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Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year
2. If you were taking her 70 miles away to a guys house, isn't it right to ask him for some fuel money to help cover the cost of driving that distance? I asked her to ask for fuel money when we go long distance and she kicked off
3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?
4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who is this lady you're talking about?
I have messaged you, can't post username on here for obvious reasons"
Haha I wasn't asking for any name.. bit of a history as how you got to know her etc. |
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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago
manchester |
"Who is this lady you're talking about?
I have messaged you, can't post username on here for obvious reasons
Haha I wasn't asking for any name.. bit of a history as how you got to know her etc."
my and gf tried skype with 1 couple and 1 male wow never known gf so horny
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She suggested social Skype Tuesday evening 9pm to midnight
Please let me know if u want to join |
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I met her on fab, she replied to one of my forum posts about me complaining about going to another meet then the lady not turning up, saying message me, ill meet ya then it went from there, took here out once or twice then she started taking the piss, for about a year, now I've had enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one has to fuck anybody regardless of any help given. About the rest, you needed some ground rules and, if thinks feel shit walk away.
I have walked away, I'm not been made a mug off "
Good, you’ve done the right thing mate. Onwards and upwards now go enjoy yourself. |
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my and gf tried skype with 1 couple and 1 male wow never known gf so horny
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She suggested social Skype Tuesday evening 9pm to midnight
Please let me know if u want to join
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Not interested |
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"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?
Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion. "
I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?
Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.
I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers"
So bitch about her on here ok!
But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no. |
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"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?
Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.
I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers
So bitch about her on here ok!
But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no. "
Put it this way she never took no for an answer |
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"Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year
2. If you were taking her 70 miles away to a guys house, isn't it right to ask him for some fuel money to help cover the cost of driving that distance? I asked her to ask for fuel money when we go long distance and she kicked off
3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?
4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"
Dont sound much of a lady mate,, shes taking you for a twat, and youre allowing her to. Fuck it off, blick numbers delete her contact details and forget it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year
2. If you were taking her 70 miles away to a guys house, isn't it right to ask him for some fuel money to help cover the cost of driving that distance? I asked her to ask for fuel money when we go long distance and she kicked off
3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?
4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"
lol hey get a new one    |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year
2. If you were taking her 70 miles away to a guys house, isn't it right to ask him for some fuel money to help cover the cost of driving that distance? I asked her to ask for fuel money when we go long distance and she kicked off
3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?
4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"
. It sounds like you are been taken for a mug.To me it’s coming across that you are a unpaid chauffeur and a cash machine.You need to man up if you can’t afford to pay for 70 mile trips tell her to pay something towards it.It wouldn’t be fair to expect the other guy to pay towards your travel because I am guessing he is providing the free accommodation for you all to have fun or though it sounds like she is having the fun and you are paying for it. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?
Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.
I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers"
Why should they? She's chosen to travel, if that's not affordable don't do it. If he was travelling to her I'd expect him to pay the costs.
As for her rejecting you, yes she can reject you as much as she likes. She's not obliged to fuck you because you give her a lift.
If the arrangement isn't suiting you,end it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year
2. If you were taking her 70 miles away to a guys house, isn't it right to ask him for some fuel money to help cover the cost of driving that distance? I asked her to ask for fuel money when we go long distance and she kicked off
3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?
4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"
1. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride
2. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride
3. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride
4. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?
Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.
I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers
So bitch about her on here ok!
But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no.
Put it this way she never took no for an answer "
Put it this way you know the situation before transporting her but you still did it!
Oh by the way you owe me £5000 for the consultation fee but as I am not interested at all in sexual contact with you then you won't pay it even though im not taking no for an answer.
The reality of this situation is you don't care about the fuel you are just pissed you didn't get your end away.
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By *reg88gMan
over a year ago
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"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?
Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.
I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers
So bitch about her on here ok!
But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no.
Put it this way she never took no for an answer
Put it this way you know the situation before transporting her but you still did it!
Oh by the way you owe me £5000 for the consultation fee but as I am not interested at all in sexual contact with you then you won't pay it even though im not taking no for an answer.
The reality of this situation is you don't care about the fuel you are just pissed you didn't get your end away.
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"I met her on fab, she replied to one of my forum posts about me complaining about going to another meet then the lady not turning up, saying message me, ill meet ya then it went from there, took here out once or twice then she started taking the piss, for about a year, now I've had enough"
She will only take the piss if you allow her to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sure you already know the answer to all your questions.
How you act on that is up to you.
Just remember,self worth is always better than no worth at all. |
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"I think I know who you mean virtually everyone up here has her as verification she is clearly mugging you off just ignore her "
Think i know who it is now and she'll probably be whinging in the forums soon about needing a lift. |
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People only get taken advantage of like this if someone lets them. I assume you drove her about because you got something out of it or more to the point didn't that's why you are blubbing. Maybe you should be telling her all this rather than us its rather childish in reality. Just ignore her block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn’t sound like you were her bf, but like others have said, a taxi service. She took advantage and just used and abused you. ‘Kicking off’ and not taking no for answer, is just wrong. Let it go now and move on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She’s taking you for a ride pal.
I have taken my other half to meets locally and before now dropped her off at Chams, which is about 45 miles away, before headed back home to start a shift at work, then picked her up afterwards. It’s only because I was tired that we didn’t have sex when we got home. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Can't believe you let that go on for a year. Regardless of feelings you have to let people go when you know too well they're taking the piss. It's a hard thing to do when feelings are involved and you want something so much but don't let common sense be overlooked. Easier said than done I know.
Set yourself ground rules for anyone who comes into your life and if they don't meet the mark send them on their way. Believe me people will respect you more for it knowing that you have standards and expectations, without them you're pretty much asking to be walked over.
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"If you say you're done - time to delete her veri and the bit in your profile where you also mention her.
Or would she not like that..?!"
Its not who's mentioned on my profile, it's someone else who I have already taken the verifications down from |
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