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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
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Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand. |
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over a year ago
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand."
don't worry about it, some do bareback, check out the vids by going onto hotpics youll be surprised how many do    |
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over a year ago
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand."
Don't fuck em without protection... Or at all, if you're worried about em... Pretty simple really |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand."
Why are you worried it doesn't effect you use protection on every meet. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand.
Don't fuck em without protection... Or at all, if you're worried about em... Pretty simple really "
I have no intention of going anywhere near them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand."
Not being judgemental cuts both ways though. 
Dont worry about how other people play. And dont fuck people if you dont like how they choose to play |
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"Ok that's fine. I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?"
More risky than protected sex for sure but even protected has risks and not many people use condoms or dams for oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion"
Why? Because it's to do with sex?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion"
Is that because you smoke?
Because I'm guessing it's not based on how may people die of smoking relating illnesses? |
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand.
Don't fuck em without protection... Or at all, if you're worried about em... Pretty simple really
I have no intention of going anywhere near them. "
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That's why it's good that they're open about it. I genuinely don't want people to feel they can't say they enjoy bare back mostly because I don't think it's down to me to tell people what they can and can't do but also because it gives me the choice of meeting or avoiding. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Been here a year and you've only just thought about this?! Really?!"
Just because I've only posted a thread on it now doesn't mean I've only just thought about it.
There are numerous threads going on about what porn people like, doesn't mean they've only just discovered it. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Is that because you smoke?
Because I'm guessing it's not based on how may people die of smoking relating illnesses? "
Where on my profile does it say I smoke? |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand.
Don't fuck em without protection... Or at all, if you're worried about em... Pretty simple really
I have no intention of going anywhere near them. ,
That's why it's good that they're open about it. I genuinely don't want people to feel they can't say they enjoy bare back mostly because I don't think it's down to me to tell people what they can and can't do but also because it gives me the choice of meeting or avoiding."
Fair enough |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex? "
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok that's fine. I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
More risky than protected sex for sure but even protected has risks and not many people use condoms or dams for oral"
that's for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex?
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping."
Only if you have unprotected sex with them... And vaping is not the same as smoking |
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the same thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex?
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping."
We were talking about the danger of smoking. We never mentioned vaping. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Different people assess the risks different ways OP - if someone doesn't assess them the same as you then it's an indication you're not suited to each other - it really is that simple and not worth worrying about any more than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age."
Are you missing something? Yes you're missing quite a lot of information and making the assumption (unless clearly stated otherwise) the people explicitly only play without protection and demand it from everyone they play with.
"In the current age" is an interesting choice of words. For context an STI is a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Meaning it is a bacterial or viral infection transmitted from one person to another while engaged in a sexual act. This includes any bacteria or virus; including the flu. Some particular viruses are more serious than others but a flu you catch from a random hookup then pass on to another person with a poor immune system could be devastating.
Looking at your profile you indicate you enjoy oral, rimming, toys, threesomes, soft swing, and watersports. Each of these sexual activities and all associated acts carry significant risk of transmitting infections.
For example-
Do you ensure the toy is cleaned before using it and if two ladies are involved change the condom on the toy before taking it from one lady to the next (or back again)?
For oral/rimming there is significant risk of UTI if you were to use your tongue on her anus then take it to her clit and transfer e-coli to her urethra. So I am assuming you insist on using a different dam for both anus and vulva (not to mention another new one when swapping oral between partners in the threesome). There is also insisting on a condom for when you're receiving and that again needs to be changed if you swap between oral and vaginal, especially in the threesome where the mouth and vagina is not of the same person.
At the end of the day there is no such thing as "Safe Sex", there are only steps you can take to reduce risk factors to a level you personally accept. If you are engaging in sex with someone who has an infection, learn what steps you can take to reduce your exposure risk for that particular pathogen's route of transmission. It is not a one size fits all and one person's choices do not impact you, they only impact that person. |
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand."
Why are you worried? Block and don't meet.
I told the last person who tried unprotected sex with me at a club that I would rip his cock off and make him taste it...but I wasn't worried (and people misunderstand that I am sub  )
People make foolish choices all the time - with drug resistant syphilis now they are very foolish choices but who among us hasn't closed our eyes to risk.
Oddly most swingers seem worried about HiV which is just odd given that U=U means it's completely treatable.
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I've met men on here that are "straight" but bisexual on fabguys. Or just straight on here.
Met men that won't meet smokers but happy for me to smoke when I meet them.
Met plenty of men that say "safe sex only" or "don't meet people that bareback" then can't wait to try and get into me without a condom
Met people that say they are tested and then can't provide evidence (my test results are always on my phone)
Men (and yes, I mean just men) will say anything to get a shag. What they say on their profiles and on their veris means nothing.
Just stick with your gut instincts.
I've completely forgotten what the OP question was x |
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"OP asked a pertinent question and got so much bashing...
Why the attacks?
Either answer the question or don't. But who are you to tell OP what questions he can post?"
Yes you've just PM'd me this. I don't think you've read my answer properly. I was agreeing with the OP |
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"OP asked a pertinent question and got so much bashing...
Why the attacks?
Either answer the question or don't. But who are you to tell OP what questions he can post?
Yes you've just PM'd me this. I don't think you've read my answer properly. I was agreeing with the OP "
It was an error, as clarified with you in private.
The post concerns some of the replies, not yours. All is well!
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"OP asked a pertinent question and got so much bashing...
Why the attacks?
Either answer the question or don't. But who are you to tell OP what questions he can post?
Yes you've just PM'd me this. I don't think you've read my answer properly. I was agreeing with the OP
It was an error, as clarified with you in private.
The post concerns some of the replies, not yours. All is well!
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Yes all sorted now x |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
Are you missing something? Yes you're missing quite a lot of information and making the assumption (unless clearly stated otherwise) the people explicitly only play without protection and demand it from everyone they play with.
"In the current age" is an interesting choice of words. For context an STI is a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Meaning it is a bacterial or viral infection transmitted from one person to another while engaged in a sexual act. This includes any bacteria or virus; including the flu. Some particular viruses are more serious than others but a flu you catch from a random hookup then pass on to another person with a poor immune system could be devastating.
Looking at your profile you indicate you enjoy oral, rimming, toys, threesomes, soft swing, and watersports. Each of these sexual activities and all associated acts carry significant risk of transmitting infections.
For example-
Do you ensure the toy is cleaned before using it and if two ladies are involved change the condom on the toy before taking it from one lady to the next (or back again)?
For oral/rimming there is significant risk of UTI if you were to use your tongue on her anus then take it to her clit and transfer e-coli to her urethra. So I am assuming you insist on using a different dam for both anus and vulva (not to mention another new one when swapping oral between partners in the threesome). There is also insisting on a condom for when you're receiving and that again needs to be changed if you swap between oral and vaginal, especially in the threesome where the mouth and vagina is not of the same person.
At the end of the day there is no such thing as "Safe Sex", there are only steps you can take to reduce risk factors to a level you personally accept. If you are engaging in sex with someone who has an infection, learn what steps you can take to reduce your exposure risk for that particular pathogen's route of transmission. It is not a one size fits all and one person's choices do not impact you, they only impact that person."
Good answer.
Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand.
Why are you worried? Block and don't meet.
I told the last person who tried unprotected sex with me at a club that I would rip his cock off and make him taste it...but I wasn't worried (and people misunderstand that I am sub )
People make foolish choices all the time - with drug resistant syphilis now they are very foolish choices but who among us hasn't closed our eyes to risk.
Oddly most swingers seem worried about HiV which is just odd given that U=U means it's completely treatable.
Ms Icebreaker "
Thanks.
Ummm, may be worried wasn't the right word. As someone mentioned earlier, I'm a "thinker", lol. Worried about 'society'I guess. That some don't consider the risks they pose not only to themselves but others as well. |
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"Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
Are you missing something? Yes you're missing quite a lot of information and making the assumption (unless clearly stated otherwise) the people explicitly only play without protection and demand it from everyone they play with.
"In the current age" is an interesting choice of words. For context an STI is a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Meaning it is a bacterial or viral infection transmitted from one person to another while engaged in a sexual act. This includes any bacteria or virus; including the flu. Some particular viruses are more serious than others but a flu you catch from a random hookup then pass on to another person with a poor immune system could be devastating.
Looking at your profile you indicate you enjoy oral, rimming, toys, threesomes, soft swing, and watersports. Each of these sexual activities and all associated acts carry significant risk of transmitting infections.
For example-
Do you ensure the toy is cleaned before using it and if two ladies are involved change the condom on the toy before taking it from one lady to the next (or back again)?
For oral/rimming there is significant risk of UTI if you were to use your tongue on her anus then take it to her clit and transfer e-coli to her urethra. So I am assuming you insist on using a different dam for both anus and vulva (not to mention another new one when swapping oral between partners in the threesome). There is also insisting on a condom for when you're receiving and that again needs to be changed if you swap between oral and vaginal, especially in the threesome where the mouth and vagina is not of the same person.
At the end of the day there is no such thing as "Safe Sex", there are only steps you can take to reduce risk factors to a level you personally accept. If you are engaging in sex with someone who has an infection, learn what steps you can take to reduce your exposure risk for that particular pathogen's route of transmission. It is not a one size fits all and one person's choices do not impact you, they only impact that person.
Good answer.
Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk"
STI and STD are the same thing |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"OP asked a pertinent question and got so much bashing...
Why the attacks?
Either answer the question or don't. But who are you to tell OP what questions he can post?"
Thank you for the back up. I tend to get a lot of bashing no matter what I post. Lol.
I post discussion points you see as opposed to the others who post what I call "fluff" pieces - you know: what size boobs do you prefer or what naughty thoughts does the profile above give you. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
Are you missing something? Yes you're missing quite a lot of information and making the assumption (unless clearly stated otherwise) the people explicitly only play without protection and demand it from everyone they play with.
"In the current age" is an interesting choice of words. For context an STI is a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Meaning it is a bacterial or viral infection transmitted from one person to another while engaged in a sexual act. This includes any bacteria or virus; including the flu. Some particular viruses are more serious than others but a flu you catch from a random hookup then pass on to another person with a poor immune system could be devastating.
Looking at your profile you indicate you enjoy oral, rimming, toys, threesomes, soft swing, and watersports. Each of these sexual activities and all associated acts carry significant risk of transmitting infections.
For example-
Do you ensure the toy is cleaned before using it and if two ladies are involved change the condom on the toy before taking it from one lady to the next (or back again)?
For oral/rimming there is significant risk of UTI if you were to use your tongue on her anus then take it to her clit and transfer e-coli to her urethra. So I am assuming you insist on using a different dam for both anus and vulva (not to mention another new one when swapping oral between partners in the threesome). There is also insisting on a condom for when you're receiving and that again needs to be changed if you swap between oral and vaginal, especially in the threesome where the mouth and vagina is not of the same person.
At the end of the day there is no such thing as "Safe Sex", there are only steps you can take to reduce risk factors to a level you personally accept. If you are engaging in sex with someone who has an infection, learn what steps you can take to reduce your exposure risk for that particular pathogen's route of transmission. It is not a one size fits all and one person's choices do not impact you, they only impact that person.
Good answer.
Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk
STI and STD are the same thing "
Infection is the same as a disease? So the clap falls into the same category as AIDS? |
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"Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
Are you missing something? Yes you're missing quite a lot of information and making the assumption (unless clearly stated otherwise) the people explicitly only play without protection and demand it from everyone they play with.
"In the current age" is an interesting choice of words. For context an STI is a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Meaning it is a bacterial or viral infection transmitted from one person to another while engaged in a sexual act. This includes any bacteria or virus; including the flu. Some particular viruses are more serious than others but a flu you catch from a random hookup then pass on to another person with a poor immune system could be devastating.
Looking at your profile you indicate you enjoy oral, rimming, toys, threesomes, soft swing, and watersports. Each of these sexual activities and all associated acts carry significant risk of transmitting infections.
For example-
Do you ensure the toy is cleaned before using it and if two ladies are involved change the condom on the toy before taking it from one lady to the next (or back again)?
For oral/rimming there is significant risk of UTI if you were to use your tongue on her anus then take it to her clit and transfer e-coli to her urethra. So I am assuming you insist on using a different dam for both anus and vulva (not to mention another new one when swapping oral between partners in the threesome). There is also insisting on a condom for when you're receiving and that again needs to be changed if you swap between oral and vaginal, especially in the threesome where the mouth and vagina is not of the same person.
At the end of the day there is no such thing as "Safe Sex", there are only steps you can take to reduce risk factors to a level you personally accept. If you are engaging in sex with someone who has an infection, learn what steps you can take to reduce your exposure risk for that particular pathogen's route of transmission. It is not a one size fits all and one person's choices do not impact you, they only impact that person.
Good answer.
Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk
STI and STD are the same thing
Infection is the same as a disease? So the clap falls into the same category as AIDS?"
Well yes, they are both sexually transmitted |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex?
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping.
Only if you have unprotected sex with them... And vaping is not the same as smoking"
Ok.
No mathematical brain required to solve this equation:
10 seconds for a cock inside the vagina = high risk of potentially contracting AIDS
10 minutes of passively inhaling 10 people chain smoking = negligible chance of me getting lung cancer.
Still the same? |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
Are you missing something? Yes you're missing quite a lot of information and making the assumption (unless clearly stated otherwise) the people explicitly only play without protection and demand it from everyone they play with.
"In the current age" is an interesting choice of words. For context an STI is a Sexually Transmitted Infection. Meaning it is a bacterial or viral infection transmitted from one person to another while engaged in a sexual act. This includes any bacteria or virus; including the flu. Some particular viruses are more serious than others but a flu you catch from a random hookup then pass on to another person with a poor immune system could be devastating.
Looking at your profile you indicate you enjoy oral, rimming, toys, threesomes, soft swing, and watersports. Each of these sexual activities and all associated acts carry significant risk of transmitting infections.
For example-
Do you ensure the toy is cleaned before using it and if two ladies are involved change the condom on the toy before taking it from one lady to the next (or back again)?
For oral/rimming there is significant risk of UTI if you were to use your tongue on her anus then take it to her clit and transfer e-coli to her urethra. So I am assuming you insist on using a different dam for both anus and vulva (not to mention another new one when swapping oral between partners in the threesome). There is also insisting on a condom for when you're receiving and that again needs to be changed if you swap between oral and vaginal, especially in the threesome where the mouth and vagina is not of the same person.
At the end of the day there is no such thing as "Safe Sex", there are only steps you can take to reduce risk factors to a level you personally accept. If you are engaging in sex with someone who has an infection, learn what steps you can take to reduce your exposure risk for that particular pathogen's route of transmission. It is not a one size fits all and one person's choices do not impact you, they only impact that person.
Good answer.
Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk
STI and STD are the same thing
Infection is the same as a disease? So the clap falls into the same category as AIDS?
Well yes, they are both sexually transmitted "
But one can be dealt with a visit to the doctor and a pharmacist whereas the other can be terminal. |
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex?
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping.
Only if you have unprotected sex with them... And vaping is not the same as smoking
Ok.
No mathematical brain required to solve this equation:
10 seconds for a cock inside the vagina = high risk of potentially contracting AIDS
10 minutes of passively inhaling 10 people chain smoking = negligible chance of me getting lung cancer.
Still the same?"
I sort of get where you're coming from but smoking isn't sexually transmitted of course. But, yes, I understand the analogy. The initial stage is that you could get a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and if not treated then this could develop into a disease (STD) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sums fab up, too many people worrying and bitching about what others prefer
Its simple, if it's not for you ignore it
Slagging bareback off in the forums got boring a long time ago
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"Ok that's fine. I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?"
There you go. For the record I believe strongly in safe sex, however your very comment above is making a judgement therefore you are being judgemental.
If you want to understand why people would make a choice that you see as inherently risky then look into why some people choose to climb rock faces without ropes when if they fall they die, why people take drugs when they know that they have serious detrimental consequences.
Your question shouldn’t be about safe sex or not, it should be why do people in life take risks for pleasure in general.
Unless of course you’re being judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex?
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping.
Only if you have unprotected sex with them... And vaping is not the same as smoking
Ok.
No mathematical brain required to solve this equation:
10 seconds for a cock inside the vagina = high risk of potentially contracting AIDS
10 minutes of passively inhaling 10 people chain smoking = negligible chance of me getting lung cancer.
Still the same?"
No... It's not the same... I am sure the people that bb know the risks and think it is worth it, however they go about it and if they partake, it is their choice... Inhaling someone elses smoke is rarely a choice...as lobg as you wrap up with whoever you want to stick your cock in, you'll be fine.... Also, how often have you made a gf get checked before fucking her bare? You decide the risks of what you do and let them do the same eh? |
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"Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk"
STI = Sexually transmitted infection.
STD = Sexually transmitted disease.
Both exactly the same thing. |
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion
Why? Because it's to do with sex?
Errr...yes. sexually transmitted diseases different to being in proximity of someone vaping.
Only if you have unprotected sex with them... And vaping is not the same as smoking
Ok.
No mathematical brain required to solve this equation:
10 seconds for a cock inside the vagina = high risk of potentially contracting AIDS
10 minutes of passively inhaling 10 people chain smoking = negligible chance of me getting lung cancer.
Still the same?"
Can you quantify how "10 seconds of cock inside a vaginal = high risk of potentially contracting AIDS". I'd love to see a source. Oh and do you mean HIV or AIDS? |
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"Ok I am rather worried about the profiles that ask for bareback sex, creampie threesomes with couples, etc with such ease and "matter of fact".
Am I missing something? How are people comfortable asking for this in the current age.
I'm sure there'll be a lot of people joining in with a rant of agreement but ideally, I'd like to hear from those who actually ask for this.
Trying not to be judgemental so help me understand.
Don't fuck em without protection... Or at all, if you're worried about em... Pretty simple really
I have no intention of going anywhere near them. "
there are plenty that say safe sex that then ask for bare sex. So I actually like the profiles that say so x |
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"Good answer.
Just for clarification, you talk mainly about STI, which are not as bad as STD which is the primary risk
STI and STD are the same thing
Infection is the same as a disease? So the clap falls into the same category as AIDS?"
I always forget how confused people can get.
A disease can't be "caught", for example cancer is a disease. AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) is the same; it can't be "caught".
Both cancer and AIDS can develop from viral infections.
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) can be transmitted through contact with bodily fluids and can progress to AIDS if left untreated.
HPV (Human Papilloma Virus) can be transmitted through pretty much any close skin-to-skin contact and can progress to cancer and there is no treatment to prevent the cancer. The estimate is 75-80% of anal cancer and upwards of 70% of cervical cancer is caused by HPV.
HSV(1&2) - Mouth (cold sores) & genital ulcers.
HPV - Multiple cancers.
HIV - Destroys T-cells causing an immune system that can't fight off anything.
As I said before. You might catch the flu from a sex partner and think nothing of it, you inadvertantly pass it to an elderly or poorly family member, and it develops into life threatening pneumonia. The influenza virus was sexually transmitted and developed into a disease. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Sums fab up, too many people worrying and bitching about what others prefer
Its simple, if it's not for you ignore it
Slagging bareback off in the forums got boring a long time ago
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True story |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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" I get it about "choice" and "preference" etc but isn't it dangerous?
Lots of people smoke cigarettes despite knowing it is dangerous.
Hmmm... not quite the sane thing in my opinion"
Oh, I think she is sane, lung/ throat cancer are a lot more difficult to cure than std’s.
Did like your presupposition around people jumping on the bandwagon though.
Wife and I have been having unprotected sex for years.
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