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What lengths do you go to when inviting a meet to your house
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For people who do accommodate.
We very occasionally do with people we have got to know and trust.
Obviously we make sure house is spotlessly clean,no washing hanging around,clean towels in bathroom and so on ..
But does anyone go that extra mile?
Flowers, scented candles,mood lighting.
Anything special? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet someone from here, maybe once a month and I’d drive to him which is about 1.5hrs from me and stop over.
He would cook, his house smelt amazing, music on in the background....really made the effort. |
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"I used to meet someone from here, maybe once a month and I’d drive to him which is about 1.5hrs from me and stop over.
He would cook, his house smelt amazing, music on in the background....really made the effort. "
Little touches make all the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As younger guy always want to make the extra effort, don’t want to come off as childish or immature. Mood lighting, music, candles is standard, food/drinks is ready if desired. Rather be over the top than under the mark |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I'm having someone round this Friday daytime and I really don't know what is standard so I'm srressing!
Clean sheets, tidy house, variety of drinks and snacks if needed, condoms, clean towels, me looking fine. Anything obvious I'm missing? |
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"I'm having someone round this Friday daytime and I really don't know what is standard so I'm srressing!
Clean sheets, tidy house, variety of drinks and snacks if needed, condoms, clean towels, me looking fine. Anything obvious I'm missing? "
Cotton Eye Joe on repeat.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clean and tidy the house, new bed linen, fresh soaps/shower gels if required, bottle of wine and/or snacks if it's a first meet or a regular I like to spoil, phone switched off, cameras turned on (joke!!!)
Just make it feel like a welcoming environment to get naked in. |
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By *aveman11Man
over a year ago
all over the uk with work |
Tidy house and clean sheets no matter what, heating on usually for the lady or the fire (log burner), scented candles and fresheners in the rooms, the offer for drinks or food sometimes even music or a film  |
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As most seem to be saying - a clean and nice smelling house, fresh sheets and towels, music on, heating on (if needed), hopefully drink of choice on standby (if they have let me know) and snacks.
Not forgetting the condoms (and toys of course depending on the type of meet.....) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always some alcohol in my fridge or cupboards - different ones. But guys usually bring it together with chocolate I like burning a scented candle and dim the lights a bit. Flat is of course tidy and welcoming. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Need to be a little careful as there’s people here coming to ours or the first time shortly! Make the guest room nice, make sure their bathroom is clean has towels etc. Get the house cleaned, burn some oil , music, snacks etc if evening. Hide the expensive alcohol and put all the kids in the cellar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Need to be a little careful as there’s people here coming to ours or the first time shortly! Make the guest room nice, make sure their bathroom is clean has towels etc. Get the house cleaned, burn some oil , music, snacks etc if evening. Hide the expensive alcohol and put all the kids in the cellar "
Omg I laughed out loud @put kids in the cellar!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like a kill joy with all these scented candles and air fresheners ... not every body likes them and they're not good for anyone with asthma etc "
When I see candles lit during a meet I always think of the hot wax scene in Body of Evidence  |
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"Clean sheets, towels and loos. Music on, low lighting and a choice of beverages, lubes and toys  "
This. Plus also condoms, wet wipes and a choice of outfits at the ready depending where the night goes... |
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"I feel like a kill joy with all these scented candles and air fresheners ... not every body likes them and they're not good for anyone with asthma etc "
Totally with you on this one, scented candles destroy me! |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
As most have said clean and tidy house, toys out I want to use, condoms in easy reach oh and if I really fancy the guy the porn goes on in the back ground as they will probably need it looking at my fat arse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As most have said clean and tidy house, toys out I want to use, condoms in easy reach oh and if I really fancy the guy the porn goes on in the back ground as they will probably need it looking at my fat arse "
brilliant comment  |
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Great thread, most of my meets post social I accommodate, daytime meets are more casual, still tidy and presentable though.
The night time meets I step it up, tidy house, decent music, food prepped, fire set if it's cold.
Most definitely go that extra mile, it's a big reflection on your own grooming. Imagine going to a tip and being expect to perform in it lol |
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Clean house, drinks, fire on and clean towels and water in the hottub if they fancy a nude dip in there. Hottubs are good ince breakers to get singles or couples naked. But all Fresh and clean... What you would expect.. Anyone fancy a nude hottub social or more? |
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which i was a bit gutted about if i’m honest.