Would you see some one who was in wheelchair on here
I had a man about year ago who was in one turn on me cos I said no to him
I told him I was carer in my other life and need to meet folk who I dont have to worry about
I also told him I need time from it
I said to him I be all the time having to think where we could go and where we couldnt
I said to him also that I wanting to go to swinger clubs and meet folk in there homes
I said if we started seeing each other every thing would have to be around when you could go and where you couldnt all the folk we would meet would have to go to your homes as for the most havnt disabled access in their homes
He told me he couldnt get anyone to meet up with him
I said to him folk are not beingin awful with you its just that folk have diffrent needs
So why did he get so nasty with me
I said to him if you been like this with other folk on here as you have with me no wonder why you cant find a meet
So come on folk how would you delt with this what would you have said to him?
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If you liked him the chair wouldn’t have mattered.
Unless you were looking to be in a relationship, you still would have been able to do all the other things you wanted with other people and see him in his home at the same time |
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"Would you see some one who was in wheelchair on here
I had a man about year ago who was in one turn on me cos I said no to him
I told him I was carer in my other life and need to meet folk who I dont have to worry about
I also told him I need time from it
I said to him I be all the time having to think where we could go and where we couldnt
I said to him also that I wanting to go to swinger clubs and meet folk in there homes
I said if we started seeing each other every thing would have to be around when you could go and where you couldnt all the folk we would meet would have to go to your homes as for the most havnt disabled access in their homes
He told me he couldnt get anyone to meet up with him
I said to him folk are not beingin awful with you its just that folk have diffrent needs
So why did he get so nasty with me
I said to him if you been like this with other folk on here as you have with me no wonder why you cant find a meet
So come on folk how would you delt with this what would you have said to him?
I open this forum up see what folk say"
Just cause someone is in a wheelchair it doesn’t mean you have to worry about them...
But in fairness you don’t or shouldn’t have to justify why you don’t want to meet.
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