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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've noticed at of couples that only have pictures of the female half on them yet they message with the intention of them both meeting you, is there a proper reason for this or is a any over sight? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This frustrates us also, we meet and play as a couple and therefore attraction for all is required.
Absent images of the male leaves me (her) in doubt of his suitability and so we bypass such profiles. This could be our loss but that's how we feel towards these profiles.
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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I get offers to meet their other halves while they are at work or not well etc. When I point out there is no photo of the said husband, the usual reply is they are too shy. Not too shy to have sex with a random woman off a sex site though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get offers to meet their other halves while they are at work or not well etc. When I point out there is no photo of the said husband, the usual reply is they are too shy. Not too shy to have sex with a random woman off a sex site though "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This frustrates us also, we meet and play as a couple and therefore attraction for all is required.
Absent images of the male leaves me (her) in doubt of his suitability and so we bypass such profiles. This could be our loss but that's how we feel towards these profiles.
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This is what I've started doing I dont think it's my place to point out something that should be very obvious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’re definitely guilty of this but we’re going to try mix it up a little more (only a little more lol)
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What's the reason though? How do you expect people to make a decision on whether they want to message you if they can only see 50% of they would be getting?
(Not attacking btw, genuinely interested) |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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I get it if a couple only seek a single straight man to join them, as he will only need to be attracted to her and vice versa. But couples seeking couples and single women, surely they need to see of both people are attracted to both people, so understand the need to see all parties ? Weird. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men don’t like having their photos taken as much as women?? "
I think that's irrelevant tbh if you're on here looking for single women and couples to play with the both of you then you should understand that they would like to pictures of you both. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get it if a couple only seek a single straight man to join them, as he will only need to be attracted to her and vice versa. But couples seeking couples and single women, surely they need to see of both people are attracted to both people, so understand the need to see all parties ? Weird."
I genuinely dont understand how come they dont get it?? |
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"I've noticed at of couples that only have pictures of the female half on them yet they message with the intention of them both meeting you, is there a proper reason for this or is a any over sight?"
Definitely should have photos of both. Profiles with only Female photos are not as appealing to us. |
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"We’re definitely guilty of this but we’re going to try mix it up a little more (only a little more lol)
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What's the reason though? How do you expect people to make a decision on whether they want to message you if they can only see 50% of they would be getting?
(Not attacking btw, genuinely interested)"
You’re absolutely right, I think for us because we aren’t overly concerned whether we have lots of people message us to meet or not that it means we don’t feel we have to post that many pics of me (Kieran). I think if we were using FAB to primarily set up meets we would then need to post a more balanced share pics. However we use it more to stay in touch with people we have met and see who we might bump into when attending clubs or parties.
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For us the pictures we take generally aren't for fab initially. They are ones we've taken to send each other. So M tends to send either pics of his face or his cock as these are my preferences 
M tends to ask for pics of me so we have more of me plus he'll ask for lots of different ones. Plus I think it's easier for us ladies, we have nicer lingerie for example. We can have in one photo a nice bra and knicker set, another time a body or corset and that doesn't include different colours and styles! |
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they have their reasons but we won't enter into dialogue unless their first message has a picture of the guy attached.
I find it disrespectful to me as the woman they expect to consider getting sexual with the guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"they have their reasons but we won't enter into dialogue unless their first message has a picture of the guy attached.
I find it disrespectful to me as the woman they expect to consider getting sexual with the guy "
I've never thought about it like that but i guess it is quite disrespectful almost as if they expect you to just turn up and have sex with him without having seen any pictures or knowing anything about him before hand |
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"they have their reasons but we won't enter into dialogue unless their first message has a picture of the guy attached.
I find it disrespectful to me as the woman they expect to consider getting sexual with the guy
I've never thought about it like that but i guess it is quite disrespectful almost as if they expect you to just turn up and have sex with him without having seen any pictures or knowing anything about him before hand "
It's not almost as if, it is exactly that. In effect they're saying I don't count. |
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We are guilty of this but agree with the post that there are more options of pics with the woman... We do have a few of him but the ratio is very unbalanced...
Having said that, it has not caused us a problem and we have had plenty of meets with other couples... |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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This comes up in the Forum on almost a daily basis. The simple answer is people post exactly the pictures they want to post. It's entirely up to them. If their pictures work for them, then good. If they don't they will probably change them. It isn't up to anyone else to dictate the type of photo, the balance between male and female, or whether they're tasteful or crude etc. If the photos don't appeal to you or satisfy your needs then move on to a profile that does. There are thousands to choose from. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This comes up in the Forum on almost a daily basis. The simple answer is people post exactly the pictures they want to post. It's entirely up to them. If their pictures work for them, then good. If they don't they will probably change them. It isn't up to anyone else to dictate the type of photo, the balance between male and female, or whether they're tasteful or crude etc. If the photos don't appeal to you or satisfy your needs then move on to a profile that does. There are thousands to choose from."
"Move on" is very good advice here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do look for pics of the male when viewing couples but am happy to meet based on a face pic sent privately and decide from there  "
But a lot of them dont said any along with their initial message, so in essence expect you to make a decision blind as to whether you want to get to know them or not |
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"I've noticed at of couples that only have pictures of the female half on them yet they message with the intention of them both meeting you, is there a proper reason for this or is a any over sight?"
I sort of get it if they are only meeting men.
Apart from that I have no idea. It's a common question on the forums.
My couple profile has photos of us both, as we will both be I involved. We also want to see both members of a y couple we might be meeting. |
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"I do look for pics of the male when viewing couples but am happy to meet based on a face pic sent privately and decide from there
But a lot of them dont said any along with their initial message, so in essence expect you to make a decision blind as to whether you want to get to know them or not "
We don't generally send face pics on a first message as we would rather decide whether to take it to that stage based on a few initial messages.
If we were messaging a woman we probably would though as we realise how many they get...! |
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We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.
So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.
Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.
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"We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.
So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.
Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.
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When looking to meet couples from the couple profile, all I am really bothered about is a photo that gives a general idea of the mans physique.
Clothed is fine.
Even better is a photo of the couple together.
See other couple profiles for ideas... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We send photos of the man when we’re going to actually meet up"
Do women and couples actually agree to meet you though before they've seen any pictures of the male half? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.
So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.
Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.
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When looking to meet couples from the couple profile, all I am really bothered about is a photo that gives a general idea of the mans physique.
Clothed is fine.
Even better is a photo of the couple together.
See other couple profiles for ideas..."
Exactly, doesn't have to be a face or cock pic |
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We mostly get the excuse the guy doesn’t like his photo taken . We tend to wonder why when this is said. It’s so simple to put u a few photos of you out and about they don’t have to be sexual. We also think men adore their other half’s and put photos up to show them off.
It’s normally me (boobs) that does the browsing and I will only message people where I can clearly see the guy (and fancy that guy) |
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"We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.
So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.
Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.
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When looking to meet couples from the couple profile, all I am really bothered about is a photo that gives a general idea of the mans physique.
Clothed is fine.
Even better is a photo of the couple together.
See other couple profiles for ideas..."
Thanks, taken your advice and added one to friends only X |
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Our profile is very female heavy, but we’re mainly looking for FF play. However when we message we send pictures of both of us, and our friends only photos are about 50/50. Way we see it the public pictures are just a general idea. If we’re looking to meet then of course you see us both well before any arrangements are made. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we have both but the majority are of me. Hubby loves to take pics specially if I'm playing with another. We do prefer profiles with some of the guys pics we like to know what were getting in too xx |
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This really frustrates me when we use our couple profile,especially as a straight female.
If couples want to meet other couples,they should show off both parties ,if they don't we wouldn't interact with them.Its up to each couple how they run their profile,
Kind of feels as if i'm not important though.
Plus when we did chat with profiles that had no male pics ,I was usually left disappointed when they did finally show the male.
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"Think we have a good mix on ours, 70/30 female to male. We normally find that's about right. "
That’s what we aim for, we’re only looking for girl on girl fun so it’s more important that they find each other attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we have a good mix on ours, 70/30 female to male. We normally find that's about right.
That’s what we aim for, we’re only looking for girl on girl fun so it’s more important that they find each other attractive"
We prefer bi female couples so we think so too  |
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