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How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here |
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No response is a, no thank you.
That is according to site rules.
Online with filters off it can be impossible to keep up, so mass delete shouldn't be taken so personally.
Glad you've had great times op  |
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over a year ago
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ive met a few ive rejected on fab in clubs but had to explain if they write dick head messages via private messages then what am i suppose to think or do ?? |
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I always send polite messages, and mention their profiles, but i understand some folk get a lot of mail, and at that time may have had better offers more suited, then in a club, spontanious things happen |
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"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here"
an ignored message may just be that it got lost in an inbox.
But yes I've played with someone who I realised I'd blocked. And mid way through realised I was right to block them x |
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over a year ago
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I have the same problem, but it's a variation of yours, in that I get accepted in messages etc, but then when they recognise me in clubs they put their clothes back on. |
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I can end up being more picky in messages, sometimes men just dont come across right, or i miss it or delete because my profile was not read.
Then meeting someone in person can be completely different, they could be lovely and just didnt appear so in my inbox.
Meeting face to face gives the best impression but i cannot meet the 50-100 that message everyday  |
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"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here an ignored message may just be that it got lost in an inbox.
But yes I've played with someone who I realised I'd blocked. And mid way through realised I was right to block them x "
That’s so funny  |
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"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here"
Not sure what you beef is they may just have there beer goggles on. |
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"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here"
That's exactly what happened to us and we're now a couple. I rejected Mr on Fab, then we unknowingly met at a club as two singles and now been in a relationship for 2 years. He never let's me forget the rejection  |
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"I have the same problem, but it's a variation of yours, in that I get accepted in messages etc, but then when they recognise me in clubs they put their clothes back on. "
I'm sure that's not true...  |
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"I have the same problem, but it's a variation of yours, in that I get accepted in messages etc, but then when they recognise me in clubs they put their clothes back on. "
I'd definitely buy you a Gibson up and after that I'd trip you up and be under you before you hit the floor |
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"Sometimes we delete single guys messages as its not something we are looking for. That can change in a club though when it's more spontaneous "
This is a HUGE thing I really don't understand... why aren't you just blocking single guys messaging you?? |
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