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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most that you message will check out your profile before even thinking about opening your message.
If they're not impressed with your profile, why would they feel anywhere near inclined to read, let alone reply to your message.
Your profile is your shop window, and your one chance to make a good impression.
Consider also that not everyone is going to fancy you. In fact, the reality is that very few are likely to. And to be fair, a good proportion of those who might fancy you might not be appealing to you. That's life.
You need to ask yourself what your expectations of the site were - and then realign them.
This is not instashag.
Most men, when they sign up, seem to be of the impression that all they need do is type a couple of lines of text, upload a couple of pics and then sit back and wait for the offers to come flooding in.
Fab doesn't work like that.
There is no 'magic formula' when it comes to opening messages - because half the time, they might not even get read.
You could write the most considered, thoughtful, informative message in the history of the written word, if the recipient isn't impressed with your profile, it wont get read. |
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