We wondered what people thought about people that play every weekend,not so much singles but more about couples, we have always thought there must be something missing from someone’s relationship to play as many times as possible within a month period ie every Friday and Saturday each week,we think twice a month is more than enough. Don’t think there is a right or wrong answer we were just curious about what people think.x |
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"We wondered what people thought about people that play every weekend,not so much singles but more about couples, we have always thought there must be something missing from someone’s relationship to play as many times as possible within a month period ie every Friday and Saturday each week,we think twice a month is more than enough. Don’t think there is a right or wrong answer we were just curious about what people think.x"
We say go for it while you can still enjoy yourselves. We wouldn’t always meet couples for sex every weekend, we like the social side as well. |
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We meet couples every weekend for a month but a mix of social (some got friend zoned but remain best mates) and others are play. Now and again we'll take weeks/months off as suits us and our vanilla lives and as a couple. Tbh others can do as they want, it's their lives and none of our business.  |
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"We meet couples every weekend for a month but a mix of social (some got friend zoned but remain best mates) and others are play. Now and again we'll take weeks/months off as suits us and our vanilla lives and as a couple. Tbh others can do as they want, it's their lives and none of our business. "
We were not passing judgment on how many times we just wondered what people thought, it is just nice to hear other people’s views that’s all, we are the same maybe once or twice a month maybe never! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
As you say OP there's no right or wrong answer only the one individuals are comfortable with themselves.
Without suggesting you are being judgemental, because I'm not, but to pick up on one of your points, if peoples "hobby" was something non-sexual that they were doing together (if a couple) persuing it every weekend wouldn't necessarily be considered "too much" or that "something was missing", in fact most would look on it as a good thing they had a shared interest, so why should it be different because their "hobby" happens to be sex? |
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By *lick9Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
I have been to clubs on the weekend and notice the same faces in there week in week out. Many don't actually appear to play, just every blue moon. I think they just go for a social at a swingers club rather than a pub. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
As you say, there's no right or wrong answer. In the past I've gone with a partner twice in a week, some times several times a month.
The simple thing is that often couples go to clubs just to be social and to play with each other. It entirely depends on their dynamic and frankly, even if they were meeting twice a night, every night, it's up to them.
Conversely, if a couple never meets, it's not too little either.
I do think that often people judge others based on their own morals and what they consider to be 'right', this would be a much better world if we all let others manage their own lives as they see fit and look to our own business. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the issue? |
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"As you say, there's no right or wrong answer. In the past I've gone with a partner twice in a week, some times several times a month.
The simple thing is that often couples go to clubs just to be social and to play with each other. It entirely depends on their dynamic and frankly, even if they were meeting twice a night, every night, it's up to them.
Conversely, if a couple never meets, it's not too little either.
I do think that often people judge others based on their own morals and what they consider to be 'right', this would be a much better world if we all let others manage their own lives as they see fit and look to our own business. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the issue? "
As you pointed out there was no wrong or right answer we were just interested to see what people think, I personally don’t give a rats arse how many times people play, as we said we just was curious that’s all |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"As you say, there's no right or wrong answer. In the past I've gone with a partner twice in a week, some times several times a month.
The simple thing is that often couples go to clubs just to be social and to play with each other. It entirely depends on their dynamic and frankly, even if they were meeting twice a night, every night, it's up to them.
Conversely, if a couple never meets, it's not too little either.
I do think that often people judge others based on their own morals and what they consider to be 'right', this would be a much better world if we all let others manage their own lives as they see fit and look to our own business. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the issue?
As you pointed out there was no wrong or right answer we were just interested to see what people think, I personally don’t give a rats arse how many times people play, as we said we just was curious that’s all "
I wasn't having a go, it is an attitude that I've seen though; "they have x number of veris, so therefore..." |
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"As you say, there's no right or wrong answer. In the past I've gone with a partner twice in a week, some times several times a month.
The simple thing is that often couples go to clubs just to be social and to play with each other. It entirely depends on their dynamic and frankly, even if they were meeting twice a night, every night, it's up to them.
Conversely, if a couple never meets, it's not too little either.
I do think that often people judge others based on their own morals and what they consider to be 'right', this would be a much better world if we all let others manage their own lives as they see fit and look to our own business. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the issue?
As you pointed out there was no wrong or right answer we were just interested to see what people think, I personally don’t give a rats arse how many times people play, as we said we just was curious that’s all
I wasn't having a go, it is an attitude that I've seen though; "they have x number of veris, so therefore..." "
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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago
Yorkshire - but we travel a lot |
"As you say OP there's no right or wrong answer only the one individuals are comfortable with themselves.
Without suggesting you are being judgemental, because I'm not, but to pick up on one of your points, if peoples "hobby" was something non-sexual that they were doing together (if a couple) persuing it every weekend wouldn't necessarily be considered "too much" or that "something was missing", in fact most would look on it as a good thing they had a shared interest, so why should it be different because their "hobby" happens to be sex?"
Yes, agree with this, well put |
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