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over a year ago
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"Q: does swinging effect a person’s ability to then engage in a ‘normal’ relationship? Does it make you cold and detached?..
Thoughts?"
Nope we have a very strong relationship and we have rules and agree that if that kinda thing ever shows its face then we both stop, our relationship is priority over any kinda swinging.
If cold and detached is happening, then maybe, swinging should be the last thing on anyones mind S there is a problem in the relationship |
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Not in my opinion. I do have the ability to separate different relationships though and when it comes to swinging can be "cold and detached" if needs be if that's how you describe no emotional involvement . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Q: does swinging effect a person’s ability to then engage in a ‘normal’ relationship? Does it make you cold and detached?..
Thoughts?
Nope we have a very strong relationship and we have rules and agree that if that kinda thing ever shows its face then we both stop, our relationship is priority over any kinda swinging.
If cold and detached is happening, then maybe, swinging should be the last thing on anyones mind S there is a problem in the relationship"
Yes totally agree. I am thinking for as single folk who have swung historically but are now looking for the one... |
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"Not in my opinion. I do have the ability to separate different relationships though and when it comes to swinging can be "cold and detached" if needs be if that's how you describe no emotional involvement ."
Yes, very good point that could be how people perceive no emotional involvement |
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"Not in my opinion. I do have the ability to separate different relationships though and when it comes to swinging can be "cold and detached" if needs be if that's how you describe no emotional involvement .
Yes, very good point that could be how people perceive no emotional involvement "
I think to do this successfully you need to be able to detach yourself emotionally from sex at least. There's a heap of trouble waiting if you can't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not in my opinion. I do have the ability to separate different relationships though and when it comes to swinging can be "cold and detached" if needs be if that's how you describe no emotional involvement .
Yes, very good point that could be how people perceive no emotional involvement
I think to do this successfully you need to be able to detach yourself emotionally from sex at least. There's a heap of trouble waiting if you can't."
Couldn’t agree more!!
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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago
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"Q: does swinging effect a person’s ability to then engage in a ‘normal’ relationship? Does it make you cold and detached?..
Thoughts?"
Not for us, its just a small part of our relationship.. Swinging is an experience we both enjoy and share together.. Its just a part of our physical relationship...and certainly not the most important.
Relationships consist of many more factors.. Emotional, physical, intellectual etc..
For us I think it's actually brought us closer.. I've never had a relationship where we talk about everything and anything and there is no part of me I have to keep hidden.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Q: does swinging effect a person’s ability to then engage in a ‘normal’ relationship? Does it make you cold and detached?..
Thoughts?
Not for us, its just a small part of our relationship.. Swinging is an experience we both enjoy and share together.. Its just a part of our physical relationship...and certainly not the most important.
Relationships consist of many more factors.. Emotional, physical, intellectual etc..
For us I think it's actually brought us closer.. I've never had a relationship where we talk about everything and anything and there is no part of me I have to keep hidden.... "
The perfect relationship 
It’s finding that person you connect to and shares your kinks  |
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"Q: does swinging effect a person’s ability to then engage in a ‘normal’ relationship? Does it make you cold and detached?..
Thoughts?"
That is a thought provoking question!
This is our answer ( feel free to slate it. Our skin is to thick to care).
MY wifey is a sexy SLAG to me on. Fab
MY Missus turns me the F on when when in Asda.
MY wifey tells a bloke to fuck her like a slag
MY missus tells our grandkids “ our house , your house”
MY wifey gets turned on by turning ME on.
My missus asks “ shall we have lamb or pork Sunday bab”?
My point is it’s a swing site. We all have our kinks. What happens on fab stays on fab.
The real world will always prevail.
This is just OUR Matrix.
My thoughts and hope you all understand.
Happy fabbing ppl. |
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I've met the one, I couldn't be more in love. This whole thing is for US. I feel more connected to this beautiful man because he not only accepts but embraces my kinks and I embrace his.
It's a small part of our relationship but we both enjoy it together and I feel more connected to him the more we explore! |
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