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Virtually getting nowhere on here after going solo with a new profile. Most of my messages are not read, read and ignored or simply deleted. I know it's almost impossible for single guys on here but what do you ladies/couples truly think of my profile ??
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over a year ago
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Personally find your profile off-putting for the following reasons:
1. Good part of your profile talks about your friend. She's not meeting, it's a single man profile, why talk about her.
2. Promising a possibility of meeting her in the future if meet you now? Sounds like pathetic attempt to get people to meet you now.
3. Extracts of old veris - just why? Boasting about yourself without proof. What's there to say you haven't made them all up yourself?
4. Back to you partner. You can't accommodate because of kids and she knows you're here. If she's just a fwb - don't need to know about her, if she's significant part of your and your kids life - how would we know she's ok with it?
5. The group picture on a single man's profile stops me from wanting to look further. Much prefer seeing pictures of the owner and about the owner of the profile, not the people the owner was with.
6. Legal disclaimers and along the lines of them - they aren't legal, nobody will follow up on them and if tried won't get anywhere. The only legal bit is what's stated by fab website. Find them completely off-putting as shows people blindly copy paste them from other profiles without even thinking about them.
Again, it's only a personal view. Others may not be that fussy.
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"So did you print the veris out from your old profile ? Seems a bit of an odd thing to do."
We had to close the profile for no good reason thanks to the admin here. It's wrong that we had to lose all our veri's !. |
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"So did you print the veris out from your old profile ? Seems a bit of an odd thing to do.
We had to close the profile for no good reason thanks to the admin here. It's wrong that we had to lose all our veri's !."
But you presumably had them printed out in order to copy them onto your new profile ? |
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"Personally find your profile off-putting for the following reasons:
1. Good part of your profile talks about your friend. She's not meeting, it's a single man profile, why talk about her.
2. Promising a possibility of meeting her in the future if meet you now? Sounds like pathetic attempt to get people to meet you now.
3. Extracts of old veris - just why? Boasting about yourself without proof. What's there to say you haven't made them all up yourself?
4. Back to you partner. You can't accommodate because of kids and she knows you're here. If she's just a fwb - don't need to know about her, if she's significant part of your and your kids life - how would we know she's ok with it?
5. The group picture on a single man's profile stops me from wanting to look further. Much prefer seeing pictures of the owner and about the owner of the profile, not the people the owner was with.
6. Legal disclaimers and along the lines of them - they aren't legal, nobody will follow up on them and if tried won't get anywhere. The only legal bit is what's stated by fab website. Find them completely off-putting as shows people blindly copy paste them from other profiles without even thinking about them.
Again, it's only a personal view. Others may not be that fussy.
Mrs"
Thanks for the feedback, I'll consider making some of the changes you suggest. Yes I may have made up the veri's but have screenshots of the originals if anybody genuinely interested in meeting asks, better than nothing at all when starting out again !. Group photo will go, being the one usually holding the camera there aren't many photos with me in them  . My partner was on my original couples profile, as I state we will be creating a couples profile again soon x |
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"So did you print the veris out from your old profile ? Seems a bit of an odd thing to do.
We had to close the profile for no good reason thanks to the admin here. It's wrong that we had to lose all our veri's !."
Are you saying you're bypassing something imposed by admin by creating a new profile?
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"Why would admin make you close your profile ?"
While the Mrs was out of action I continued chatting with others. Some complete ass complained I was trying to meet as a single guy via a couples profile so admin deleted 'half' of my partner from our profile and made a right mess of it. My complaints were unheard even though our last two and recent veri's were clearly as a couple !?. I then posted in site help seeking help (silly me) and weirdly received a lifetime forum ban !?!?  . Hence our old profile had to be deleted. We will start up another in a couple of months but have lost around 7 years of great verifications grrr |
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"Could you not contact the people who gave you the verifications & explain the situation, some might be prepared to write new ones? "
That's a thought !. I had hoped the two new ones would have helped but apparently not lol x |
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"So did you print the veris out from your old profile ? Seems a bit of an odd thing to do.
We had to close the profile for no good reason thanks to the admin here. It's wrong that we had to lose all our veri's !.
But you presumably had them printed out in order to copy them onto your new profile ?"
good point, who even does that |
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Verifications? Hmmm......I think people will give them more credit than ‘quoted’ ones. Your profile is quite detailed about what you like - not an issue by itself but might be putting people off who might like less ‘planned’ ideas but it does give people an indication of what you’re into so all good. More photos would work. No cock photo is usually recommended. |
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and what’s with the STI test results?!?!
You'd rather meet with an unknown risk ??, surely not."
The fact that you haven’t been tested since Sept is a concern. Besides you can type any bollocks in there doesn’t mean it’s true info. |
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"Verifications? Hmmm......I think people will give them more credit than ‘quoted’ ones. Your profile is quite detailed about what you like - not an issue by itself but might be putting people off who might like less ‘planned’ ideas but it does give people an indication of what you’re into so all good. More photos would work. No cock photo is usually recommended. "
I'd put up lots of new verifications if I had them. More photos too but I need to be discrete and I'm usually holding the camera, hopefully I'll have more of both from future meets. |
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"Verifications? Hmmm......I think people will give them more credit than ‘quoted’ ones. Your profile is quite detailed about what you like - not an issue by itself but might be putting people off who might like less ‘planned’ ideas but it does give people an indication of what you’re into so all good. More photos would work. No cock photo is usually recommended.
I’m still finding the STI thing odd, not been tested since September
I'd put up lots of new verifications if I had them. More photos too but I need to be discrete and I'm usually holding the camera, hopefully I'll have more of both from future meets."
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"So did you print the veris out from your old profile ? Seems a bit of an odd thing to do.
We had to close the profile for no good reason thanks to the admin here. It's wrong that we had to lose all our veri's !.
But you presumably had them printed out in order to copy them onto your new profile ?
good point, who even does that "
I think you'll find being female you will get a hell of a lot more attention than I do. Some will find my quotes of interest and hence chat with me, or do you think a profile half the size or even less will work better ? |
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and what’s with the STI test results?!?!
You'd rather meet with an unknown risk ??, surely not.
The fact that you haven’t been tested since Sept is a concern. Besides you can type any bollocks in there doesn’t mean it’s true info. "
No concern as I haven't played with anyone since then. You have an unhelpful attitude !, I have evidence of course. |
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Your post to a forum you’ve got to expect positive and negative responses. You may not like everything you hear. Don’t ask for an opinion if you don’t wanna hear it |
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