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Ever been spotted by someone you know?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if anyone has ever been spotted by someone they know on here? If so what happened? Not sure if it is my biggest fantasy or biggest worry lol. |
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever been spotted by someone they know on here? If so what happened? Not sure if it is my biggest fantasy or biggest worry lol."
Ive just today spotted a woman i know has just joined. I messaged to say hi, welcome to fab, but didnt send pic. She has one up so i knew who it was. Wont say anything tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Met a few in public. It's what discretion is for....apart from one couple (Paul and Betty...you know I mean you) who quite loudly and openly arranged a meet in the milk and cheese aisle of local tesco.
Met my current housemate on fab...and a couple of really good lady friends who are no longer on. But not sure that counts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it not etiquette to not acknowledge tho maybe a cheeky wink but not to run up to them and go..”hey loved yer pics and tits” lol i wouldnt want anybody engaging in convo this is very private for us and thats part of the excitement |
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By *ust4fun26Couple
over a year ago
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Yes - in a club. Someone one of us worked with spotted a colleague, all kept our distance that night but decided to be adults about it and met up. Had many a happy play date since and now we are all friends  |
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By *erlin76Man
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Yes, messaged someone local on here who requested face and cock pics on their profile.
Their initial response was I know you 
10 messages later, after stringing me along and sending my anxiety through the roof, she sent me a face pic.
We went to the same school and gad worked together too.
Since then we have been to a club a few times and had a bit of fun |
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"Yes a couple off here..said via message they actually already knew us when I sent a hello...
It was our daughter's best friend's mum and dad. Lol
Oh gosh I would move house
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No we invited them round to play.. |
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We were spotted in Chams one night by someone who knew us. Within a week they informed our families and workmates about our private life. They very carefully hid thier identity spreading the news anonymously. It caused two of our family to break up and a load of aggro for all sorts of people
We know who the person is We are just waiting for the last bit of absolute evidence and then we will strike. They have got so much to lose
G&A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, two couples we know from Doncaster business circles, but only because they had face pics on their profiles.
However, we never mentioned anything, but then why would we, but realising that they were in the same site as us and seeing their pics was a turn on.
And no, we wouldn't ever play with them, the old adage about mixing business & pleasure holds true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few times...
The couple I bought my house off and have played with them a few times.
One of my neighbours who I’m now good friends with.
A friend from school, someone from the gym and few others too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recognised a few guys in town. Also a personal trainer from my gym.
Have you messaged any of them? "
Gym guy texted me. I told him I knew him. We chatted in the gym after but not about fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recognised a few guys in town. Also a personal trainer from my gym.
Have you messaged any of them?
Gym guy texted me. I told him I knew him. We chatted in the gym after but not about fab."
I’d definitely like to see you in the gym xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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few times, once at a client site. Nothing you get the look, they look at you, then as I'm crap with faces and member of some kink sites also. I try to work out where I know them from and from which site.
I've also met someone I know at a club, but as we were both there for the same thing it was not awkward at all.
I rather open with my lifestyle in my personal life most of my friends know. I only don't mix business but in 20 years never had any issues with people I know in different walks of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not me (although I saw one couple in a nightclub). But somebody told me a story in Chams about a girl he used to go there with. They walked in one night, and no sooner had she stepped in, she was darting out again. Apparently the first person she saw was her dad at the bar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on here, but on a fetish social network I had someone message me saying they remembered me from primary school and that they were new and had questions. I thought it was a bit weird, so I changed my username and now I keep face photos private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I don’t mind at all. It’s the ones that start with the whole ‘in not telling you who I am though’ thing that really get my goat.
Immaturity at its finest"
Oh yes ..I get this a few times. Not as often as you though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was first on scene to a car accident not so long ago and one of the neighbours came out to help (bodies everywhere )
And we had played.... that was awkward lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few times, people I went to school with.
I know a couple of women from the Scotland forum but they don’t show face pics and is never approach and say I’ve guessed who you are. I can’t stand one of them but I’d never ‘Out’ someone. I leave then to do their thing and I’ll do mine.
Annoying thing is I am desperate to go to the local club and they and another couple women from my town go regularly  I don’t want to blow my girl we  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of times for us, its a hazard of living in such a small village. So we have to be carefull of what pics we display as we both have very noticable tattoos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had it a couple of times, years ago on my single fem account. Mainly guys I went to school with. All said same thing to me... Didn't expect you to be doing this, you are a dark horse etc etc.
Been spotted a few times shopping but only ever had 1 utter idiot approach me whilst I had my child with me. it didn't go well for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Twice lol.
1. Was a guy and his wife who I knew from a local shop. Then realised they lived next door but one to a family member of mine haha
2. A girl I went right through school with. Known her since we were kids and we ended up chatting alot since. Just a shame we are 300 miles apart now or that would have been ALOT of fun x (See Veri) |
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A woman I had gone on 2 dates with 8 years ago joined fab and messaged me, we ended up meeting a few times and it was amazing. Sadly it ended but I felt really grateful that the opportunity came up because she is stunning and could have ended up messaging one of a thousand different guys |
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By *iggingMan
over a year ago
Oldham |
"Just wondering if anyone has ever been spotted by someone they know on here? If so what happened? Not sure if it is my biggest fantasy or biggest worry lol."
would you let the person know you had seen them?
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Not actually on here, but I got a message from the gaffer of my regular boozer's daughter, on another "fetish" site!
On here I've seen somebody that I know from way back, I tried to say hello but I'm filtered out so that's that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost certainly I have. Was chatting with a couple last week on here, they asked for a face pic and next thing I was blocked. Just felt like a panic block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently someone I used to work with, but it wasn’t creepy or anything, more that he recognised me when we messaged his couples profile. Nothing of him to identify him so didn’t realise. We simply agreed wouldn’t happen and that was that- didn’t tell me who they were though, lol.
Someone I know from burlesque events- again fine, as I like them as friends, and hadn’t altered our friendship as our private lives don’t concern each other., and see them whenever at the events
The worst was someone I don’t know, from my old village, who ended up stalking me, or the people who message me on social media but don’t tell me who they are x
Viv xx |
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Yep, we messaged a quine I went to school with and was my drinking buddy. Obv we didn't see her face or knew who she was, I had msged her for some one on one girly fun and she recognised me straight away. But it was in no way awkward. We couldn't give a fuck who sees us in here. They are in no place to judge lol. |
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Yes it has happened a couple of times. I trust that the people who are on here are looking for fun like the rest of us and not to make drama about it. If anyone I know we’re to contact me on here I wouldn’t have an issue with it. |
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Bumped into a few people we know in clubs and had a couple message us on here, hasn’t really been a problem for the most part.
Occasionally get people who say they know us but won’t say who they are so not much we can do with that |
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"Yes, my daughter's ex boyfriend. He spotted me on here. That was an interesting conversation. 
How did that go? "
I could have done without being told that he secretly lusted after me whilst he was with my daughter. I mean, did he really think that conversation was going to end well? I knew I didn't like him originally very much for the way he treated her but he proved just what a total wanker he was. |
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There’s a girl who I used to work with on here, there was always office stories about her being a swinger/using swinging websites but I always dismissed it as no more than office rumour. Til I found her profile last year.
Haven’t approached her though as I don’t think that’s cool but I would definitely love to fuck her. |
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Char recently opened a single profile of her own and got a message from someone (with no name or pics) claiming to work with me (and naming where we work) and would she like a meet while I was at work?
Refused to identify himself, but yes, it seems someone has spotted me
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes a local spot was used be both cruisers and doggers and a was a girl I know out one night but was no big deal as we both know about each other she actually rang me the next day asked if I’d gotten up to anything lol |
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