about sexual non-monogamy not relationship non-monogamy (not that the two have to be mutually exclusive, there are plenty of poly people on here). I suspect a lot more of the population would be swingers if they thought they could but don't feel they can. So I think the main difference between swingers and non swingers is not so much desire but the ability to liberate their mind, have the balls to be honest with themselves/others affected and strength to follow their desires/sexuality contrary to societal norms. I think lot of honest understanding of your self, confidence and maturity helps. |
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Here's my take on swing away from all these swinging text book answers. Swinging to me in socially getting to know/meet people for what comes naturally chat and if ya lucky sex of all types of pleasures. |
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