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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So guys what is it in particular you really love about sharing or watching your wife with another man?

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands

Suck cock

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By *oupleseekingCouple  over a year ago

nearby…..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had the pleasure of this happening to jill yet, would love to see her do anything from a handjob to a full fuck,

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By *eachyCoupleCouple  over a year ago

Events as advertised …

There’s a lot to this Answer.

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By *helroyCouple  over a year ago

Skegness

just sow horny seen wife with another man or men

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By *aughtycp1Couple  over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hubby loves watching me enjoy another man. He finds it very sexy when we make love afterwards and he can still smell the aftershave of another guy on me

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By *thleticgirthMan  over a year ago

wirral

Wow so sexy, it was a very occasional treat for me with my ex. Am looking for a stag / vixen relationship now although i love joining couples for fun also

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By *actileGent69Man  over a year ago

East Cheshire

I love watching her enjoy herself with others knowing she's coming home with me and will always be mine. Love fucking her afterwards sometimes too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ive read many times that this causes problems within relationships, has anybody experienced issues with sharing their partner sometime during their relationship after?

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ive read many times that this causes problems within relationships, has anybody experienced issues with sharing their partner sometime during their relationship after?"

I would say it would only cause problems if both parties weren’t open and honest with each other about their feelings. Me and hubby are still relatively new to all this but we have found our relationship has actually become stronger and if possible our love for each other has deepened since embracing this lifestyle. But it is all about communication and being brutally honest about how you’re feeling. If either of us aren’t comfortable with anything that’s happening from me chatting to potential meets on here to not feeling right if we are at a club or having a private meet then it just doesn’t happen our relationship is the most important thing to us and we would never do anything to put it in jeopardy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Communication has to be 100%, if it isn't then this is where it can go wrong!

For me (Hubby), the pleasure of seeing my Wife with another man is the sheer ecstasy on her face as she sees the new cock for the first time.

This is followed by the look on her face as she looks in to my eyes as she eases the new cock in to her.

It is difficult to put in to words, it is the visual's that do it for me!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Bookmarking for Mr to answer later

Mrs TMN x

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By *actileGent69Man  over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Ive read many times that this causes problems within relationships, has anybody experienced issues with sharing their partner sometime during their relationship after?"

No not at all as we trust each other totally and live the lifestyle. Yet we have seen it cause serious issues with other couples we've met !. Everything from extreme jealousy and insecurity to someone trying to steal the other woman away from her husband !

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By *actileGent69Man  over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Communication has to be 100%, if it isn't then this is where it can go wrong!

For me (Hubby), the pleasure of seeing my Wife with another man is the sheer ecstasy on her face as she sees the new cock for the first time.

This is followed by the look on her face as she looks in to my eyes as she eases the new cock in to her.

It is difficult to put in to words, it is the visual's that do it for me! "

Exactly

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple  over a year ago

Rugby

It’s the thought of somebody else finding her as hot and desirable as I do and actually getting to see her fuck from angles which you can’t see when you fuck her yourself.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple  over a year ago

darlington

Mostly a visual thing but you can make friends along the way we have been I a situation with one couple where wife got kicked in face off the wife of the couple while down on the husband within pre arranged boundaries in hindsight we had a slight bad feeling about them we put it down to nerves on our part you live and learn I guess

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mostly a visual thing but you can make friends along the way we have been I a situation with one couple where wife got kicked in face off the wife of the couple while down on the husband within pre arranged boundaries in hindsight we had a slight bad feeling about them we put it down to nerves on our part you live and learn I guess "

Sorry to read you had that experience. I hope you’ve subsequently found sane people to play with.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple  over a year ago

darlington


"Mostly a visual thing but you can make friends along the way we have been I a situation with one couple where wife got kicked in face off the wife of the couple while down on the husband within pre arranged boundaries in hindsight we had a slight bad feeling about them we put it down to nerves on our part you live and learn I guess

Sorry to read you had that experience. I hope you’ve subsequently found sane people to play with."

yeah meeting a couple this weekend we been chatting to a while both pretty excited

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple  over a year ago

Eastbourne

Love watching Steph be seduced by another guy. When she's obviously enjoying herself, it turns me on so much.

I love it when the guy is rubbing his cock in between her pussy lips without actually 'going in', until eventually they can't hold back anymore and start fucking whilst kissing passionately.

Can't deny it - the high I get from it is like a drug. When he's left, I love to clean her up with my tongue and then unload my own spunk inside her.

We usually fuck like rabbits for the next few days. It enhances our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your wife is the most beautiful women to you. More than even the fave porn star. The moment you see a porn star get fucked yeah it turns you on but you know its manufactured,fake staged even.

While your wife your absolute fave porn star gets it in your there in the room,the sights,the sounds the sheer sexual abandon in her eyes as she's doing something society thinks is dirty.

You get to see your wife from a new angle the look on her face when another men enters her as she looking at you. The way her breasts move when she is in action.

Your there live, interactive, opening up you wife chances of pleasre because you would do anything for her.

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By *elrose57Couple  over a year ago

reading

its all about the build up , not just a single act on the other guy, meeting for a drink and getting to know him, and making sure that it is for all 3 of you, the knock on the door the smile on his face the smile on our faces, the nervousness to the first touch and then to the kissing watching him enjoying her and the wife enjoying herself with him, the wife holding his hand and directing him to our bedroom, seeing his hands in her knickers, her knickers hitting the bedroom carpet , her hand grasping his cock, his trousers on the floor his packets of condoms on the bed side table, the fun ,and all the enjoyment and getting to know ,, and looking forward to the following meets, if the first meet was good the next ones will be so much better as we all get to know what it is each other wants and likes

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By *exi7000Couple  over a year ago

London


"So guys what is it in particular you really love about sharing or watching your wife with another man? "

I (Mr) like MMF more than FFM,for one reason. Let me explain. When we are with a couple or with another girl, I am busy in the moment with the other girl and all I can see is some glimpse of M enjoying herself. I like watching her from a different angle. Makes me go wild. I like seeing the close up action. Also 2 of us pleasure M until she begs us to stop for a break.

As someone already mentioned, the build up to the MMF is important. We always set a private chat just 3 of us, and I like reading M's responses to the guys questions, mekes me horny as hell.

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By *op2Couple  over a year ago

North west


"its all about the build up , not just a single act on the other guy, meeting for a drink and getting to know him, and making sure that it is for all 3 of you, the knock on the door the smile on his face the smile on our faces, the nervousness to the first touch and then to the kissing watching him enjoying her and the wife enjoying herself with him, the wife holding his hand and directing him to our bedroom, seeing his hands in her knickers, her knickers hitting the bedroom carpet , her hand grasping his cock, his trousers on the floor his packets of condoms on the bed side table, the fun ,and all the enjoyment and getting to know ,, and looking forward to the following meets, if the first meet was good the next ones will be so much better as we all get to know what it is each other wants and likes "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hink it is different for every man to be honest.

As the 'third person' in a lot of 3sums over the years I've seen men get turned on for so many reasons...live 'porn show', sperm competition, just wanting to see their wives enjoy their sexuality, being bi...so many reasons.

When in a relationship in the past I oved watching my partner have sex with other men. Being able to sit back and see her full body enjoy the experience is so sensual...you miss so much of the 'whole picture' whne you are having sex with her. Very sexy. That was my love for it but as I say, every man I've ever met with their wife seems to have a different perspective.

For me though it is more about what the woman wants than the man whilst remembering it is all inclusive for all.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Manchester

I think for us it stems from watching BBC porn, I get to see the woman I adore being a real life porn star slut, then I get to reclaim her as mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The sex we have after my wife's has sucked and been fucked by another man is awesome

Hard to explain really, love kissing her when she has sucked his cock or going down on her when he pulls out.

Brilliant

Having her look at me when she is kissing his cock

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's on our list but we cant find the right guy as Mrs is too picky, or the guy makes no attempt to get on with the fella and solely just me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just love to watch her enjoying herself and seeing her be able to let go and enjoy another man is amazing. It really makes me feel horny getting to watch the hottest woman I know having sex so getting to see her in different positions and from different angles is what does it for me.

Also love seeing guys getting turned on and desiring her and that they are doing things differently to me so she gets new sexual experiences is great. I also love that I get to have sex with her between play dates even though her regular playmates desire her but knowing that others desire her is great.

It's not created any jealousy for us and we've both enjoyed this lifestyle since we started swapping last year, it's certainly brought us much closer together and we now understand each others desires and wants a lot better and we communicate better too. That we both get to tick off a few fantasies has been great for both of us.

I also think it has massively improved her confidence as before she always felt "not good enough" by the way women are portrayed in the media and she didn't feel "desirable" but now she's had some very hot guys desire her and she's enjoyed them she realises that she is really attractive and there's nothing wrong with her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve not shared my wife unfortunately, it’s not her thing (yet) but used to share my ex. The thing that did it most for me was watching her reactions, seeing her enjoy another bloke and watch her orgasm and cum.

Seeing it from another perspective is a massive turn on and also a great source of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a few instances with the ex where she’d be out with the girls and be hit on and would text me to asking me if it was ok for her to go back to the guys house.

I found it a massive turn on thinking about her being fucked and then coming home to me afterwards. There were also 2 occasions where she went back with a group of guys and was gang banged. That was an amazing thrill and she got some pretty good photos of those times to show me.

One of my best experiences was a time when I watched her fuck one of my friends and after he came in her she sat on my face!! That was hot!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple  over a year ago

My House

Single guys are only useful as an extra to add spice to the night. If I'm not there, she isn't allowed. Same for her with me. We don't do this for one of us, it's both our not at all

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By *losguygl3Man  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Your wife is the most beautiful women to you. More than even the fave porn star. The moment you see a porn star get fucked yeah it turns you on but you know its manufactured,fake staged even.

While your wife your absolute fave porn star gets it in your there in the room,the sights,the sounds the sheer sexual abandon in her eyes as she's doing something society thinks is dirty.

You get to see your wife from a new angle the look on her face when another men enters her as she looking at you. The way her breasts move when she is in action.

Your there live, interactive, opening up you wife chances of pleasre because you would do anything for her."

Late to this thread, but THIS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So guys what is it in particular you really love about sharing or watching your wife with another man?

I (Mr) like MMF more than FFM,for one reason. Let me explain. When we are with a couple or with another girl, I am busy in the moment with the other girl and all I can see is some glimpse of M enjoying herself. I like watching her from a different angle. Makes me go wild. I like seeing the close up action. Also 2 of us pleasure M until she begs us to stop for a break.

As someone already mentioned, the build up to the MMF is important. We always set a private chat just 3 of us, and I like reading M's responses to the guys questions, mekes me horny as hell. "

This totally!!!!

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By *ensual 2Couple  over a year ago

Blackpool


"Ive read many times that this causes problems within relationships, has anybody experienced issues with sharing their partner sometime during their relationship after?

I would say it would only cause problems if both parties weren’t open and honest with each other about their feelings. Me and hubby are still relatively new to all this but we have found our relationship has actually become stronger and if possible our love for each other has deepened since embracing this lifestyle. But it is all about communication and being brutally honest about how you’re feeling. If either of us aren’t comfortable with anything that’s happening from me chatting to potential meets on here to not feeling right if we are at a club or having a private meet then it just doesn’t happen our relationship is the most important thing to us and we would never do anything to put it in jeopardy "

We also are even closer after sharing the special fun times together...makes for a true honest relationship with no jealousy and all the sexxy benefits it brings us both ..reclaim sex is magic...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll have to think about that... Tom

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By *emptusboth777Couple  over a year ago

oxford

It's crazy hot for us both and a turn on knowing others want her as I do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tom....

I like that other guys find vikki sexy

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By *emptusboth777Couple  over a year ago

oxford

[Yes!!!!]So guys what is it in particular you really love about sharing or watching your wife with another man?

I (Mr) like MMF more than FFM,for one reason. Let me explain. When we are with a couple or with another girl, I am busy in the moment with the other girl and all I can see is some glimpse of M enjoying herself. I like watching her from a different angle. Makes me go wild. I like seeing the close up action. Also 2 of us pleasure M until she begs us to stop for a break.

As someone already mentioned, the build up to the MMF is important. We always set a private chat just 3 of us, and I like reading M's responses to the guys questions, mekes me horny as hell. [this totally. Great answer ]

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By *illpeopleCouple  over a year ago

High Peak

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By *amigos321Couple (MM)  over a year ago

leeds

For a couple with a hot wife...watching the wife kissing another guy or 2..bodies melting together...then watching her face..listening to her moans as he is fucking her deep with her screams getting louder..looking at her hubby..eye contact..wide open and breathing getting faster..telling him she is cumming..louder..this is some of our experience meeting cpls..Amazing

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By *ndysmithMan  over a year ago

north cyprus

adore seeing a hard cock penetrate her

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple  over a year ago

Fucksville

I love this thread

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple  over a year ago

Rugby


"I love this thread "

Me too.

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