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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question for the Dom(mes):
Do you ever withhold penetration as punishment?
Where does that rate on scale of punishments?
How often do you withhold in this way? |
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"Question for the Dom(mes):
Do you ever withhold penetration as punishment?
Where does that rate on scale of punishments?
How often do you withhold in this way?"
that would depend on the dynamics of the play |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Made me think this, because penetration is something I always waited for, something after a scene, a consensual sensual coming down bond play.
So it doesn’t fit n my head.
Might be used up front as a tease.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for the Dom(mes):
Do you ever withhold penetration as punishment?
Where does that rate on scale of punishments?
How often do you withhold in this way?"
Depends on the particular dynamic. I would probably go for denying orgasm as a punishment more than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol
It was the ultimate punishment  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol
It was the ultimate punishment "
you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!
Wouldn’t be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol
It was the ultimate punishment you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!
Wouldn’t be good."
It's a huge effort to take part in a relationship like that the ups and downs the strain mentally is enormous
And that's why I no longer partake in it anymore it really is a full time job when done properly |
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"I do if I know the subs gagging for it or making her nearly cum a sleep stopping
Edging?
Nice suspension, so need to learn the art of using a rope bunny."
Thank you  2020 started with ropes so hopefully lots of it this year  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol
It was the ultimate punishment you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!
Wouldn’t be good.
It's a huge effort to take part in a relationship like that the ups and downs the strain mentally is enormous
And that's why I no longer partake in it anymore it really is a full time job when done properly "
‘‘Tis an enormously exciting sensual job though, think that is why it is calling me back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol
It was the ultimate punishment you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!
Wouldn’t be good.
It's a huge effort to take part in a relationship like that the ups and downs the strain mentally is enormous
And that's why I no longer partake in it anymore it really is a full time job when done properly
‘‘Tis an enormously exciting sensual job though, think that is why it is calling me back."
It most definitely is
I might venture back to it in the future but it'll be a long while off for me I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really interesting to see this conversation. For me no cock would be a major punishment.
Well I’m sure you will always earn it then, yes?"
I’d certainly try! The post was caused by someone threatening to withhold sex as punishment. I didn’t like it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me some harder scenes I don't find penetration flows naturally but that's less so a punishment and more so just how different scenes flow and what's appropriate and what I want. "
That makes sense. And I appreciate some don’t mix sex and scenes. |
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