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'I can make you squirt' - turn off? A question for the ladies
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I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree OP, it's off putting. I can squirt but I've only ever done it by myself or with my husband. It's presumptuous of them to this they could even make it happen.
But squirting and an orgasm don't go hand in hand for me, and I know which I'd rather have  |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I hate it. And it can be something that will make me decide not to even talk to them further x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
Sooooooo annoying !
I usually reply with you can’t and won’t because you’ll never get the chance |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
Don’t worry, just piss on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree OP, it's off putting. I can squirt but I've only ever done it by myself or with my husband. It's presumptuous of them to this they could even make it happen.
But squirting and an orgasm don't go hand in hand for me, and I know which I'd rather have "
Totally agree with this x |
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Yes I can be made to squirt but personally don't like the feeling and I do tell ppl in advance. Still I've had men try to make me like it's a necessity for them. I'd much rather have a nice sensational multiple orgasm thank you kindly  or a hot vimto x |
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I don’t squirt , have no desire to and really don’t want a finger blasting that makes me so sore I can’t have the pounding from the nice hard cock lol
Plus my bed cost a fortune and I’m dammed if I’m spoiling it haha
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I agree I hate it when asked. I’m going to start using your answer though I love it!
J x |
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I’m unsure what response they expect to receive when the ask questions like this  do they actually really think it’s going to even slightly intrigue you or make them stand out in a refreshing way ?? |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
It’s very off putting as they don’t make me squirt. My buddy did However make me squirt twice an kept it quiet he could do so. Difference between men and boys  |
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It’s very off putting as they don’t make me squirt. My buddy did However make me squirt twice an kept it quiet he could do so. Difference between men and boys
This totally...quiet confidence!
A lion doesnt need to tell you it's a lion! |
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"I agree OP, it's off putting. I can squirt but I've only ever done it by myself or with my husband. It's presumptuous of them to this they could even make it happen.
But squirting and an orgasm don't go hand in hand for me, and I know which I'd rather have "
This! I’ve never orgasmed while squirting |
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over a year ago
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"I don’t squirt , have no desire to and really don’t want a finger blasting that makes me so sore I can’t have the pounding from the nice hard cock lol
Plus my bed cost a fortune and I’m dammed if I’m spoiling it haha
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That is what the 100% waterproof mattress protectors are for! |
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"I don’t squirt , have no desire to and really don’t want a finger blasting that makes me so sore I can’t have the pounding from the nice hard cock lol
Plus my bed cost a fortune and I’m dammed if I’m spoiling it haha
That is what the 100% waterproof mattress protectors are for!"
Lol no thanks post coital is about snuggling up not slipping around on wet sheets over a rubber protector
Water sports for me are reserved for the wet room
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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago
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"I don’t squirt , have no desire to and really don’t want a finger blasting that makes me so sore I can’t have the pounding from the nice hard cock lol
Plus my bed cost a fortune and I’m dammed if I’m spoiling it haha
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This! |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Turn off. I don't want to be under pressure to perform like some circus animal.
God yes. I'm not putting on a damn show to boost your ego."
I'll be honest, as soon as someone utters the line 'cum for me' then I can guarantee that's it's probably never going to happen. Which puts me in a grumpy mood. |
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It’s very impersonal I find. I haven’t ever squirted and don’t care if it ever happens or not. But I think I object to a guy assuming he has co from over whether that happens or not, surely they appreciate that it has something to do with what I want? |
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I've squirted rarely but that was with the person who has my absolute trust. I find that sort of assumption both arrogant and impersonal.
I want to say something like "love, just cos Karenkekksoff from PoF pissed herself when you fingered her after 9 bottles of lambrusco doesnt mean you're a fucking love god" |
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"I've squirted rarely but that was with the person who has my absolute trust. I find that sort of assumption both arrogant and impersonal.
I want to say something like "love, just cos Karenkekksoff from PoF pissed herself when you fingered her after 9 bottles of lambrusco doesnt mean you're a fucking love god""
Hahah howling |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I've squirted rarely but that was with the person who has my absolute trust. I find that sort of assumption both arrogant and impersonal.
I want to say something like "love, just cos Karenkekksoff from PoF pissed herself when you fingered her after 9 bottles of lambrusco doesnt mean you're a fucking love god""
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've squirted rarely but that was with the person who has my absolute trust. I find that sort of assumption both arrogant and impersonal.
I want to say something like "love, just cos Karenkekksoff from PoF pissed herself when you fingered her after 9 bottles of lambrusco doesnt mean you're a fucking love god""
Hahahaha this is gold |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I like your response, though I'm equally put off by guys who say they'll make me orgasm like I never have before.
Really? And you know this...how?
First messages, in my opinion, are an indication of how a guy sees me. I'm not there for HIS enjoyment, I'm here for MINE. We get there together, or not at all--mutual fun, mutual agreement. If it doesn't start out as a mutual thing, it ain't going NOWHERE. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The trouble is for *some* men it's become a badge of honour that they have been able to "make" someone do what they have probably only seen in porn before and make it their mission to achieve it or feel somehow inadequate if they don't.
Same as those guys that feel they have somehow failed if a lady doesn't orgasm, or that they weren't able to bang away all night staying rock hard and not cumming the entire time.
What they fail to realise is that sex is an activity that is supposed to be mutually enjoyable by two (or more) people where you collectively find what works for all concerned not just for the benefit of one. |
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"The trouble is for *some* men it's become a badge of honour that they have been able to "make" someone do what they have probably only seen in porn before and make it their mission to achieve it or feel somehow inadequate if they don't.
Same as those guys that feel they have somehow failed if a lady doesn't orgasm, or that they weren't able to bang away all night staying rock hard and not cumming the entire time.
What they fail to realise is that sex is an activity that is supposed to be mutually enjoyable by two (or more) people where you collectively find what works for all concerned not just for the benefit of one."
This!! Preach!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I think it is a stupid male ego thing.
They think by saying "I can make you squirt" you may think they are some kind of sex God.
Idiots. |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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Incredibly off-putting, I don’t (apart from two very random occasions) and feel a tad inadequate as a result. Also, some deluded bloke ramming his fingers away like a relentless jackhammer can dry me up quicker than you can say Sahara. I’d rather someone thought they could make me orgasm, but that is apparently way down the list for Generation Porn sadly. |
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"I've squirted rarely but that was with the person who has my absolute trust. I find that sort of assumption both arrogant and impersonal.
I want to say something like "love, just cos Karenkekksoff from PoF pissed herself when you fingered her after 9 bottles of lambrusco doesnt mean you're a fucking love god""
I fucking love this... |
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over a year ago
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Squirting shouldn't be seen as a gold badge - yes it's a 'knack' and personally I'm a squirter and can orgasm so hard ( and multiple ) my back arches up off the bed. But it's a dynamic. My partner can do this to me with very little effort because there's no need to turn someone inside out to do it ! He doesn't brag about it and when we swing we don't mention it ( although I've been known to whisper in the ladies ear asking would they like to squirt because if they don't like it then we won't try OF COURSE )
My pet hate is "I can fuck for hours" because I'm thinking yep so can I but for some guys it can mean they've wanked so much and watched extreme porn so much that orgasms have almost been eradicated. Theres a difference in being great in bed and a performance. Being great in bed is being attuned, not some performing monkey. |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
im a true squirter I squirt most times the off putting part is when its rushed I hate it. but when I squirt it makes me feel so sos godd |
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Squirting shouldn't be seen as a gold badge - yes it's a 'knack' and personally I'm a squirter and can orgasm so hard ( and multiple ) my back arches up off the bed. But it's a dynamic. My partner can do this to me with very little effort because there's no need to turn someone inside out to do it ! He doesn't brag about it and when we swing we don't mention it ( although I've been known to whisper in the ladies ear asking would they like to squirt because if they don't like it then we won't try OF COURSE )
My pet hate is "I can fuck for hours" because I'm thinking yep so can I but for some guys it can mean they've wanked so much and watched extreme porn so much that orgasms have almost been eradicated. Theres a difference in being great in bed and a performance. Being great in bed is being attuned, not some performing monkey. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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There really are some witty ladies on fab!
It’s nice to know I am not alone in being completely turned off by being told this. I have only recently discovered that I can squirt, but a lot of men that reckon they can get you to do so go about it in completely the wrong way. I guess they are the same guys that hit something with a hammer when it doesn’t work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading this thread has enlightened me some what I happen to live it when a woman squirts or gushes and always thought they also liked it and liked the idea of a guy that can make them do it and I myself has said to women I'd like to make them squirt I now hang my head in shame and offer my apologies to any ladies I may have offended no longer will I ask these questions of women. Tha is ladies for putting me straight we live and learn x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only recently found out that I can squirt with the help of my new very best friend, G Spot Vibe, at least its guaranteed and I dont feel under any pressure to perform xx |
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For me it's a nice affirmation that I'm doing something pleasurable for the woman I'm with. That being said it shouldn't be taken as one if a number of boxes to tick, but something that just happens (or doesn't) as a consequence of pleasure. Trying to force it or see it as a badge of honour is just plain wrong. It implies going through the motions and treating a woman as if she's just a fuck. Might sound odd to some, but any intimacy should be treated as sacred in that moment and any woman treated as a person, an individual, something to be treasured if you will. Don't put pressure on to make it happen fellas. |
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I dont squirt and have no desire to and it's a HUGE turn off when guys message me that because as someone said it seems to be for there pleasure not the woman's |
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Massive turn off
Same as telling me he's going to make me cum/orgasm over and over; I struggle to cum with another person because I always get stuck in my head...Classic response to that is usually 'you just haven't been with me yet...'   |
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"Massive turn off
Same as telling me he's going to make me cum/orgasm over and over; I struggle to cum with another person because I always get stuck in my head...Classic response to that is usually 'you just haven't been with me yet...' "
"And I'm not going to be, you arrogant twat." |
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"Massive turn off
Same as telling me he's going to make me cum/orgasm over and over; I struggle to cum with another person because I always get stuck in my head...Classic response to that is usually 'you just haven't been with me yet...'
"And I'm not going to be, you arrogant twat.""
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I have in the past but I just don't like it. I spent a lot of time toning up these muscles after I had my daughter to control my bladder. to have the feeling of the loss of that control at the point of orgasim is not pleasant for me. |
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Some comedy gold responses here
On the slightly more grim side
Squirting — the gushing fluid often seen in adult films — appears to be more common than ejaculation. The fluid that's released during squirting is essentially watered-down urine, sometimes with a bit of ejaculate in it. It comes from the bladder and exits via the urethra, the same as when you pee
Yummy x
Guys who want to finger Nicole are for their own ego get ignored. Cumming is much more fun |
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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago
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I squirt sometime. My parter is obsess wit it and piss me off when in club when he spot squirter he just keep on going o and on. Not get it fascination about it really. Make me feel less sexy sometimes as when he tries with me I can't do it |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Call me nieve ut what is it guy is Ment to get out of it any way other than wet LMFAO"
For *some* guys it's a medal of honour that they wear as a badge of pride that they have "made" someone do something in a "look at me aren't I clever?" kind of way and it's those that are likely to come out with the ridiculous "I'm going to make you squirt" comments the OP refers to.
IF it happens with someone I am with, I just see it as nothing more than part of the overall shared experience and if the person I am with finds it pleasurable then it just adds to that experience - but most definitely isn't a goal or something I set out to achieve.
From a purely personal perspective the sensation of someone gushing over you is fairly pleasant but as I said that is never an aim or a goal. |
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"Call me nieve ut what is it guy is Ment to get out of it any way other than wet LMFAO
For *some* guys it's a medal of honour that they wear as a badge of pride that they have "made" someone do something in a "look at me aren't I clever?" kind of way and it's those that are likely to come out with the ridiculous "I'm going to make you squirt" comments the OP refers to.
IF it happens with someone I am with, I just see it as nothing more than part of the overall shared experience and if the person I am with finds it pleasurable then it just adds to that experience - but most definitely isn't a goal or something I set out to achieve.
From a purely personal perspective the sensation of someone gushing over you is fairly pleasant but as I said that is never an aim or a goal."
Precisely what I was saying - I think this is the exact right approach. |
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"It's.....piss....
No kidding! You will be telling us the sky is blue and grass is green.  "
The sky is not blue....it appears that colour due to the wavelength of light refracted through our atmosphere...sometimes its red, sometimes its purple....and pampas grass is yellow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think anyone making assumptions about a) what you want and b) how your body responds is both rude and arrogant.
I *can* squirrel but it's not a party trick. |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I learned how to squirt, so those men can do one. They like to wear it as a badge of honour, it's annoying. Cos if they didn't make me squirt it would not be their fault .
I'm with you in the fact I'd prefer an orgasm. Of course, they guarantee this. Errrrm it ain't happening. |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
Hit the nail on the head, OP (and left my g-spot unbruised). |
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"The wife does squirt but only when turned on in a certain way. We do not tell people as they seem to see it as a challenge to make her squirt. "
/\ This!
And, as another poster said, they then presume it's *my* fault if I don't! |
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"Wouldn't get a reply from us, neither does 'I want to ruin your Mrs' utter cockwombles who speak like that. "
Totally! I had a message like that recently. I replied back that she doesn't want to be ruined by them.
They seriously replied - "You should tell her not to be so fussy!" |
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"I can make you squirt" means 'I learnt sexual techniques from watching porn"
I like porn, but I don't confuse the dramatic performances and acrobatic positions which look good in front of the camera, with the reality of sexual pleasure. |
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"Wouldn't get a reply from us, neither does 'I want to ruin your Mrs' utter cockwombles who speak like that.
Totally! I had a message like that recently. I replied back that she doesn't want to be ruined by them.
They seriously replied - "You should tell her not to be so fussy!" "
Terrible that, I was told to 'fuck off then' last night because I told a guy sorry but he wasn't my type, I've mainly stopped replying now |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Ah yes, I love the sweeping claims some guys think will work. Several have assured me they will provide the best sex/oral/orgasms ever. Many have proclaimed they will make me squirt. Others come out with charming offers like 'destroying' me
Generally I don't even bother to reply & quite often it's an automatic block |
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I hate messages like that, especially the ones who say they’ll “lick me til I squirt” - that’s not how that works! The last one who did that I replied to saying he’d obviously never made a woman squirt And it’s not easy to make me squirt, I’ve only managed to do it to myself twice in about 15 years, and literally only one man can do it. He never even mentioned it, just did it, and I was shocked. It’s getting easier every time, probably because I can relax and let go with him. It stresses me out when other guys try though, it’s like they put way too much pressure on me to perform and then I just can’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is very off putting and most fail at it.
Some make me feel like its my fault when it doesnt happen. There are some men that are so amazing they can make it happen in 5 seconds. They are the ones who dont need to brag either in messages x |
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"It is very off putting and most fail at it.
Some make me feel like its my fault when it doesnt happen. There are some men that are so amazing they can make it happen in 5 seconds. They are the ones who dont need to brag either in messages x"
I suspect that's true if pretty much everything they do. |
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I met one of those years ago as I was trying ways if I can squirt and needed a different hand , he was quite arrogant and told he never failed.
Well failed with me and was not good at all in bed either. From that moment onwards if anyone mention squirt, instant delete and ghosted forever lol :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now to "I can make you squirt" message I reply "I can make you sing falsetto".
Usually don't hear back.
Mrs
Love this and might steal it!
T xx "
That's probably because they don't know what falsetto is |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Bit of a turn off if that’s their focus, it’s like others have said guys see it as a badge of honour, you see it on verifications ‘made her squirt’ like it’s mission impossible, I do in the right position but wouldn’t tell them that as much prefer multiple orgasms, that’s much more enjoyable for me if they can deliver that. |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
nottingham/ derby |
It should never be a forced thing, only two things have made me, unforced, one was on the sybian, of which totally unexpected and other is my partner of many years, for which I have to be totally relaxed but turned on then it can and does happen, hasn't for any one else and wouldn't want to be made to, I was shocked and a little mortified it happened on the sybian in front of a few people  |
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I have thoughts on this (Mr). I’m pretty good at the sex thing with Mrs but I had never made her squirt; never even thought about it. Then, since we started this little journey together, quite a few guys have done it and sometimes really easily. I still can’t. Now, here’s the thing - Mrs enjoys it fine enough but could absolutely take it or leave it; she enjoys the reaction from the guy more. But, in my own head, I struggle as I think occasionally I’m a “lesser” man because others can do things to my wife I can’t. And it’s really not important at all but I do often feel a little bit left out, and it’s the only time I do. Having said that, as far as the OP’s point is concerned, it’s not a message that interests or works for us in any way. Mr. |
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"I have thoughts on this (Mr). I’m pretty good at the sex thing with Mrs but I had never made her squirt; never even thought about it. Then, since we started this little journey together, quite a few guys have done it and sometimes really easily. I still can’t. Now, here’s the thing - Mrs enjoys it fine enough but could absolutely take it or leave it; she enjoys the reaction from the guy more. But, in my own head, I struggle as I think occasionally I’m a “lesser” man because others can do things to my wife I can’t. And it’s really not important at all but I do often feel a little bit left out, and it’s the only time I do. Having said that, as far as the OP’s point is concerned, it’s not a message that interests or works for us in any way. Mr. "
Isn't that part of what swinging is for couples.
That each partner can get things they significant other cant provide?
To reply to the op is does seems overly assumptious to message people saying i can do this or that. Some women may never squiet for anyone, simple as.
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing! "
I squirt and its an instant turn off when men say this - I am not a performing seal!
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"I have thoughts on this (Mr). I’m pretty good at the sex thing with Mrs but I had never made her squirt; never even thought about it. Then, since we started this little journey together, quite a few guys have done it and sometimes really easily. I still can’t. Now, here’s the thing - Mrs enjoys it fine enough but could absolutely take it or leave it; she enjoys the reaction from the guy more. But, in my own head, I struggle as I think occasionally I’m a “lesser” man because others can do things to my wife I can’t. And it’s really not important at all but I do often feel a little bit left out, and it’s the only time I do. Having said that, as far as the OP’s point is concerned, it’s not a message that interests or works for us in any way. Mr.
Isn't that part of what swinging is for couples.
That each partner can get things they significant other cant provide?
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Not necessarily, no. I'm not seeking things which I'm lacking with my husband. If I never have sex with anyone else apart from him for the rest of my life I'll be a very happy woman! It's more that we're exploring new things together.
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By *onyMad123Couple
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I can assure u I don't squirt loads but when I gush it is 100% odor free clear liquid and deffo not pee, only time I've pissed myself is when tickled badly, but now have trained pelvics and not happened in a long time, if someone is pissing it's not proper and probably forced |
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**ROLL UP, ROLL UP**
You've tried the rest, now try the best
They don't call me GushMaster McGushface for nothing.
I'll have you squirting more than a ketchup bottle in a builders cafe.
I'll have you gushing harder than a fucked radiator pipe.
I'll have your sheets wetter than an English summer.
All works are guaranteed.
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bring a friend!!!..and I'll make a feature of you both.
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"I'm the female half and I dont squirt. I hate it when men say 'i can make you squirt'. I find it arrogant and assumptive and basically they want me to squirt for them..not for my pleasure. I always want to reply back 'I'd rather you make me orgasm'.
I'm wondering if women who do squirt find it equally off putting and annoying when men say it?
This is absolutely not squirting bashing..its men asking that question bashing!
Don’t worry, just piss on them."
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