I think it's an aspect of being human and learning. I tended to test them through my life generally. It would perhaps be a little imbalanced not to have that desire sexually.
I don't need to constantly break them but enjoy some novelty and sometimes that can be going to the dark side, where I thought it would be well off my limits.
I love challenges too. I'll dare myself and always win. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Depends on the boundary - some I don't "think" I'll like, but with the right person and a better understanding of them I am open to having them pushed - some I absolutely know I won't like and are non-negotiable.
My go to example here is watersports - if you'd asked me four years ago if they interested me, I'd have said absolutely not - but a couple of conversations with people that indulge and enjoy it, and who have explained it's appeal to them, and it still wouldn't be top of any want list but with someone that was into it, and who I felt happy to explore that with, then I'd consider it. |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Thing is, it’s not sexual boundaries, there are things like food, culture boundaries.
Who has open and closed minds?
However, by the nature of the site let’s keep our boundary pushing sensual, and divulge.., |
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"Thing is, it’s not sexual boundaries, there are things like food, culture boundaries.
Who has open and closed minds?
However, by the nature of the site let’s keep our boundary pushing sensual, and divulge..,"
I've pushed food and cultural boundaries extremely far. I'm very inquisitive in that respect.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Thing is, it’s not sexual boundaries, there are things like food, culture boundaries.
Who has open and closed minds?
However, by the nature of the site let’s keep our boundary pushing sensual, and divulge..,"
Same would apply whether it was sexual or non-sexual for me - some things I *know* I won't enjoy and so are non-negotiable, others I'm open to exploring with a better understanding of them |
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"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!"
Agreed. It can be scary though |
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By *udosMan
over a year ago
hull |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!
Agreed. It can be scary though "
Yes of course but that's why it's so exciting and can blow your mind ! |
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"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!
Agreed. It can be scary though
Yes of course but that's why it's so exciting and can blow your mind !"
Very true. |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!" .
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place. |
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By *udosMan
over a year ago
hull |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place."
Very deep !!! |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place.
Very deep !!!"
Slightly obvious though. |
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By *udosMan
over a year ago
hull |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place.
Very deep !!!
Slightly obvious though."
Truth is we're all searching for more excitement and experimentation is always fun !!?? |
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For us, it’s important that we do it together, that way it’s a shared experience, and we keep each other in check.....
We do it because it’s exciting and thrilling. |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place.
Very deep !!!
Slightly obvious though.
Truth is we're all searching for more excitement and experimentation is always fun !!??"
Personally, I don’t think “all” is right, suspect it is more like a few.
Maybe wrong. |
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By *udosMan
over a year ago
hull |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place.
Very deep !!!
Slightly obvious though.
Truth is we're all searching for more excitement and experimentation is always fun !!??
Personally, I don’t think “all” is right, suspect it is more like a few.
Maybe wrong. "
No I agree my reply was a generalization....probably not "all" but also some would like to but are afraid to say ! |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place.
Very deep !!!
Slightly obvious though.
Truth is we're all searching for more excitement and experimentation is always fun !!??
Personally, I don’t think “all” is right, suspect it is more like a few.
Maybe wrong.
No I agree my reply was a generalization....probably not "all" but also some would like to but are afraid to say !"
Do you think this could be a forum thread to throw yourself naked under the sword of desire? |
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By *udosMan
over a year ago
hull |
"I think pushing your boundaries can be very mentally surprising and can take you places that stimulate and excite more than you have ever imagined and can be an amazing experience!.
Remember talking to L ( the lady of my life) about her interest in being with women.
Think the quote I said was, odd if you walk down the same path you always end up in the same place.
Very deep !!!
Slightly obvious though.
Truth is we're all searching for more excitement and experimentation is always fun !!??
Personally, I don’t think “all” is right, suspect it is more like a few.
Maybe wrong.
No I agree my reply was a generalization....probably not "all" but also some would like to but are afraid to say !
Do you think this could be a forum thread to throw yourself naked under the sword of desire?"
Yes probably! |
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